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/dni if you own an hp printer, you've never smelled the damp autumn air and smiled, have never cried while watching a movie, etc
if you are also an immigrant i wanna be friends!!!! ૮꒰ ྀི >⸝⸝⸝< ྀི꒱ა
(kaomiji bellow cut) ૮꒰ ˶• ༝ •˶꒱ა ♡
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don't be mean to yourself that's you
you live there
Let me settle the 'is it fetishism and is it bad?' debate once and for all:
Being attracted to any kind of body is normal. Fat bodies. Trans bodies. Disabled bodies. All normal. Being extra attracted to a specific kind of body is normal too. Totally normal to have a type.
Not unlearning the societal stigma attached to those kinds of bodies, the people who inhabit those bodies, and the people who fuck them, to the point where you do any of the following:
Only want to date/fuck the person in secret.
Reduce the person to the feature that you desire and ignore the rest of who they are as a person.
Expect the person to be a walking porn fantasy instead of a real person with their own sexual preferences and boundaries.
Would no longer love the person if the stigmatized aspect of their body changed.
Consider yourself superior to the person, think the person should be 'grateful' that you love their body, etc.
See the person as a temporary adventure while planning to eventually settle down with someone whose body isn't stigmatized.
Is bad and harmful and you shouldn't be dating anyone until you've worked on your shit, because this makes you a very terrible partner. This doesn't mean you are a bad person with bad-fetishist-desires who can only desire people badly, it means you need to unlearn societal stigma so you can be a better partner to the people you desire.
Thank you for coming to me ted talk.
early to bed and early to rise leaves a man so fucked up that he dies
recently saw a comment section full of people, primarily women, talking about loving living with their best friend and being sad about having to live separately one day. some people talking about missing living with their best friend, some talking about “getting” to live with their best friend “until” they find partners. saw one person mention that moving out to move in with a partner felt like a divorce. it makes me so genuinely sad… all these people recognizing the joy they can find living outside the norm, letting themself live with a friend instead of a romantic partner, but still feeling like they have to live with a spouse eventually. like it’s not even a decision, just an inevitability.
similarly, it makes me sad when someone shares their happiness from living with a friend with others and the biggest response is people insisting/assuming they must have a secret unrecognized romantic connection. just taking over a moment of joy to insist they’re wrong about their own life and feelings; all to reinforce the lifestyle everyone is already expected to conform to eventually…
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i know everyone says they hate being online and i understand why and i get it and its bad and everything but (whispering like i'm at a sleepover) i actually really like being online
When everything in your life is going wrong at the same time like the world is fucking with you in particular and then you remember like ohhhh yeah right it’s because the Eugenic Machinery that is the world is designed to negatively select people like me for the sake of biopolitically managing capital’s pool of labor-power
have you reopened the wound? will you reopen the wound? when will you reopen the wound?
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Black and Brown trans women & transfems are the backbone of the trans women & fem movement, and if you disagree you can eat bricks, mew!
A moment of silence to the trans women & transfems who never got to live authentically.
(PT: A moment of silence to the trans women & transfems who never got to live authentically. /end PT.)
To the ones who spent their entire lives in the closet.
To the ones who were out, but existed before the time of modern silence, and spent their lives unsatisfied yearning for a physical transition.
To the ones who were out, but too poor to access the resources needed to live happily, or lived in a country where it was illegal.
To the ones whose lives were stolen from them due to transmisogynistic violence before they had the chance to spread their wings.
To the ones whose lives were lost due to other forms of violence, accidents, or illness before they had the chance to soar.
To the ones who never felt safe enough or hated themself too much to accept their transness, and died in denial of who they were.
I hope you dont mind me asking.
What's TransID? And what are harmful vs unharmful ones?
Thankies for the question, mew!! 🫶
TransIDs/transidentity is an umbrella term for someone who doesn't always identify with what society assigns them or perceives them as!!
(One common misunderstanding is that "trans" must be stolen from the transgender & transsex community, but in reality, trans as a prefix has existed long before that!!)
Harmless transIDs are things like:
-Transgender and transsex -Transage - many age regressors and syskids use this term!! It's okay as long as they acknowledge chrono minors cannot consent to someone of a chronologically significant age gap! -Transspecies - alterhumans and people with faunagenders use this sometimes! A lot of the time alterhumans & faunagendered people who identify as transspecies are also trying to physically modify their bodies, but that's not inherently the case!! And similar to being transage, it's okay as long as they acknowledge theriform animals cannot consent to them. -Hyperspecific but generally unproblematic things, like "transpinkhair!"
Harmful transIDs are things like:
-Transintersex - Intersex is not a transitional identity, it is a natal (at birth or during puberty without HRT) one!! Same for perisex! Terms like transsex, transhormonal, transgenital, transreproductive, altersex, duomorphic, multisex, nullsex, etc, etc, etc are the correct terms to use!! (link) -Transracial - this term was actually co-opted!! It was coined to refer to interracial adoptees who are integrated into a family with a different race than them, but people stole it and began using it to mean "transitioning into a different race", which is not how that works!! Racial dysphoria exists, but you cannot change your race!! Claiming you can fosters cultural appropriation and fetishization. -Transharmed - basically a desire to be harmed/"transition" to having trauma!! Very unhealthy to treat this as some sort of identity you should transition towards! -Transharmful (the desire to do harm onto others. Again, it's okay if you're having disordered thoughts, but please find a different way to handle it than to treat it like an identity!!
The term transabled can be harmful or nonharmful, depending on its use, mew. 😓 Many people with body integrity identity disorder use the term, and transitioning for them is medically backed (link) if other treatments do not work. But identities like "transautism", "transbipolar", "transPTSD", etc reinforce harmful mindsets for people suffering from factitious disorder.
People with factitious disorder do not need to be encouraged to "transition" to a disability they do not have (and may be fully incapable of ever having, like autism), the treatment for factitious disorder is to help them stray away from that, not facilitate it!! 😟
To be clear, nothing is wrong with having the feelings associated with harmful transIDs. But it's the way people use them for the sake of cultural appropriation, fetishization, or to glorify disordered feelings that is concerning!!
For people with those feelings, terms like identity incongruence (link) and atypical dysphoria/disconnect/euphoria are so much better!!
