Got Special Interests?

Since I felt like I was spamming my regular blog with too many fandom posts and not enough personal feels, this blog was born. They/Them, 19, Nerdy.

[logarto]

casual intimacy kills me every time. grand gestures are cute and all but seeing two people who are just totally comfortable with having each other in their space, who dont think twice about leaning into each other and thoughtlessly holding each other while doing unrelated things….. thats love

[fickes]

The rest of the month’s content is much more entertaining, I promise.

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[selwynparent]

can we stop mocking people who hissed at others/bared their teeth as a warning in their childhood years? it’s not funny to call them freaks. i did that. because nothing else was EVER. respected. i could tell them to stop and they wouldn’t, literally only hissing/trying to bite got ANY freedom.

and guess what! i’m autistic. i didn’t learn the ‘proper’ ways to respond to things until much later. and a lot of kids who do that are neurodivergent and have NEVER been given respect. you mocking them isn’t gonna help shit all.

next time you think of it as cringey, maybe take a step back and think about what you’ve done to earn a reaction like that. because reactions like that are used to express fear and discomfort in animals. and you probably haven’t listened to ANY of the signs before that.

[its-a-phase-mom]

I still sometimes do this, especially when I feel overwhelmed or overstimulated. And anyone mocking me makes it worse. 

I guess it could also be considered a form of non-verbal communication, seeing as there is not any speech and/or structured language involved. But, regardless, it is a valid way of conveying your needs.

[gl0wc0r3]

[fangirltothefullest]

This is not something I actively thought about but boy oh boy am I glad that someone did this because it's SO satisfying!

[your-villainous-neighbour]

“why do you like-”

[anxietyproblem]

[catchymemes]

Anti anxiety.

[wind-the-music-box]

I’VE BEEN LOOKING FOR THAT CAT ONE FOREVER

[capturedbythegay]

This is actually quite helpful

[writersblockwithprompts]

This is one of the best threads I’ve come across. Had to repost because I know so many people need to see this and know they’re not alone 😊💛

[narniacastles]

I needed this

[call-me-koma]

Thank you so much!

[its-a-phase-mom]

Sorry that I haven’t been active lately, but I have since finished my classes which is such a relief! I also had my wisdom teeth taken out, so that was a lot to deal with

But soon I will be starting a new job, so that’s something excited to look forward to. That also means that I will likely turn to this blog as a form of support and an outlet for myself.

I’m also hoping to be able to share more advice and self-care methods on here as I explore more avenues on that journey. So stay tuned for me updates!

[catsbrew]

have i mentioned i love my friends

[hydrophobic-sunflower]

The absolute joy when a friend is ranting about their special interest? Phenomenal, they’re like a human sized sun, exploding with happy light!

And on the other hand when they listen to me rant, cathartic.

[headspace-hotel]

This actually made me start tearing up a little.

These people are the most precious in the world

[thatoneemobooknerd]

My friend talks about the worlds and characters he makes all the time. Even though I don’t understand certain things, I love how happy he gets and I’m glad he finds joy in something. I always encourage him to talk about it and he gets excited. It’s precious.

[its-a-phase-mom]

bc I’m spending so much time trying to get m work done before the semester end, I wanted to do a little shout-out to my fellow college students:

Don’t forget to take breaks!

Try writing out & planning your day on paper, this will help you get a better idea of the workload you’re looking at

Consult with your friends, they’re going through the same things you are

Keep a water bottle next to you while you work, it’ll help remind you to take a sip every now and again

Try to minimize your distractions; mute your phone/notifications, give yourself work goals to be able to check your devices (finish one assignment, get to be online for 10 mins)

Don’t forget to breathe! You have all the time you need and the ability to give yourself your own working constraints, so use that to your advantage

You’re doing amazing, and we will get through this together!

[urhajos]

Adam Hillman, an artist on tumblr

[its-a-phase-mom]

bc I’m spending so much time trying to get m work done before the semester end, I wanted to do a little shout-out to my fellow college students:

Don’t forget to take breaks!

Try writing out & planning your day on paper, this will help you get a better idea of the workload you’re looking at

Consult with your friends, they’re going through the same things you are

Keep a water bottle next to you while you work, it’ll help remind you to take a sip every now and again

Try to minimize your distractions; mute your phone/notifications, give yourself work goals to be able to check your devices (finish one assignment, get to be online for 10 mins)

Don’t forget to breathe! You have all the time you need and the ability to give yourself your own working constraints, so use that to your advantage

You’re doing amazing, and we will get through this together!

[its-a-phase-mom]

If you get this, answer with 3 random facts about yourself and send it to the last 7 blogs in your notifications, anonymously or not! Let’s get to know the person behind the blog 💕 Back atcha, you're within the seven.

Hehe, here we go again!

1. My current obsession/special interest is Star Wars (specifically The Clone Wars). I even made a side-blog for it where I talk about it and share my writing and such >> @not-so-shiny-shinie

2. My favorite comfort meal is a sandwich: 21-grain bread, sliced turkey or chicken, sharp cheddar cheese, brown mustard, and Texas Pete, baked in the oven, and served with Low Sodium Cape Cod Kettle chips

3. I’ve been slowly chipping away at my supply of Easter candy, bc what else am I gonna do in quarantine! This is unusual bc I usually store my candy until another holiday rolls around and I eat it then

[its-a-phase-mom]

If you get this, answer with 3 random facts about yourself and send it to the last 7 blogs in your notifications, anonymously or not! Let’s get to know the person behind the blog 💕

Awesome! This sounds really fun!

1. I am a Music Major at an arts conservatory, specifically studying Opera/Classical Voice

2. I like to rollerskate for fun, and I draw inspiration from the Moxi Skate Girls and Planet Roller Skate in California (you should check them out, they’re super cool!)

3. I have an amazing dog named Rudy, who is also my profile pic! I love talking about him, and I might post more pics of him if anyone’s interested!

[horrordilf]

Rules: 10 songs you’ve been listening to + you have to tag 10 people! Tagged by @davidsylvians thnk u <3

death grips - lil boy

the damned - is it a dream

crystal castles - char

type o negative - bloody kisses

depeche mode - walking in my shoes

the damned - lovely money

boy harsher - morphine  

a flock of seagulls - wishing (if i had a photograph of u)

the adolescents - creatures

white zombie - soul crusher

Tagging: @freakpunk @spiritsintheforest @clandestine-intestine @goth-twink @bloody–knives

[gui1ttripping]

thanks for the tag charlie!💙

1. underneath it all - death spells

2. fever dream - fiatfv

3. Mama - MCR

4. Give em hell kid - MCR

5. Cancer - MCR

6. Air Catcher - TØP

7. Toxicity - SOAD

8. Friend, Please - TØP

9. Gun. - MCR

10. Action Cat - Gerard way

Tagging: @potdreadsfrank @fromthegallifrey @wherethewaterstarts-andyouend @tr0manblack @tacozebra051 @parade-of-the-defects @kerosene–angel @pointless-like-a-circle @frnk–iero @iero

[tromanblack]

Thanks for the tag, Mimi! 💚

1. Cemetery drive by mcr

2. it’s not living (if it’s not with you) by the 1975

3. Settle down by the 1975

4. Tron cat by Tyler the creator

5. The dope show by Marilyn Manson

6. The sharpest lives by mcr

7. World destroyer by Frank iero

8. Fuck ICE 2 by Manny Sánchez

9. Lo Main by lil Uzi vert

10. Empty by Kevin abstract

I’ll tag: @frnk–iero @iguessyourbabbe @bloody–knives @midnight-corn-flakes @madsummerartist @disenchanted-mona-lisa @the-void-is-endless @i-am-thevoid

[horrorwebs]

Thanks for tagging me!

oh umm i haven’t been listening to much music lately cuz online school is draining but ill put 10 songs ive been thinking lots about cuz my brain wont shut the fuck up

1. Lonely- palaye royale

2. Mama- my chemical romance

3. Sweet tooth- cavetown

4. Blonde- waterparks

5. Ghost adventure spirit orb- chloe moriondo

6. Champagne supernova- oasis

7. Empty bed- cavetown

8. Ode to sleep- twenty one pilots

9. Na na na- my chemical romance

10. Affluenza- conan gray

also ive been meaning to listen to peach pit’s new album but haven’t gotten to it yet, pretty sure those songs will be stuck on my mind for some time tho

ill tag: @harrietpotter-black @minipeepee @iwillstabyou37times @wethepotterheads0214 @unlikelycavetowndreamer @frobisher-smythe @thanksforthechantguys @a-very-real-human @homosexual-extraterrestrial

[ginminim]

thank you for the tag!!!!

my music taste is a bit all over the place atm so this is gonna be interesting hahah

locket - crumb

scatta - skrillex

scary monsters and nice sprites - skrillex

hayloft - mother mother

крепость - daite tank (!)

helena - misfits

on my own - anamanaguchi

wither - iamjakehill

in the end - black veil brides

bottle and a gun - hollywood undead

I’ll tag: @stujoan @ohhmydyos @gio-conda @katania48 @sinish-tem

[stujoan]

Thanks for the tag :)

I feel just two albums would be boring to see- umm

Stabbing in the dark - Ice Nine kills

Bloodbath and beyond - Ice Nine Kills

A Little Piece of Heaven - Avenged Sevenfold

When I Grow Up - NF

Voices - Motionless in White

6 Feet - Scarlxrd

Bullet - Hollywood undead

Someone Like You - Adele

Let me hear - Fear, and Lothing in Las Vegas

Mr. Brightside - The Killers

Who’d have thought my taste was so diverse lmao. I sure as hell didn’t

Take that… someone

@fibrous-lesbian @goodluckmaam

[goodluckmaam]

Ok so I don’t know what songs to add so I’m just gonna shuffle my playlist a bit

1. We are - Hollywood Undead

2. WHY - NF

3. The carpal tunnel of love - Fall out boy

4. Sleep - mcr

5. A little piece of heaven - Avenged sevenfold

6. Therapy session - NF

7. Only - NF

8. Don’t you know who I think I am? - Fall out boy

9. Famous last words - mcr

10. A grave mistake - Ice nine kills

@whenplantingforests @slightlyobsessed513 @introvertedstarlight @vanillamustache @not-your-traumatized-doll @its-a-phase-mom

[its-a-phase-mom]

Thanks for tagging me! I’m just gonna put my playlist on shuffle and see what happens! (And I’m linking YouTube recordings of each song, in case anyone wants to give them a listen!)

Angel Down - Lady Gaga

Animal Impulses - IAMX

Sun On My Side - Gogol Bordello

Down Under - Men At Work

Yeah Nah - The Chats

Ten Tonne Skeleton - Royal Blood

Breakdown - Jack Johnson

Caroline - Colter Wall, Belle Plaine

Won’t Go Down Easy - JAXSON GAMBLE

Вояж - Leningrad

Tagging: @mweatystims, @jason-todd-is-my-one-desire, @stimmingstarboy, @crazy-bloody

[4bsorb]

[youre-in-my-veins-you-fuk]

You never know if someone needs this. Reblog this, even if its not your ‘blog type’. Just do it.

[fuckyeahknbsnkygofree-yaoi-deac]

Yes, please reblog

[dendenmusume]

Do it. Now.

[alienpal]

i sat here and thought about reblogging this or not but then i realized how many people feel suicidal, and i  have too its not dan and phil but i could honestly care less, bc i rather have someone not die then make sure i strictly stay to my ‘blog type’ 

[lauriehalseanderson]

Blog type doesn’t matter. Caring for people does.

[typewrxter]

This isn’t my blog type but *deep inhale* 

SAVING SUICIDAL LIVES IS BETTER THAN KEEPING IT TO MY BLOG THEME SO DEAR YA’LL WHO ARE SUICIDAL I’M HERE SIS/BRO/SIBLING!! STAY STRONG!!

[kerokerosenai-deactivated202009]

as someone whose legs are covered in marks that’ll never fade from years of self-torment: i am here if anyone needs me. i care about each and every one of you. you’re not a burden, you’re not a waste, you’re a precious life and you bring something to this world that makes others feel grateful for you. if anyone EVER needs to talk: please message me. shoot an ask. i even have anon on if you’re nervous/anxious (i get like that too, we’re human). you’re never bothering me if you do. your life is important and you deserve to feel that it is

[pride-on-a-string]

Please please please stay alive

[oatmeal-water]

i dont have a lot of followers but i really want to help so please rb <3 <3 feel free to message me if you need to talk but P L E A S E stay s a f e

[aceofenderafterdark]

EXCUSE ME, YOU, YES YOU. I LOVE YOU PLEASE SEND ME A MESSAGE IF YOU NEED HELP OR NEED TO VENT OR JUST WANT A FRIEND REGARDLESS IF YOU KNOW ME OR NOT. STAY SAFE, STAY ALIVE, YOU ARE WORTH IT <3

[igtv]

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