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Kat/Kai/Fuckass••they/them••my blog is a shit show and so is my life guess which one is my priority••queer as all hell and proud of it••I'm in climbing class hell and the kylux trash compactor please help me••used to be kaitibuscus but y'know yikes

[kaitiiplier]

If someone grows enough, past what they used to be, will you let them back into your life?

Heart is always open

[st-pam]

Selling this one (as an original, not a print) on Etsy  White pen on cardboard, 2015

[boingmann]

My dog has a habit where, right before a walk, she just takes a mouthful of kibble and keeps it in her mouth. Then, during the walk, she would decide on a good spot and just spit the kibble out and then eat it.

[boingmann]

[defilerwyrm]

Let people grow.

When I was younger I was very right-wing. I mean…very right-wing. I won’t go into detail, because I’m very deeply ashamed of it, but whatever you’re imagining, it’s probably at least that bad. I’ve taken out a lot of pain on others; I’ve acted in ignorance and waved hate like a flag; I’ve said and did things that hurt a lot of people.

There are artefacts of my past selves online – some of which I’ve locked down and keep around to remind me of my past sins, some of which I’ve scrubbed out, some of which are out of my grasp. If I were ever to become famous, people could find shit on me that would turn your stomach.

But that’s not me anymore. I’ve learned so much in the last ten years. I’ve become more open to seeing things through others’ eyes, and reforged my anger to turn on those who harm others rather than on those who simply want to exist. I’ve learned patience and compassion. I’ve learned how to recognise my privileges and listen to others’ perspectives. I’ve learned to stand up for others, how to hear, how to help, how to correct myself. And I learned some startling shit about myself along the way – with all due irony, some of the things I used to lash out at others for are intrinsic parts of myself.

You wouldn’t know what I am now from what I was then. You wouldn’t know what I was then from what I am now.

It distresses me deeply to think of someone dredging up my dark, awful past and treating me as though that furiously hateful person is still me. It distresses me to see others dredging up the past for anyone who has made efforts to become a better person, out of some sick obsession with proving they’re “problematic.”

Purity culture tells you that once someone says or does something, they can never go back on it. That’s a goddamn lie. While it’s true that some remain unrepentant and never change their ways and continue to harm others, it’s important to allow everyone the chance to learn from their mistakes. Saying something ignorant isn’t murder. Please stop treating it that way. Let people grow.

[got-zayn]

Still call it out and question it ….

[defilerwyrm]

Bruh. No. Listen. Call out what people do now, absolutely. If they haven’t changed, call them out on their record. This post is explicitly not about people who HAVEN’T changed. What this post IS saying is, if someone is making an effort to be a good person, don’t go digging around in their past for evidence that they were once for what they’re now against, or once against what they’re now for, as “proof” of what they “really think,” because people’s opinions and beliefs can change. 

The obsession with finding shit in someone’s past and then claiming that a questionable or even sordid past negates all possibility of a good present needs to become extinct. Gold-star activism and purity culture are bullshit and we need to collectively reject the fuck out of them.

If someone has changed for the better, don’t harass them about what they were like before they fuckin’ changed. That’s shitty and it needs to stop.

[queerstatic]

tell me something nice, hit me with those positive vibess

[eatsleepcrap]

the earliest recorded named cat lived over 3000 years ago in egypt and was called ‘nedjem’ which means sweetie

[queerstatic]

[eatsleepcrap]

the pet cat of prince thutmose was called ‘tai miuwette’ which means ‘little mewer’

[queerstatic]

[eatsleepcrap]

in medieval england so many cats were given the name ‘gilbert’ that the word ‘gyb’ came to mean ‘pet cat’

[theblasianbarbie]

stop bullying that white boy about the frog in his mouth he seems nice 

[rosesanddocs]

If he’s so nice why did he trap that frog

[marisatomay]

you fool….it wants to be there..it feels safe& protected

[ithelpstodream]

[bobbyoldport]

Lets go take a howl at that moon

dean is a demon now so to counteract the sad feelings, i drew him as a human. a sad and broken human. im so sad

[robotjiji-deactivated20190529]

you guys make fun of undertale as if you wouldnt die for papyrus at any given time

[corsolanite]

[90skid-com]

[ruinedchildhood]

Scoob and the gang have an existential crisis.

[flavoracle]

I rarely criticize my wife, but when I do, it’s spoken directly to her, in private, and with love.

I don’t speak negatively about my wife to other people. Not because she’s perfect (which is an impossible and unfair standard) but because she deserves a husband she can trust. To say anything about my wife that I wouldn’t say to her face, would be a betrayal of that trust.

I never want her to spend a single moment worrying about the way I talk about her when she’s not around.

[smallmight-72]

A little louder

[flavoracle]

I RARELY CRITICIZE MY WIFE, BUT WHEN I DO, IT’S SPOKEN DIRECTLY TO HER, IN PRIVATE, AND WITH LOVE. 

I DON’T SPEAK NEGATIVELY ABOUT MY WIFE TO OTHER PEOPLE. NOT BECAUSE SHE’S PERFECT (WHICH IS AN IMPOSSIBLE AND UNFAIR STANDARD) BUT BECAUSE SHE DESERVES A HUSBAND SHE CAN TRUST. TO SAY ANYTHING ABOUT MY WIFE THAT I WOULDN’T SAY TO HER FACE, WOULD BE A BETRAYAL OF THAT TRUST. 

I NEVER WANT HER TO SPEND A SINGLE MOMENT WORRYING ABOUT THE WAY I TALK ABOUT HER WHEN SHE’S NOT AROUND. 

(is that loud enough?) 

[littlewitchlingrowan]

Yes. Thank you.

[keri-russell]

#constant mood

[pusheen]

[sizvideos]

Aipoly Vision App helps visually impaired see the world through their smartphone

[maroonsparrow-blog-deactivated2]

Can we also talk about how this is the best translation tool for non English speakers? I want this for traveling!

[themightytej]

You’re telling me someone designed something widely useful AND remembered that colorblindness is a thing that exists?

[whomhave-i-deactivated20190213]

I’m. So. Excited. About. This.

[sapphire-crimson-claw-archive-d]

I saw this on CBS Sunday morning. A woman held it up to the journalist and it was like, “white man, brown hair, 40 years old.” 

He looked so 

[elodieunderglass]

Reblogging because I want to remember to learn more about this!

[cryptidcreek]

This app is out now! I used to teach people how to use iPhones and had a class on accessibility. This app was one that I encouraged many people to download. There’s also BeMyEyes: an app that allows video calls from visually impaired folks to sighted folks, so that the sighted person can use their eyes in situations where it is necessary, like in reading ingredients.

[marisatomay]

I regret all of the years I pretended to not like the color pink or girls

[marisatomay]

I regret all of the years I pretended to not like the color pink or girls