Honestly so much of this wave of transandrophobia is just repackaged queer discourse of Olden Times (ie 2016).
Like I've literally gone on blogs of transandrophobes, searched the word asexual, scrolled back far enough and found they were part of the aphobic clan too, but when that fell out of favor they had to switch to a new "acceptable" target.
Like "oh trans men can't say tr*nny!" I remember being told I couldn't use the word dyke because I wasn't a lesbian, I was only pansexual. And yet when queerphobes saw me with girls they would call me a dyke and, shockingly, trying to say I was "only" pansexual didn't make them apologize! It just made them call me a dyke again!! (And shock and awe, I still use the term dyke for myself because I've been called that since high school, like 15 years before I came out as transmasc!)
"Trans men can't use t4t or egg!" Wow, again, I was told I couldn't call myself butch because that was also only for lesbians and I was a gross pansexual so I couldn't use that term. Ace people couldn't use queer because um actually they aren't queer because....who knows.
It's all repackaged discourse that I've been seeing since I literally came out in fucking 2008. Hell, I see the same with TERFs who get mad about being called cis! "I'm not cis I'm just normal!!!" It's literally the same thing homophobes used to say when you called them straight! They would say the same fucking thing!
Discourse is a cycle and it's so frustrating to see the same people move from target to target based on who is "acceptable" to hate. Right now it's trans men. Who fucking knows who the next target will be? And everytime I point this out they get SO mad. Like "well I never hated on ace people so you're wrong", as if the things they say don't still line up exactly with shit said about ace people. As if I haven't seen cishet people being transandrophobic and then found out they were also major acephobes back when that was the big discourse.
Like maybe think why you want an acceptable target? Why do you want to hate other queer people so badly? Why do you want a Bad Identity that's okay to hate?
Like fucking transfems don't own Blahaj, it's not "appropriation" for trans mascs to go buy a fucking Ikea shark. (and as stated above, 99% of the people being transandrophobic aren't even trans themselves)
Grow up already, stop repeating the same cycle.


















