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[succulentbud]

the worst take to ever come out of social media is “fiction does not equal reality”, when. the Jaws Effect is literally right there and proves just how much of an impact media truly has on people’s psyche

[succulentbud]

Jaws Effect: *had real life negative effects on the shark population as a whole cause Jaws made people afraid of them even though they kill so very few people*

Fandom moms who think antis are real: distinguish from reality and fiction, sweetie! it doesn’t hurt anyone!

[bundibird]

Instances of fiction affecting reality:

Antisemetic propaganda in the form of children’s books in the lead up to the holocaust that directly impacted and shaped people’s opinions of Jews and got actual real life people killed

Comic books since the dawn of comic books, particularly the Captain America comics, which were created to draw attention to the plight Jewish people were facing in Germany and which are credited with having had a major influence on convincing the US to join the Allies in the world war

The documented “Harry Potter effect,” which has influenced an entire generation of people in how we think and what we’re likely to accept/not accept

These are just examples off the top of my head that I thought of in a second while dealing with a headache, tiredness and hunger pains. There are countless more examples.

“Fiction doesn’t effect reality” fiction has literally been used as a deliberate tool to shape public opinion, behaviour, and perceptions since fiction was invented.

[huhnymph]

fiction is so deeply impactful, like, the ways of looking we internalise unconsciously thru classical narrative (mainly hollywood) cinema actually work to keep the patriarchy in power

[gundham-against-terfs]

sometimes i want to go onto this hellsite just to see the shitposts but mr people-who-arent-harming-anyone-are-cringey#776 will have the biggest take of the year on my dash and i want to die immediately knowing these kinds of people exist and must hate themselves so much for it

[michaelmilkers]

its so fucking stupid and counterproductive that encouraging radical acceptance isnt a more common thing in the trans community

because like. we’re never gonna be cis. ever. no amount of wishing or wanting or daydreaming will make us cis. the bodies we have are the bodies we will have until the day we die, and even if we choose to take steps to modify or change them to our liking they are trans bodies. they will never not be trans bodies.

and when i try to bring this up to people even if im really gentle about the way i word it half the time i get told im “lucky” bc i like myself (completely ignoring the fact that i worked really hard to accept myself and my transhood, i’m not just talking out of my ass here) and the other half i get accused of being transphobic for, i dont know, suggesting that people try to not be miserable all of the fucking time???

fantasizing about being cis wont make you cis! imagining an idealized cis version of yourself wont make you cis! spending every waking moment of your life hating yourself and lamenting about “being born into the wrong body” wont make you cis! separating and disassociating yourself as much as possible from your transhood wont make you cis! i know that for some even with transitioning dysphoria is just a fact of life and will always be present in at least some capacity but there ARE ways to decrease it and make it more managable and it starts with accepting the fact that YOU ARE AND WILL ALWAYS BE TRANS. that is your reality. so its time to roll up our goddamn sleeves and get to work improving our own lives instead of just collectively sitting on our asses and despairing.

cis people dont even breathe on this post

[mihottakes]

For a lot of trans people, being trans isn’t a central part of one’s being; yes, it is a huge part of one’s life, but it doesn’t necessarily always define us. I think it’s fine to distance yourself from being trans, because for a lot of people it is something that causes dysphoria and discomfort. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to distance yourself from something that does that.

[michaelmilkers]

sorry this conversation was intended for people with a basic level of intelligence truscum can go sit at the kids table:

[exgynocraticgrrl-archive-deacti]

Tony Porter: A Call To Men "Tony is the original visionary and co-founder behind A CALL TO MEN: The National Association of Men and Women Committed to Ending Violence Against Women. He is the author of "Well Meaning Men...Breaking Out of the Man Box - Ending Violence Against Women" and the visionary for the book, NFL Dads Dedicated to Daughters. Tony's message of accountability is welcome and supported by many grassroots and established organizations. He’s currently working with numerous domestic and sexual violence programs, the National Football League, the National Basketball Association, colleges and universities around the country. He has worked with the United States Military Academy at West Point and the United States Naval Academy at Annapolis. Tony is an international lecturer for the U.S. State Department having worked in the Democratic Republic of the Congo, United Kingdom and Brazil. In addition, he has been a guest presenter for the United Nations' Commission on the Status of Women and has been a script consultant for Law & Order: Special Victims Unit." - (x)

[stfumras]

THIS is what a men’s rights activist should be.  

[wrath-the-furious-deactivated20]

straight up a damn good example of what an MRA should be. 

he not only addresses violence against women, but also all of the negative things that affect men as well. brilliant. 

[turing-tested]

i like tiktok and all but im very much not a fan of trans boys on it who regularly cosplay girl characters referring to themselves as tr*ps or making jokes about how "WHOOPS IM ACTUALLY A MAN you're GAY" as if "you thought this was a woman but actually this person is a MAN in a DRESS" hasn't literally been the basis of nearly every transmisogynstic joke in media for going on years now or as if they shoulder nearly any of the risk from a potential partner killing them bc they felt misled

[turing-tested]

the transphobic cishet dude you think you're tricking into being gay doesn't care about your gender. that's why he thinks trans women are horrible and make him gay, and the same applies to you but in reverse. that's why they're more at risk. you're not doing anything but showing exactly how much privledge you have that you feel comfortable being like 'haha SIKE I'm a man' as if bi/het trans women aren't fucking terrified that the same dude you think you're pulling one over on will think the SAME thing about them.

the jokes you're making are literally the way that transphobic cishet men think about trans women, so why do you think it's you're place to get to make that joke in the first place? what are you reclaiming? why do you get to reclaim a joke that has never been used to kill people like you?

[endertrender]

It’s the transmisogyny

[parkistan]

What she says: I’m fine What she means: Gandhi was a racist, misogynist, sexist who said that the rape of a woman was her own fault. He slept with naked underage girls to test his celibacy and degraded them to mere sex objects. He talked foul things about his own wife, said that menstruation was the manifestation of the distortion of a woman’s soul, and yet he’s praised by the world for ‘bringing peace’.

[the-arachnocommunist]

He also regularly beat his wife, he was extremely antiblack and a vocal supporter of apartheid in South Africa, and said during the Holocaust that Jews should commit mass suicide to shame the Germans instead of resisting. And this is just for starters.

[sigma-enigma]

For those who want sources (myself included because I’d never learned/heard of this before):

http://theconversation.com/ghana-university-row-re-ignites-debate-about-mahatma-gandhis-racism-67269

http://www.sup.org/books/title/?id=26014

http://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-india-34265882

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2010/jan/27/mohandas-gandhi-women-india

[sarahwys-deactivated20220315]

Also he withheld pain relief medication from his sick wife because ‘its against gawddd’ or whatever… 

But the moment he was ill, he had no problem accepting pain relief medication

[veerletakino]

What a prick

[shoyowo]

Yep!!! He ain’t all great as the world makes him out to be (:

[egotistical-boi-deactivated2019]

Fuck Gandhi

[egotistical-boi-deactivated2019]

Damn straight

[youbetispokane]

Also his mass passive resistance movement would absolutely have not succeeded without the Indian naval mutiny and freedom fighters like Baghat Singh

[fandomshatepeopleofcolor]

For all the idiots who like to quote Ghandi to me when I say that pacifism against fascists isn’t a reasonable stance to take.

Mod TZ

[gundham-against-terfs]

trucore is not having any sex ever

[ftmseparationist]

no surprise here, ppl who suffer from actual dysphoria are a lot less likely to have sex

[gundham-against-terfs]

[sympolite]

the virgin Transmedicalist Transmasc vs the chad Openly Nonbinary Transmasc

[debug-fly]

[aromoji]

Yikes

[yorksilk]

Nobody is lgbt. None of us.

[demoncourse]

the exclusionists have won. They’ve excluded everyone. My god.

[demoncourse]

@queer-butch

[omegaverse]

republican bitches really be having babies with their military husbands at age 18, moving to the middle of fuck empty USA and being like "this... Is living ❤️"

[weareallstilllearningright]

Ah yes, let's make fun of the 18 year old children that have been led to believe their goal in life is to be a wife and are statisticly likely to expereince DV due to marrying a member of law enforcement/military. I'm sure calling them slurs will solve it. Lol. Dumb bitches amiright lads?

[yassss-black-diaspora]

Progressive mysogyny is fucking wild lmao

[furiosafemale]

Putting "republican" in front of "bitches" doesn't suddenly evaporate the underlying misogyny.

@omegaverse do you think they came this conclusion all by themselves? Where did they get the idea that the ideal life is getting married at 18 to a man in the military? Did they come up with the idea themselves? But then how could all of these 18 years be coming up with the same idea???

[anti-funshine]

its not that deep and im pretty sure op is a woman. don’t be stupid, stupid.

[furiosafemale]

Thank you for clarifying yours and OPs inability to think deeply.

Also, name calling. Really mature. You're only 17, I guess that's to be expected.

Honestly, OP is saying some bullshit and is getting called out. It's not that deep. Why make a statement about a subject you don't actually want to get into or think about on a deep level?

Why are you here?

[anti-funshine]

im here bc op is a 20 year old black woman who is allowed to say whatever she wants, just because you got offended of her own “slur” reclamation doesn’t mean its that deep. it never was that deep and it will be that deep. please go outside.

[furiosafemale]

I am literally in a store right now. Internet access is everywhere, honey.

Wow, OP can say what she wants, and so can I! Her being black honestly has nothing to do with it. She doesn't have MORE right than me to say what she wants.

I also think "reclaiming" slurs is bullshit. How is calling other women you don't like bitches at all constructive?

[anti-funshine]

That’s me rn ^

[furiosafemale]

Lol I'm not mad, it's just a shitty joke. What you're doing is backpedalling. Your picture doesn't even make sense. Explain to me what's so funny about what OP said. If it's not that deep, it shouldn't be too hard to explain.

I think you don't actually know what you're talking about and have inserted yourself into this conversation for who knows what reason, maybe because you are also a 20 year old black woman, so agree with whatever OP says, I dunno.

Yeah people are allowed to say what they want, and people are allowed to disagree and question why you would even say that shit in the first place. Are you really that immature to think anyone has a licence to say whatever they want without consequence? It's a two way street. Stop thinking your shit doesn't stink or wonder why people will tell you that what your saying is trash.

Why does OP being a woman mean it's ok to call other women bitches in a derogatory way? She's not talking about going out clubbing with "her bitches", she's not "buying diamonds for 6 of her bitches", she's shaming women for their political alignment, their personal life choices, and them being practically still children. That's not classy or tasteful, and she's being called out on it. Why are you defending her? You also think it's ok to shit talk 18 year old girls for their choices? You're not gonna even try to understand why they make their choices, you're just gonna call them bitches? Sorry that I have higher standards than that.

Some jokes aren't actually funny and you would know that if you could think a little deeper, honestly.

[anti-funshine]

When will you learn I don’t care and it won’t be that deep EVER

[furiosafemale]

You care enough to keep responding, and you cared enough to interject in the first place.

[anti-funshine]

im not the one writing paragraphs over a joke

[furiosafemale]

Sorry I'm capable of writing multiple paragraphs cause I can think more deeply...?What is with people on this website and being incapable of reading more than two paragraphs? Is it cause I've been to university or something? Go read some Foucault or something omg.

I don't find misogyny funny, why do you?

I also find it telling when people start resorting to memes or GIFs as if it adds anything to what they are saying. Lol.

Deny. Attack. Reverse Victim and Offender. Good job on helping OP avoid being held accountable for their behavior. Cause it's just a joke right? Fuck those republican bitches lol amirite?

[anti-funshine]

Yeah fuck the republican bitches and fuck you for being a radfem. Hoes mad! Hoes mad! Hoes mad! Hoes mad! Hoes mad!

[furiosafemale]

Are you ok? Take a deep breath, it's not that serious.

Reminds me of the phrase "wrong and strong".

You probably don't even know what radical feminism is.

You can't seem to handle paragraphs so here you go.

[anti-funshine]

I think, perhaps, you should take your own advice there. It’s not that serious. OP’s post was not that serious. It’s a joke.

Also yes you are so right, I am a stupid monkey and cannot handle big words :( it’s lucky I can even read at all! Massa please don’t whip me

[furiosafemale]

I don't get the joke, please explain it to me.

Why do you find blatant misogyny funny?

I'm not the one resorting to calling people names. You called yourself a stupid monkey, I just pointed out your reluctance to read a paragraph, let alone multiple ones.

Why are you still here? Do you have to have the last word or something? You're not even the OP, you're just some next person who won't shut up for some reason but who doesn't actually have anything constructive to say.

I've been waiting this whole time for something intelligent from you but it's just deflection, insults, "it's just a joke", bad memes, and some sort of "OP can do whatever they want", with zero answers to my questions about what is even funny about what they said in the first place.

Oh, and shouting hoes mad! Hoes mad! That was entertaining at least.

[anti-funshine]

[furiosafemale]

Again with the dumbass memes. Lol you have no point!

[anti-funshine]

Its almost like this whole arguement has no point

[gundham-against-terfs]

this is the kinda person to take the stick up their ass with them down to take-everything-literally town

[misgenderisms-deactivated202010]

one time i told a friend “hey we cant be friends anymore if the second you learn my deadname you use it for me.” and then she shut up and never did it again.

[misgenderisms-deactivated202010]

what I’m saying is that you DONT need to take shit from cis “friends”. not respecting your pronouns? you don’t need to be treated like shit. saying you’re a special snowflake? why are you still with them. talking shit about you behind your back about your gender identity? LEAVE THEM!!!!

PLEASE dont feel obligated to stay with transphobic friends. they arent worth  it.

[nonbinaryqueerzim-deactivated20]

Me: [takes off my binder in my house]

Transmed: [breaks in through the window and draws me like this]

[grimehands-deactivated20200111]

made a meme using @mens-rights-activia’s template

[yirenqueer]

What trans jokes are:

“I’m abab. Assigned Bastard at birth”

“What’s your gender?” “yeah”

“What’s in your pants?” “a nickel and some lint”

What transphobia masked as ‘jokes’ is:

“Lmao look at that man wearing a dress”

“My pronouns are fuck/fuckself”

“Hey lets talk about this trans person’s sex life and genitals for funsies”

Every single tucute caricature

Know the fuckin’ difference.

[welcometonightgayle]

I genuinely feel sorry for truscum sometimes bc like I see them saying things like “I know I wear Transtrender Glasses but I’m not a trender pls trust me these glasses are old haha,,,” and “I dyed my hair pink but please believe that I’m not a trender the color pink has always been been my favorite please please don’t hate me” like it must be fucking awful being under such pressure constantly from your community and feeling like people within it are looking for any chance to stab you in the back because you make the wrong move and dress the wrong way, Jesus

[chemicataclysm]

Hewwo all you gamers! I updated the picrew today!!! Some of the new stuff I added is -8 new front hairs and 7 new back hairs -Eye patches and eye bandages -Vitiligo options -BROWN EYES (i cant believe i forgot those in the first version) -4 new hands (one has a tangle jr for all my fellow stimmers!) -Buttons -New outfits -New backgrounds -Hijabs in 14 different colors/patterns -Overlays And some more small stuff too!! :D Hope u all like it

[hicktrender]

op you’re amazing.

[abandonedabandoned]

CAUSE IM THE RIGHT ONE! ON MY TOUCH TONE TOUCH TONE TELEPHONE

op than you for mothman

[gundham-against-terfs]

i love rats and minecraft

[gundham-against-terfs]

literally what is so bad with them, they look kickass