i am a latina... and i want it all.

well... my name is lana... listen here I support a bunch of shit and slander another bunch, so please be butthurt, so I can block u. .BLACK LIVES MATTER

[tkkatherineblog]

[the-surreptitious-solitary]

Peace flows like a river.

[candiikismet]

This is the most beautiful thing. I’m keeping this for reference.

[babyanimalgifs]

These made my day (@kristinannphotography)

[omgthatdress]

Putting these up for anyone who needs them today.

Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life by Susan Forward

Why Does he DO That: Inside The Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft

[superopinionated]

Cannot recommend WDHDT highly enough. I’ve found it helpful not just for romantic relationships, but also for growing up w a “unexplainable/uncontrollable” dad.

IT HAS ALSO BEEN REALLY HELPFUL FOR UNDERSTANDING ONLINE MOB HARASSMENT.

So if you’ve ever been bombarded w threats to be raped/killed, (so…if you’re a minority and you’ve been on the Internet for a while), this book might be useful for getting clarity around the whole entitled, abusive mindset that drives certain kinds of people to behave that way. And by “getting clarity”, I mean (for me) being able to go “oh, that’s what’s happening” and not really feel scared anymore. Or angry, or drawn out into it, or anything.

And if you’re still standing around going “but how does something like GamerGate happen?” or “but why do men hit their wives?” or whatever – please read that book and learn something.

[omgthatdress]

^^^^ truth WDHDT is fantastic at cutting down MRA bullshit and calling it what it really is

[kithnkin]

Also recommending

[swampseer]

Please consider reading these. WDHDT is really, really helpful. And I know some of you are struggling with abusive relationships, friendships, families, etc. You’re not alone. There is help.

[heysawbones]

Yo. This family holiday, please, please take care of yourself. You aren’t there to be anybody else’s cushion.

[robotsandfrippary]

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents

Reading any of these books does not mean you don’t love your parents or family.  It’s just self care for helping you cope and not repeat the behaviors. 

[anna-mator]

A gentle reminder that I have Toxic Parents as a FREE PDF if you would like to download it and read it on your own. Take care of yourselves.

[heavyweightheart]

All the books in this thread are great; adding this one because it was the most helpful to me. Free pdf here

[naamahdarling]

Jesus Christ, the codependency checklist in Toxic Parents…WOW, I’ve been through that.

[naamahdarling]

Hooo damn.

Children need to make mistakes and discover that it’s not the end of the world. That’s how they gain the confidence to try new things in life.Toxic parents impose unobtainable goals, impossible expectations, and ever-changing rules on their children. They expect their children to respond with a degree of maturity that can come only from life experiences that are inaccessible to a child. Children are not miniature adults, but toxic parents expect them to act as if they are.

Someone go back and write this on a brick and throw it at my mother, please.

[rechbetch-deactivated20220314]

I just got paid to talk….. literally 😭😭😭😭😭🙌🏻

I’ll continue to reblog positive, happy affirmations cause damn they work!!

[rechbetch-deactivated20220314]

And my second client extended!! UGH 😭😭😭😭🙌🏻

[possiblynya]

a little autobiographical piece about the internet

[animusrox]

Spider-Man: Into The Spider-Verse (2018) Spider-Man 3 (2007)

[ladyblargh]

LOOOOVE

[keep-me-inside-your-pocket]

Oh damn you a HUGE freak

i know babe, enjoy. ~also, buy~

[meteorito618]

LISTEN TO THIS BADASS!!!!!!!!!!

[la-frutilla-del-postre]

G-DRAGON - ‘무제(無題) (Untitled, 2014)’

[fashionglamourstyleluxury]

[ambby0]

Ahhh got something new to add to my visualisations

[luxebynature]

This view is spectacular

[memepants]

[tfwyouare]

Ok so why are people mad about the Pokemon designs in Detective Pikachu? Literally like dozens of them are known for being unnecessarily dark.

Haunter licks people until they seizure themselves to death

Cubone IS WEARING THE SKULL OF HIS DEAD MOM

Phantump is a dead kid possessing a tree

Kadabra is a kid who’s trapped in his own (now mutated) body

Lampent’s fire is fueled by souls of the damned

Metapod doesn’t move because it’s afraid of it’s organs spilling out

Palossand collects bodies and carries them everywhere it goes

Mewtwo is a failed lab experiment that hung out with a stillborn child (who then melted before his very eyes when he was just a kid)

Ditto is a melted mew (who in fact, is a cat fetus)

Drifloon will carry away children (never to be seen again)

Cacturne eats hikers who pass out from exhaustion

Drowzee sneaks into children’s rooms and eats their dreams

Ships that go into areas that house Jellicents are never seen again

Don’t even get me started on Lavender Town

Pinsir tears its victims in half

Yamask is carrying around a peeled-off face of a human

Oh, and these sweet little guys right here?

T H E Y D R I N K B L O O D

Feel free to add any extras that I missed

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

I went through…an Ordeal today

[ranescu]

I am so ready for the first of Halloween.

[ranescu]

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[ranescu]

Give a ghost the right pair of shoes and they’ll conquer the world.

[ranescu]

[ranescu]

Super hot where I am today, so have a summer spook.

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[ranescu]

Send me pics of your ghost costumes :> 

[ranescu]

Why is everyone into dom ghosts…?

[ranescu]

They’re single and ready to mingle~

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[vega-antisocialite-deactivated2]

if I ever reblog a long as shit post, it’s this

sorry

notreally

[almondkittie]

It’s ONLY October 1st and already y’all are reblogging the weird shit!!???

[libertarirynn-deactivated202006]

This is the longest set of cursed images I’ve ever seen

[brokenfairyvixen]

I think you mean blessed images.

[beingseducedbymonsters]

@yonggukslyricbook @gokueater1 @nsfwblackhole

[elodieunderglass]

I’m adding this to my queue for October 1, and you must suffer. I’m sorry.

[catchymemes]

[nentindo-deactivated20210501]

[the-absolute-funniest-posts]

not taking any chances

[liamoige-deactivated20201102]

If y'all want to make a clown a gay icon like… Harley Quinn is right there

[glitchotic]

Harley quinn and pennywise are wlw/mlm solidarity.

[liamoige-deactivated20201102]

No Harley beats the shit out of Pennywise with her bat and takes the kids out for ice cream and group therapy