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i want to be the best i can be 25 // they // tme nonbinary lesbian

[guccipherous]

trans girl snoopy

[bunniope]

unfortunately if i am as clear about expressing my emotions as i need to be i will be killed with a gun

[guccipherous]

sobbing because nobody will ever truly know and love me. totally not related to the fact i am about to get my period

[typewriter-worries]

I'll Eat You Up, I Love You So

A Primer For the Small Weird Loves, Richard Siken | The Embrace II, Ron Hicks | Henry and June: From “A Journal of Love,” The Unexpurgated Diary (1931-1932) of Anaïs Nin, Henry Miller (@theoptia) | the night belongs to lovers, Ilaria Ratti | Dark. Sweet.: New & Selected Poems, Linda Hogan (@feral-ballad) | Intimacy, Angelica Alzona | Shame is an Ocean I Swim Across, Mary Lambert (@synbeam) | The Kiss, Edvard Munch | Summer Morn in New Hampshire, Claude McKay

[pocket-deer-belly]

you do not need to protect men from transfemininity. you need to save girls.

[notdeezy]

Today is the day to post this

[guccipherous]

i need to talk about my needs so establish a baseline of what is importsnt to me in a relationship. and that makes me feel like i’m going to be shot

[escuerzoresucitado]

[guccipherous]

my lover is coming over to celebrate my cats first birthday on monday :) i’m making big shrimp

[guccipherous]

big shrimp + lesbianism

[superbowlsunday]

ON TUMBLR FOR HALF MY LIFE

[lowpawly]

this is my impression of what it would look like if the toddlers at my job could make traumacore edits about me

[crumbofmoon]

i fuck with this heavily

[guccipherous]

losing my mind had to report sexual misconduct to the lesbian sex council and now i am anxiously awaiting an email where i will have to meet people and tell them what happened and i am suddenly 18 and crying in some random building at school. i dont even interact with the lesbian sex council!! i just got hurt by someone who does!!

[quantumshade]

everyone be quiet. marsha with her snoopy.

[misogyny-affected]

“gay trans boys always have ‘bi’ boyfriends who are actually straight and see them as women” you are normalizing abuse

trans men, and especially younger trans boys, who are attracted to men are specifically targeted by abusers who attempt to limit their transitions and ignore their boundaries, especially sexual boundaries. trans men are told growing up that under patriarchy, our value comes from our bodies, and that by transitioning we ruin this. this leads to a belief that once we transition we will be unloveable, and that the pleasure our bodies bring to men is more important than what we want. this makes trans men incredibly vulnerable to this type of abuse.

and yet, instead of addressing these boyfriends as abusers, the queer community laughs about it. many of these jokes are self deprecating jokes by trans men, yet they rarely call out the dynamic as abusive. when non trans men make these jokes, it is even worse, making fun of minorities for being victims of abuse

if you see a trans man, especially a younger trans boy in a relationship like this, treat it as seriously as you would any other type of abuse

[steveyockey]

I saw tv glow is like YES the realization you are trans might implode your life and make the world you live in uninhabitable but that will happen anyway if you don’t do anything about it. if you retreat from your own needs and refuse to let yourself resurrect you’re still gonna run out of air and even the tv show that kept you alive at one point won’t be able to bring you back

[delicatelymorbid]

smoking that strain of weed that makes you wanna beg a lesbian to put a baby inside you