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Might last a day, mine lasts forever… incest victim by both my mother and sister screaming into the void it/her, autistic

[incestedsloth]

They’re sisters

[incestedsloth]

What about like. Healing. Instead of feeding further into it.

?? Elaborate

[miteish]

She killed the only person in the world who truly loved her. She was devastated.

[incestedsloth]

Guilt will not purify you

[incestedsloth]

Do I look pretty, sister?

[51195]

i drew this in like 3 seconds i cant believe i forgot about their special day

[incestedsloth]

Omgggg nobody gaf

[incestedsloth]

Does he know you kissed me first with that mouth?

[la-confrontation]

Incestuous relationships and the unbearable intimacy of shared identity.

Game of Thrones, 6x06 "Blood of My Blood" / Wuthering Heights by Emily Brontë / Revolutionary Girl Utena, Episode 15 "The Landscape Framed By Kozue" / Bates Motel, 1x01 "First You Dream, Then You Die" / Liam Gallagher & Noel Gallagher, Oasis, Knebworth 1996 / House of Incest by Anaïs Nin / House of the Dragon, 1x07 "Driftmark" / Flowers in the Attic by V.C. Andrews.

Projection and identification are living ways of experiencing the life of another (...) I saw in June some freedom of action which I wanted to have and, as a young woman, could only achieve by identifying with it. In House of Incest, the poetic image of two aspects of woman was pursued and became the two faces, the night and day faces, of woman, one all instinct, impulse, desire, impetus without control, the other who had sought control by awareness. The only danger, of course, is that one strong personality can submerge the other; one can feel the loss of himself in the other (as frequently happens in love), but there is no life without danger, and the other danger, the danger of alienation (and through alienation, non-love, or hatred, or destructiveness, dehumanization), I consider far greater. (...) In the case of proximity where the danger of losing one’s self occurs, the psychological drama becomes one of disentangling the confusions.

— Le Roman de l'avenir, Anaïs Nin.

[incestedsloth]

I’ve let only you know…

[incestedsloth]

Everything I write is my own personal interpretation based on my own life experiences okay? Okay…

[incestedsloth]

The opposite of love is apathy

[incestedsloth]

the way you write about incest in characters is beautiful, and i've never considered all the forms of it before. i hope you're okay and keep analyzing, it's comforting.

Thank you so much! This means a lot to me, I’m glad I can bring another person comfort

[incestedsloth]

You make me puke

[trauma-trove]

Honestly the thing I will never forgive about "narc abuse" being normalized is that SO MANY fellow abuse victims who I bonded with over making trauma-centric art now just default to saying "narcissist" to sum up all their problems.

"This art piece is about the time I was in a relationship with a narcissist." As if we're inherently some kind of unliveable burden to be around. When, in my opinion, if you're venting about being a people pleaser and not being able to stand up for yourself, that's more reflective of you than your partner tbh. If your narcissistic partner doesn't respect your boundaries, that's abusive behavior, not narcissistic behavior. Self-priority isn't abusive either. You need to communicate what you want from a relationship, and if the other person doesn't comply, then they're disrespecting you in a way that is not correlated/causated by narcissism. That's just selfishness and toxicity.

Some narcissists I knew were terrible people who abused me. Most narcissists I've met haven't. Most of the terrible people I've met who've abused me weren't even narcissists. The narcissism doesn't equate or explain your abuse like you think it does. This is ableism. Play in traffic.

[incestedsloth]

Anthy suffered more than Jesus

[sirizchai]

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