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When you let a bug out of your car, do they have to start a new life in a new town? Do they have to live the odyssey, bug style, to get home to their bug wife, or mayhaps are they on the lam...
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i need feminism because when jesus does a magic trick itās a goddamn miracle but when a woman does a magic trick she gets burned at the stake
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i mean they did also kill jesus. that was a pretty significant thing that happened. like i understand where youāre coming from here but they very much did kill jesus.
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Cats getting caught doing crimes
it takes quite a bit of social intelligence for a creature to understand:
I know what I am doing is wrong
I know there is an activity that looks similar that is not wrong
If I am quick I can plausibly pass one off as the other
these cats are displaying remarkable theory of mind skills by not only registering that the humans can perceive them but actively trying to manipulate that perception! that requires one to be aware that other individuals have complicated interior thoughts of their own, to know that those thoughts are not always based on truth, and to quickly decide on the best possible ālieā for the situation. this is why I despise animal intelligence tasks based on obedienceā some of the most clever moments stem from intelligent disobedience.
So, you know how certain Christian missionaries are trained to act in a very obnoxious way, so that most people they preach to will reject them outright, so they feel like the world hates them for being Christian and they can only be friends with fellow Christians? You know that thing?
I think as activists, we sometimes need to stop and ask ourselves whether we're acting like those missionaries. I think this type of behavior is a little more ingrained into our society than some of us realize, and some of us have internalized it without realizing what it's actually meant to do.
OP I know that this is probably a different direction than you were going, but genuinely this advice would do so so much to help people not fall into secular political cults.
A lot of high control groups use this tactic to isolate their members. Itās absolutely not just evangelizing Christians. New age wellness cults often encourage their members to make outlandish and offensive accusations regarding the mental and physical health of other people or their children, because they know that the backlash their members receive will reinforce the idea that the āmainstreamā simply has no room for people who like crystals and essential oils. White supremacist cults will seed the vocabulary of new recruits with Nazi dog whistles that fly over those recruits heads, specifically so that they will get clocked as possible neo-Nazis and shunned by anyone who might offer them another perspective and help them to get out before itās too late. And a lot of left-leaning political cults strongly encourage members to share their views in the most inflammatory ways possible, and then say āyou see? everyone outside of this small circle is evil and cannot be relied onā when, inevitably, that produces bad results.
Sometimes I think that activists fall into these patterns completely accidentally, either because they were raised in culturally Christian evangelical environments and never unpacked it, or else because they just arenāt any good at approaching things in a non-inflammatory way and no oneās shown them how.
ā¦But sometimes, these structures emerge in activist circles because those circles are legitimately becoming high control groups.
I think some things to watch out for especially in this regard are:
Are you being directed to behave in an extremely hostile and alienating way? (even if itās by someone who you trust!)
Does the group you are in immediately shut down any conversation about the effectiveness of an antagonistic strategy? In particular, do they shut that conversation down using in-group stock phrases?
Is experiencing harsh rejection seen as something of a rite of passage?
Do you receive more validation from the group you are in after you have been rejected by someone outside the group than at any other time?
Have you ever been concerned that the antagonistic strategy you are using hurt someone you cared about, only to be quickly advised by members of the group that that person was toxic and that you should actually completely cut them out of your life?
These to me are all pretty significant red flags about the group in question, whatever the specific thing that brings people together there is. If you start noticing them in a group that you are a part of, be that an in-person activist circle or a Discord server or anything in between, take a step back and seriously consider the possibility that the good thing that you joined is turning into something different, and possibly dangerous.
In the words of Jonestown survivor Deborah Layton, āNobody joins a cult. You join a self-help group, a religious movement, a political organization. They change so gradually, by the time you realize youāre entrapped ā and almost everybody does ā you canāt figure a safe way back out.ā
this is a pdf detailing the BITE model of authoritarian control, a method for determining whether or not you're in a cult.
even if you feel confident you are not and have never been in a cult, it's a good idea to familiarize yourself with the signs, just in case one begins to sneak up on you in the future.
Ok, I actually want to talk about this for a moment.
Jonestown, one of the most infamous cults in history, with a mass suicide / mass murder that left more than 900 people dead of cyanide poisoning, hundreds of whom were children⦠was a leftist political cult. That fact is an unambiguous and completely undebatable matter of historical record.
This isnāt a footnote in the story of Jonestown, and it isnāt a weird anti-leftist gotcha either. Jonestown attracted people to their cause with anti-segregation and anti-poverty activist work, and they did actual, meaningful good for those causes. The Peopleās Temple was a leftist org, unambiguously. They created mutual aid networks for food aid, and rent assistance, and job placement services, and clothing donations, and winter heating. They leaned heavily on the Indianapolis Human Rights Commission in order to push desegregation, and led sit-ins and boycotts and protests. They participated in significant voter registration efforts. They led the fight against the eviction of tenants from San Francisco's International Hotel.
People joined The Peopleās Temple because it was a good thing when they joined it. They didnāt start out as brainwashed cultists, and they didnāt gravitate towards the leadership of Jim Jones out of masochism, or inherent submissiveness, or a perverse love of creeping authoritarianism. They fell in line under Jim Jones because heād built a community that was genuinely helping people, and was advancing a political cause that seemed worth fighting. They followed Jim Jones because he earned their trust.
Jim Jones then used the trust and the social capital that he had gained from all of the above in order to elevate himself to the status of a messianic figure, and abuse and profit off of his followers. Slowly but surely, he boiled the frog. It was all good ā and then it was mostly good ā and then, well there was some abuse, but it wasnāt that bad, and it wasnāt really his fault ā and then there was a lot of abuse, but the outside world would destroy them if given the chance, so wasnāt it the lesser of the two evils? And then, eventually, it got so bad that hundreds of people poisoned themselves and their children at his command, and murdered everyone in the compound who refused and resisted.
Your cause of choice is not immune from abusers taking advantage of it!
It doesnāt matter if youāre right. It doesnāt matter if your cause is just. It does not matter if your good thing really is a good thing, because there is always the possibility that it will one day be co-opted by a monster. And if the fact that it started good is enough for you to ignore that gradual, subtle change, you could end up in a truly horrible situation.
One of my best friends in undergrad got sucked into a cult. Years later, we talked about it, and he told me something that Iāll never forget which is, itās only when you look all the way back at things that they seem crazy. You start off with things that are totally normal and innocuous: āweāre stronger togetherā; āoppression is badā; āyou can accomplish more if you believe in yourselfā; āempathy is important and we should all try to bring more of it into our livesā; etc. Then, you move to something thatās just a little step away from that. And then again. And then again. And then again. But it never feels like a big jump, because itās not! A -> Z is crazy, but A -> B wasnāt, and B -> C wasnāt, and C -> D wasnāt, andā¦
This friend was smart, and rational, and independent, and normal, and by the time he and his wife left, theyād gone from just thinking that we should all practice more emotional mindfulness, to being terrified that leaving the cult and the cult leader would literally kill them, via the cult leader having magical powers.
If your only analysis is āWhere I started was good, and no single step since then has been crazyā that is utterly insufficient to keep you safe.
āThis canāt possibly be a cult, because when I joined it was a leftist political org and thereās never been a single instance where it suddenly changedā is literally the exact logic that kept people in Jonestown until it was too late.
Also, not to put too fine a point on it- As queer people, disabled people, negatively racialised people, poor people etc, we are VERY vulnerable to cults, because we're already social "outsiders" in some way, so the first step of having strangers reacting in a hostile manner, so as to make the cult seem more appealing, is already there. Many of us have rough relationships with our families, a sense of dissatisfaction and disconnection with the world as-it-is, and a deep unfulfilled need for community. So many of us are only half-joking about "One day I'd love to go and live in a compound in the woods where we grow our own crops and brew our own beer and eat together in the refectory..." and... That's how cults get you.
I remember one time I was doing an ADHD evaluation with a kid who had asked to go to the bathroom like 3 times during the 30-ish minute part of the interview where we asked his mom questions, so I knew that was his go-to excuse when bored. We get started on the WISC-V after the interview and within 30 seconds of vocab starting he asks if he can go to the bathroom, and I say:
āNo.ā
And this kid rolls his eyes because DUH and he says āWhy not?ā all cranky-styles, so I said
āBecause you donāt need to go to the bathroom, youāre bored and you need to move. If you need to move, tell me and Iāll let you know if weāre at a part of the test where we can pause. Like, for example, we can pause right now if you wanna race me around the building.ā
And this kids face fucken LIT up. We did three laps around the outside of the building and came back in and he finished like 3 subtests and asked if he could move so we got up and tried to see how high we could jump for 3 minutes and the finished the rest of the assessment with one bathroom break. And that was all it took tbh, this kid was SO capable he just needed to move and hadnāt been allowed to do so before. I also like making people mad by pointing out that I know what theyāre up to, then just giving them permission to do the thing they were sneakily trying to do in the first place. Itās like being affectionately annoying and itās part of how I connect to others.
I donāt normally repost but holy shit I think this is the best video I think Iāve ever seen in my feed
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its not "complaining" its kvetching and if i dont do it ill explode. god told me
I donāt hang out with white dudes who use mustache wax anymore bc itās only a matter of time b4 they fall in love with me and find out Iām gay and write a song on theirā¦idk..their fuckin harpsichord or banjo or ukulele about the girl from the forest who broke their heart but also they donāt even like hiking
i know this seems oddly specific & thatās bc it is
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