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[glowcowboy]

healing is when you have an intrusive thought and instead of having a meltdown you go “girl what?? shut up” and move on

[pathologising]

its so awesome that everything good that happens to me has to be followed by immense suffering of some kind every single time

[honeypleasejustkillme]

“that’s ok i understand!!!!” but it actually made me sick to my stomach

[wetheurban]

May you release the habit of being stuck, waiting for the "right time." May you start creating it with your choices.

[junglejim4322]

You’re in her dms I left her on read for 6 weeks because I’m emotionally incompetent

[finalgrrrl]

no woman should ever have to explain why she doesnt do something to her body.... 'why don't you wear makeup?' 'why don't you shave?' like. thats what i look like. idk what to tell you

[achillesinhighheels]

wtf is a situationship.. don’t ever put me in a situation

[lilmissvirgo-deactivated2022070]

[soundcarvings]

Just say the weird thing!!! you will attract a crazy girl who wants to be your best friend.

[moonlitswims-deactivated2024010]

by Holly Warburton

[senatortedcruz]

I am calling for a total and complete ban on tiktok pop psychology until we can figure out what the hell is going on

[1anonyymous1]

sometimes u just gotta stand in the shower

and leave this dimension

[papayajuan2019]

men dont sit cross cross applesauce within their assigned carpet square anymore

[neodoodles24]

[bearspiritmara-deactivated20240]

Bad pain days are literally the worst.

You didn't do anything abnormal to warrant the flare-up. You did all of your physical therapy stretches and exercises to manage the pain. You took your meds. You did everything right.

But the pain still flares. You're still crumpled in a chair, on the floor, on the bed, or in the tub desperately trying to get that pain to go back down to your "normal" which would still cripple the average human being...

And the worst part? No one fucking believes you when you say your pain is elevated.

"But you look fine?" "Have you tried stretching?" "tHe mOrE yOu MoVe, tHe bEtTeR yOu'LL fEeL!" <- Worst one. "Have you taken your meds?" "Rotate heat and ice!" "I think you're just overexaggerating and it's making you feel worse than you actually are." "No one can be in that much pain and not be in the ER. Suck it up! I have knee pain, too." <- I hate this one.

And at first you listened. At first you tried every suggestion handed to you. Then you realized those suggestions don't fucking work for you because this isn't a pain that normal people have.

Anyway, if you're having a bad pain day, I salute you in solidarity. Your pain is real. You're not alone. People just suck and don't understand.

So take care of yourself, okay? It's okay to rest.

[serial-unaliver-deactivated2024]

how supervisors look at you when you remind them labor laws exist

[busket]

mutuals if i like your negative posts please just imagine me patting u on the back comforting you, not like i actually like that you’re hurt