i reblog things i find beautiful or make me sad and i write about things that make me sad or i find beautiful. i shitpost a lot. check out the masterpost (link) for more info…
you can also find me at @/definitlydumb on twitter/x & my weird sideblog where i’m weird about cars ( @takeyrhandsoffmyneck )
my header picture can be found here (link) + all the pictures i post are taken by me unless otherwise specified
i’m so sure i have depression but i have no idea where to go with it or what to do. do i go to a therapist and ask them? do i find a psychiatrist? do i ask them for medication? should i not want medication? what do i do? where do i take it?
happy pride month to all people with non normative sexualities and genders and gender presentations and identities and all of that other fun stuff. never stop fighting for your rights and your fellow queer people’s rights in this troubling climate. especially our trans siblings who are under growing persecution. we are here, we have been here, we will always be here. i love you all have a great month 🩷🌈
allosexual people do not and never will take asexuality seriously. the degree with which my wokest, queerest allosexual friends misunderstand, ignore, invalidate my asexuality is almost comical. i don’t talk about being asexual that much anymore and it feels like they either forgot or don’t gaf anymore. and these are almost all queer twenty somethings, which i understand my straight guy friends not being experts, and i gladly explained stuff about that to them, but people who have known about my asexuality for almost ten years and have head the (dis)pleasure of hearing me talk about it that whole time? dude, are you doing it on purpose? this is not even about the disrespecting of my well known boundaries, this is just about them respecting my identity. it’s pretty exhausting at this point. idk 🤷♀️