Neurotypicals will be like “I know you have a disability that affects your ability to stay organized, manage your time properly, socialize, or control what you’re able to think about or focus on, but that’s not an excuse to have trouble staying organized, managing your time properly, socializing, or controlling what you need to think about or focus on.” And then demand that they aren’t ableist. I’m tired.
“You’re a man adult, you need to figure it out!” Without any assistance from the people around you, who barely can acknowledge that this is a legitimate thing with your brain and not just laziness, even when you’ve been diagnosed and have been waiting for over a year and a half for the doctor who diagnosed you to just send your records to your primary doctor so you can be treated!
