Jasper, a Bean

Just a guy trying to make a safe space for those that need one :) he/they check me out on Twitch at twitch.tv/jasperexisting

[jasperexisting]

Validation Corner is now open!

If you need validation of any kind, whether it’s about school, work, sexuality, gender, whatever, my askbox is open!

Just leave a short message about what you want validation on and pronouns/a name for me to refer to you by and I will respond with validation! Anons are on, so you don’t have to be worried about letting yourself be known or anything like that as well, 

I know how hard it is to do stuff or feel alright when you feel like no one is lifting you up or acknowledging you/your efforts, so I am here to do that for anyone who needs it. Just hmu in my askbox, and I will give you validation and be in your corner :)

Edit: I am realizing that when I made this post my asks were not actually open, that’s my bad, askbox is now actually open haha

[jasperexisting]

I’m live again!

Hey, it’s been well over a month since I last went live, but I’m back now! 

https://www.twitch.tv/jasperexisting

[jasperexisting]

I forgot to post yesterday, so I’ll just do yesterday’s and todays here.

Day Two & Three

Something that makes me happy & Something Rainbow

Something that makes me happy is pictures of fancy clothes. I don’t have any on hand, but pictures of ballgowns and three-piece suits make my brain go brr in an unexplainable way.

And here is something rainbow

This is a bag I got two years ago now, I bought it because of the rainbow and it means a lot I guess. 

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

I hope all gay, lesbian, bi, pan, trans, intersex, nonbinary, genderqueer, agender, genderfluid, semifluid, pangender, asexual, aromantic, demisexual, demiromantic, grey a-spec, homoromantic, biromantic, polyamorous, queerplatonic partnered, they/them, he/them, she/them, ze/hir, neopronouned, he/him lesbian, nonbinary lesbian, butch, femme, androgynous, wlw, mlm, nblnb, questioning, QTPOC, queer neurodivegent, queer autistic, queer disabled, and every other flavor of queer folks have a very nice pride month, and that someone hands you a plate of warm waffles with freshly-poured syrup.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

DEMIFLUID I TYPED DEMIFLUID that was autocorrect I was not stating that all semifluid amorphous blobulous entities are automatically included under the queer umbrella

[jasperexisting]

So I’m gonna be doing the Tumblr share your pride thing this pride month cause it looks fun and I want to do something this pride month! 

 For June 1, my pronouns are he/they, and these are my flags ^~^

[Image ID] Transgender pride flag

[Image ID] Polysexual pride flag

[Image ID] Asexual pride flag

[Image ID] Demiromantic pride flag

It’s a bit late in the day, I’ll make sure to post day two earlier tomorrow, but happy pride!

[celebrate]

Well, well, well, will you look at that? It’s Pride again.

You know the drill by now. It’s June 1, and suddenly everything from banks to big box stores has slapped a rainbow on their logo. Rainbow capitalism knows how to target LGBTQIA+ customers. For exactly 30 days of the year. How quaint.

Of course, it’s nice to make things bright, and colorful, and pretty. But it’s meaningless if that’s all it is.

Pride should be about uplifting and celebrating you, the community. And it should be year-round, not just 8.22% of the year. So, we’re signal-boosting your posts that celebrate, support, and honor all genders and sexualities over here. Follow to keep your dashboard lovely and gay as hell all year round.

And, yes, we’re also making a bit of a fuss right here on @celebrate (apparently, we just can’t help ourselves). So if you’re interested in talking about what Pride means to you or want to celebrate Pride but don’t know how to go about it this year, we made a fun little 30-day Share Your Pride Challenge list. Because you do, in fact, deserve to be celebrated.

Tag your posts with #ShareYourPride if you want to make them a little easier for other people to find. And Tumblr? Happy Pride. We’re glad you’re here.

[steppingonshatteredglass-deacti]

ace pride!

so as you may or may not know i made a post showing off pan flags irl a couple days ago.

its gotten a lot of support and i’ve literally read all the tags

i’ve had people i dont even know me thank me and its the best feeling ever

but i did notice that there are a lot of ace pan’s who wished they had some ace rep

so here we have this post!

not just for pan’s also, but for every ace, aro/ace who felt broken.

i love you. literally i swear i do.

please share it because it really does mean the world to some people.

pan!

[jasperexisting]

I’m Live!

I’m playing Dying Light! 

https://twitch.tv/jasperexisting

I’m halfway through the intro sort of accidental, but it’s chill

[maturina]

new tag game: what items that are NOT traditionally related to gender transition (binder, hormones, breast forms, etc) make you feel the most gender? for me it's a tichel, thin chain necklace, and heart shaped sunglasses

[jasperexisting]

These old discount brown boots I got, earrings that have dangly chains, those shirts with the puffy sleeves, flower hair clips when my hair is pulled back, flower crowns, jewelry in general, and face masks.

Additional: Dressing like I stepped out of the fifteen-hundreds very casually. I haven’t done it yet, but the idea and thought of doing it make me feel very much gender. 

[jasperexisting]

I’m live!

We finishing Gaston’s head tonight :)

https://twitch.tv/jasperexisting

[jasperexisting]

New pfp! :0

I finally finished this after about a month of putting it off lolol. I originally made this for International Ace Day, but it’s been a minute since then so I am posting it now just in celebration of myself.

I celebrate my existence year round 😎

[jasperexisting]

I’m Live!

Heyo we playing Hardcore Minecraft again! I will be ranting about random subjects and building a Gaston head

https://twitch.tv/jasperexisting

[jasperexisting]

Ya boi is live! I’m playing the ghost game with the bois

https://twitch.tv/jasperexisting

[jasperexisting]

I keep forgetting to update here when I go live, but I’m here! Today I’ll be playing Love, Sam at the request of my boyfriend. 

I have been told that it is a horror game and that’s about it, so it should be cool. 

https://twitch.tv/jasperexisting

[jasperexisting]

It’s Minecraft time again! I’m gonna be playing my hardcore with just a pickaxe world again!

https://twitch.tv/jasperexisting

[jasperexisting]

Hey I’m live! Today I’m gonna be hunting ghosts in Phasmophobia with my buds

https://twitch.tv/jasperexisting

[jasperexisting]

I spent nine hours today drawing this so I would have something cool to post for international ace day.

Enjoy the image of me being a dork with my flag over my head and kindly ignore the laws of physics that are being broken by those horns. 

Anyways, once again, Happy International Ace Day!!! I hope every single asexual and demi-asexual and grey-asexual and just everyone on the ace spectrum had a fantastic day and knows that they are so incredibly valid!

Have a good rest of your night everyone!~