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[numberoneomegaversepoll]

Number One Omega Tournament Semi-Finals

Han Yoojin (S-Classes That I Raised) vs. Sung Hyunjae (The S-Classes That I Raised)

Han Yoojin

Sung Hyunjae

Voting ended onMay 12

Propaganda under cut:

Han Yoojin

Man managed to give birth to 3.5 babies and adopt at least 2.5 more, AND string at least 4-5 alphas in a non-omegaverse world, who knows what the count would be like in an omegaverse? His literal actual superpower is being the universe's best parent <- this sentence is SO MUCH truer that it looks like but i can't say more because spoilers.

Sung Hyunjae

He’s in love your honor and would love to have Han Yoojin’s baby

[laosinsin]

This time I was planning to just smile and scroll on, because of course Sung Hyunje would be delighted at being defeated by Han Yoojin. But then I realized that neither of them would be delighted in the win if it came from Sung Hyunje just conceding the match. The match needs to be real and well-fought for both of them to enjoy the outcome. Also I can't abandon this blond at this final stage. I will earn Yoojin's enmity I feel.

Link to previous propanda post (there are a lot of great additions in the tags too!)

Anyway, here are our contestants - at the respective moments when they first fell in possessive want with each other. Lookit them.

Han Yoojin thoughts in his instance: "ME WANT" (that's verbatim btw) Greedy, possessive, Caveman.

Sung Hyunje thoughts in his instance: "Can I ever go back to the time before I experienced such sheer ecstasy" So much very omega thoughts. He just had his world rocked. (shhh! forget what happens next, let's live in the moment. yandere girlfriends also exist)

Btw, these were two separate instances. Note both of them going BADUM BADUM heart beating like crazy in both their respective instances. (Note: No, this is still not a BL)

Btw, since we are leaning fully into the stereotypes: the confirmed virgin between the two is Sung Hyunje. Han Yoojin has no experience with romantic relationships, but some (ambiguous) experience with 'skinship' in the past.

Anyway, now for something different: some delightful fic recommendations where Yoojin gets to get his sadistic streak on with Hyunje and/or Hyunje gets to indulge his princess side. (err. These are all E-rated, many are pwps, readers beware etc)

(Btw, both Yoojin and Hyunje do have a couple other alpha candidates too. In Hyunje's case, that's Chief Song Taewon aka the Lunar Eclipse to Sung Hyunje's Little Moon, who is the Only One who Can [Spoiler] Him. There are some STW/SHJ fics in the list as well)

Omegaverse with Omega!SHJ

Flavor: Everyone thinks SHJ is an alpha, including alpha HYJ with whom he's been having Some Supposedly α^2 Flirtations but surprise! SHJ is actually an omega and willing to reveal this to HYJ > of expectations by klytia (heliotrope) > All I Could Ever Give You by RavingBlack

Flavor: Why is the world's hottest and strongest S-rank omega (SHJ) trying to get with a boring normal barely an alpha F-rank guy like me (HYJ)? > You Already Know by Anonymous > Mine Of Gold by Lazlo (Lhotseley) > OMEGA SHJ BREEDING PROGRAM by @frillbrillator, Lazlo, morningstar, TenderSun_and_Moon

Flavor: Bratty Omega!SHJ gets fucked into speechlessness by Alpha!Song Taewon > gold mine by rinovellas  > compliance never killed the cat by rinovellas  > the insatiable me's curiosity by clqveris (this is not omegaverse, but in a similar vein without omegaverse)

A few of the more recent-ish canonverse fics that nonetheless play with subby or bottom Hyunje in some way.

fire in my skin by klytia (heliotrope) - Fresh! New! takes place around novel ch 450s. Yoojin wants to make Hyunje cry. And tie him up. And leave some marks. man on a missionary by rinovellas - Switch4Switch Yoojin is determined to convert Hyunje to the joys of getting fucked. make perserverance your bosom friend by howlingmoonrise (TheDarkStoryteller) - Yoojin gets invited to judge the quality of Hyunjae's "merchandise" (aka boobs) after he oggles Song Taewon's boobs a bit too much in Ch 409. (Our Yoojin is a bara boobs man, this is canon. No, he's not into lady boobs. No, still not BL) the ties that bind you by howlingmoonrise (TheDarkStoryteller) - Tied-up and ranked-down Hyunjae during Ch 507 gets tied up a bit more by Yoojin and taken care of and discovers new things about himself. milk instead of honey by howlingmoonrise (TheDarkStoryteller) - Hyunje gets blessed with a lactation skill during a dungeon raid. Yoojin is a very helpful partner who helps out very helpfully. get your hand in the game by howlingmoonrise (TheDarkStoryteller) - Sung Hyunjae gets fisted by Yoojin. That's it, that's the fic.

(these stalwarts have been doing so much for the vulnerable!SHJ and sadistic!HYJ economy in this fandom)

Finally I end with Child_C_Moon's adorable bunny SHJ. Please lookit housewife Hyunje Bunny ready to welcome Yoojin-gun home. There are a lot more which will all give you cuteness aggression against this blond ahjussi. Let us wallow in the feeling together.

Live Laugh Omega Hyunje! ✌️

[readerattheend]

We must all remember: it’s not, “one is an omega and the other is not.” It’s “who is the Number One omega?” And that has to be Sung Hyunjae, who will build the grandest (AND most thoughtful) nest. He and Yoojin both exchange items plenty often (see propaganda from other polls— thinking of SHJ’s coat and HYJ’s yarn/branded towel/random items). While Yoojin is the one who bears and adopts children left and right, I’m choosing to see this as him compensating for his barren partner. For his part, I think SHJ is an omega who is less oriented toward rearing and more toward homemaking. In this way, SHJ and HYJ complement each other and also make up for each others’ traumas (SHJ being self-focused as a defense against people who tried to encroach on him and his unfortunate packlessness due to him being a natural born S Rank; HYJ being others-focused to preserve his brother as well as his own emotional state as he tried not to perceive how his parents were slowly abandoning him).

[kendysane]

The Omega!SHJ propaganda just keeps getting better

[ozzo-the-wozzo]

In case y'all didn't see it: some Japanese fans on twt think that the formation of Loid's inner dialouge in the og version of the chapter (which has the text in a sort of crossword formation) can spell out 'Love' !!!!!!! (+other important things that got lost in translation)

すき = suki = liking someone romantically! Totally not screaming my head off or anything! The link to the og tweet is here, worth checking out as more discussion happens in the replies!

(Oh and bonus, they tried finding the word 'love' in english too, which is slightly sillier but still worth noting lmao)

Additionally, another fan (@yumeka-sxf on tumblr!) pointed out a VERY IMPORTANT distinction within Loid's thoughts that got lost in translation, that being around the use of the word "sacrifice" !

This is super important bc rather than juxtaposing "for the sake of the safety of my family" with "for the sake of my mission sacrifice my family" (which is insane), it actually places the words "sacrifice myself" in between "for my family" (text above it) and "for the mission" (text below it)... implying Loid is torn between whether he put himself in danger in the studio for the sake of the mission or for the sake of his family.

(Or, if you're insane like me, you can also take the crazy route and interpret this as foreshadowing on him one day having to choose between sacrificing himself for his family or sacrificing himself for the mission, but let's not go there just yet.)

anyway, INSANE how much got lost in translation, and since I'm just parroting what other people are saying if anyone else that actually speaks Japanese wants to chime in lmk!! But overall I think I'm gonna die.

[kendysane]

Something something WISE agents and their love in caps or something

[teaboot]

Not pertinent to anything in particular but I do think it's kinda weird that we keep depicting cavemen in media crawling around on all fours covered in dirt with tangled, matted hair, speaking in broken, cobbled-together toddler language when like.

They were us.

Like literally genetically they were US, just like. A while ago.

Like

Would you trust a TV caveman with a baby? Probably not

A real life caveman though??? I think they'd be at least okay at it

[sheilikhal]

This is actually really important and comes up in Anthropology classes all. The. Time.

As long as homo sapiens have existed, we have had the same emotional and mental capacity as you and I do today. You nailed it. They were US. Even Neaderthals existed alongside and had offspring with Homo Sapiens for many thousands of years.

There's much evidence that cavemen would have had complex spoken language, culture (learned information passed down), symbolic interpretation, and I think they most certainly would have been able to handle holding a baby. In fact I have my suspicisions that an ancient homo sapiens mother may be a more present, attentive, and knowledgable mom than I could be today.

Do not let media trick you into believing we are the pinnacle of humanity. Unilinial evolution theory (google it quick I beg) is BUNK, GARBAGE, and the root of so much evil.

We've been human for a long, long time, and we are not inherently better than all those who came before.

[fresne999]

One the most profound experiences of my life was visiting Font de Gaume, which has 12 thousand year old paintings. They use a technique where the horses appeared to run across the wall when seen in flickering firelight. There was a bison the wall staring at us with such attitude, I could practically hear him. I had the most profound feeling of those ancient artists reaching forward to lay their hands on my shoulders. To say, "This was my world." It was a profoundly moving experience.

Some years later, I went to the Orkney islands where we visited a tiny family run museum of artifacts from the chambered tomb at the other end of the farm. They handed me a pestle once held by some neolithci human.They'd worn groves where the thumb and forefinger would be for better grip.

[cymbie8]

One time, in a French history class, my teacher randomly at the end of the class had all of us draw a sketch of a horse. And we were all like ??? Okay???

At the beginning of the next class, my teacher showed us a cave painting of a horse. And then he showed all of our horses, which he had scanned and put into the presentation.

He then pointed out all the ways that our horses looked similar to the prehistoric horse. Same features, drawn from the same angle, etc.

And then he asked us, "Isn't it cool that you draw horses the same way as someone who lived 20,000 years ago?"

Yeah. That stuck with me for a while.

[catgirlthecrazy]

In Spain, there's a cave full of ancient, ice age era drawings of bison and reindeer and other animals of that period... And one small section of chaotic scribbles just a little away from everything else. These scribblesv were so incomprehensible, they were originally just called the 'Panel of Enigmatic Signs'... Until it occurred to someone that drawings only three feet off the ground probably weren't made by adults.

Scientists are now pretty sure the scribbles were made by kids ages 3-6, more or less on their own. The adult cave artists were probably doing what any modern parent might do when they want to keep small children out of their hair for awhile: they gave the kids some drawing tools of their own and a small section of wall to work on, out of the way but still close enough to keep an eye on them, and let them have at it.

What's most charming about the whole thing is the way the cave scribbles look exactly like what you'd find on the wall of a preschool today. Artistic styles vary widely across different times and cultures, but child development is as near to a universal human experience as it gets.

[mikkeneko]

Wisher made detailed 3D scans of the drawings, which helped her understand the uneven pressure applied to the charcoal and the direction the lines were drawn. The team then compared the panel’s composition with age-appropriate artistic efforts by modern children. Kids across cultures go through the same developmental stages, which influence their physical ability to draw, until about the age of 6, Amir notes.

The team compared the ancient art with the developmental stages exhibited by modern children: the furiously scribbled circles and push-pull lines typical of 3-year-olds just learning to control their bodies, for example, or the wobbly, right-angled figures of slightly older kids beginning to master fine motor skills.

Both are apparent in the cave, superimposed on each other as though two or more kids were drawing at once. That’s a clue the Las Monedas marks were likely made by “siblings or a mixed-age play group within the sphere of safety around adults, but also within their own space,” says co-author Felix Riede, an Aarhus archaeologist.

...

Adults at Las Monedas would have been aware of what the kids were doing and presumably had lit fires or torches; without ample firelight the cave is pitch black.

[oneclickangel]

reblog if you're corny and insufferable

[disteal]

shout out to everyone who participated in the january-february mass depressive episode

[disteal]

Thank you everyone for another great turnout to the january-february mass depressive episode

[kendysane]

I-

[laosinsin]

I was trying to *cough* find any of the og language ebook extras/epubs for SCTIR, and instead I stumbled upon this:

https://ssn.so/series/237/

Reviews and Ratings of S-Class: average Rating 1.79 out of 5 (714 people)

Holy shit, I am engrossed. A treasure(? trash?) trove of very very upset male readers.

Most hilarious:

Quite a few of them mention there being a fakeout heroine? Are they referring to Moon Hyuna?!

(eta: i read more. i think they are referring to Yerim... Ah, the audience for whom all that 'i'm not a guy who is into middle-school girls!!!!' stuff in the early chapters was aimed at. But who presumably thought it was fakeout he-doth-protest-too-much kind of thing? OK.)

A master analyses "the problem". Basically the problem is my guys are getting frog-boiled into reading "BL" 🥲. A dastardly problem started by ORV but this novel has taken it to the peak.

Another hits the nail on the head more crudely. Reading and enjoying reading about emotions as a man makes you gay.

Uhhh. "How dare you write novels that don't appeal to the straights, straights are the majority!?"

A new kind of guy: (he gave it 2.5 stars not 0.5 like everyone else)

This guy accidentally hits on a solution that might be good to implement in at least some canons:

A converted visionary...

Also surprising number of folks who genuinely aren't just mad about the BL, but also the "feminism"?! I thought you all wanted more female characters?!

Also surprising number of comments going "there is no plot, they just keep talking about emotions!!!", and like.... I would understand not liking the plot. But no plot? Does plot not mean the same thing to these guys. Do they think "and then he beats up a stronger enemy and then he beats up an EVEN STRONGER enemy" is "plot"?

[cyrellinate]

Looks like there's a little furry surprise for someone's birthday 👀👀

[gobwinning]

orta x kmifyc cross over…. those with dark blue hair watch your back

[kendysane]

Excuse me, one of them is complaining

Not me though. Keep going, thanks ♥︎

[maedaeme]

god that adhd struggle where you are so motivated to do something but there is just like. A Blockage In Your Body that stops the motivation from turning into anything. so you just like. vibrate. sitting there like yeah, man, i totally want to do that right now. (doesn’t)

[maedaeme]

i posted this image on twitter like actual ages ago but it just keeps getting more relevant

[drax-the-vampire-king]

Every year Tumblr holds its sexy people contests. And as a result controversial figures around the world seem to die. I purpose we sacrifice Donald Trump for this years contests.

[badhapple]

[hiddenfolk]

Thinking about how WTDSIK's ranking system is based not on physical power but on how you have benefited your community. All the high ranking demons are ranked highly because they have performed acts of community service and have helped improve the Netherworld in some capacity. Yes physical power is rewarded, but there's also explicitly non-violent ways to climb ranks- contributions to culture (music festival), building communities etc.

Idk, demons are explicitly stated to be hierarchical, and value power, while the Ranking system equates power with becoming an active participant in improving people's lives.

Children seem to be entirely unranked- you gain your rank once you enter school as a teen, and given demons seem to age differently to humans given their longer lifespans, there seems to be a bit of wiggle room as to when you can choose to enroll- some as young as Chima, others closer to 18-ish. Enrollment seems to be based on when you are 'ready'- that is able to go through the entrance exam. You move from child (a 'treasure' to be protected) into a ranked demon, ready to participate in society.

Ranks 1-5 seem to be fairly squishy and flexible- teachers are given free reign to scale you up or down as they please within the microcosm of the school. Good grades, music performance, hunting ability, extracurricular activities all affect your grade and can let you rank up or down. Babyls and other schools serve as these microcosms, setting young demons up to actively embrace participating in society. New ideas (eg keroris beast kingdom) and cooperation (gaap and agares' castle) are rewarded.

Really, ranks are fully contingent on actively participating in society. Demons like Beem, who was unmotivated and disillusioned, and Kiriwo, who kept to himself, had their ranks stall despite their seniority.

On the flip side, this raises the question, how do demons who cannot participate within this society/set-up fare? The Many-Ears are either unable to, or just tend not to go to schools like Babyls, meaning they do not get to participate in this ranking system. They are displaced, living in their own individual tribes apart from the rest of demon society. Despite their many specialised skills, they are placed into positions of subordinacy, used exclusively as servants by other demons. We KNOW ranks are not exclusively based on physical strength!!!!! Within the system, there is no reason Many-Ears could not be rewarded for intelligence, cultural enrichment, new discoveries etc. The issue is, the system exclusively rewards participation in society. It fails to account for Many-Ears, who are marginalised, live outside this society and when they do enter it, enter it as servants, whos achievements will always be credited to another.

Tldr the ranking system actively channels demon's energies and ambitions into working to benefit their community, but equally this means demons who can't provide sweeping benefits to others r gonna be constrained to a lower ranking. Or smth idk. Rambling. I don't have a real point.

[kendysane]

Omg mairuma sociopolitical ramble

[euphosynth]

I had a vision

Based on this:

[3llygat0r]

shj is soooo incredibly pathetic all the time in the side story and hyj deserves a medal for not just killing him with a gun.

[laosinsin]

So I have recently been thinking about a good way to divide SCTIR into a series. The 'official volumes' are just a set number of chapters each or something like that, which is usual with serialized canons but as someone who's been a fan of many long-running canons, it's not uncommon for

a. book-based series to have books of different lengths and b. serialized works to end up with different units of "arcs"/"sagas" whatever that are structured more around there still being a recognizing beginning/middle/climax/end to the sub-story of that unit.

Anyway, here's my take on that. With some cheesy "Arc Names" to boot (๑>؂•̀๑)

I'll probs do another post on my presumed beginning/middle/end and the narrative for each, but some interesting trends are so obvious already when I started to do this:

Book 1 - Regression Ch 1 to 187 - 187 Chapters - Ends with Mr. Sung's Birthday Arc

Book 2 - VR in Japan Ch 188 - 318 - 130 Chapters - Covers the start of the interaction with Japan, the whole of VR Dungeon and ends with the Chuseok celebration

Book 3 - Nightmare in China Ch 319 - 462 - 143 Chapters - Starts with the 2 years ago flashback, then covers the whole of China and Nightmare Dungeon and ends with the recuperation and rest bits.

Book 4 - Party in the USA Ch 463 - 600 - 137 Chapters - Starts with Chloe + US guild’s visit, the pre-Chatterbox Party with the international hunters, then covers the whole time in the USA, ends with reveal of HYJ and SHJ both in their respective Situations.

Book 5 - Wedding Games* Ch 601 - 728 - 127 Chapters - Covers the respective kidnappings, the wedding and the complete Temporary Sys Admin Arc. (* Honestly this one could have been split into 2 books of half the usual length too. I kept feeling surprised when I would see the chapter count in this one because SO MUCH happens in this omg.)

Book 6 - All in a Dream Ch 729 - 870 - 141 Chapters - The Dream World Arc to the final climax.

Books 7 and 8 are just the Side Stories (167 Chapters) and Afterwords (128 Chapters).

Anyway, there's already a clear 'structure' right? Han Yoojin and Friends go to new real-world location, there is a 'real world' incident which flows into an unusual 'story dungeon' due to the Unfilial vs Filial stuff where we learn more about pre-regression and Transcendants, and then it ends with a party or a celebration or a period of rest.

Except there's no rest at the end of Books 4 and 5, because with Book 4, when things start happening, they just keep on happening and happening without stop until the very end.

Anyway, also reminder, we are entering the final day of the Ridibooks discount event, so if you're still thinking of getting any stuff and/or showing support for the author, now's the time!

[freyadragonlord]

The S-Classes That I Raised: my main character is going to defy gender roles by being a man who happily and pridefully embraces a caretaker role; a single father who never resents his kids or his role; a person who is highly desired for his enhancing abilities based on LOVE (a trope usually given to female characters), while still being powerful and ruthless and dangerous. Caretaking and femininity don't have to be equated, men should be allowed to be caring and loving without being emasculated

The fandom: omg Han Yoojin is such a mother. He's such a wife. Yoojin is babygirl. Idk i think he's just so feminine isn't he. That girl be crazy ahahah

[gobwinning]

edited 12/4/25 due to some things that felt like a misundertanding based on op's reply that we, "refuse to accept the fact that fathers can do all of these things, contribute to describing people that are caretakers is just a cultural norm, [mother/wife/diva/etc.] is just traditional gendered language with a glittery "girlboss" makeover."

tbh i keep thinking about this post bc it was so neat and cool until the second part / tags 😭

i thought it was interesting that men being called "mother" was seen as "emasculating." sure guys should be able to exhibit caretaking qualities without being compared to a mother/wife/etc, but there shouldn't be a huge problem with it if they are? bc the use of “mother” as a compliment for men isn’t actually rooted in discrediting or feminizing them. it comes from queer black and latinx ballroom culture, where “mother” is a respected title for a protector, leader, mentor, and literally the head-of-house. and we obviously use it as general internet slang, where it still holds that very same intention--that still regardless of gender, it's used as the highest form of PRAISE.

so hyj's role is intentionally coded femininely by fans not because it’s tied to womanhood specifically, but because it now literally just a based compliment you can give to men in SLANG terms: queen, diva, mother, girl, baby girl sweet princess honey darling, and whatever the hell ever.

it’s not erasing or undermining his masculinity. It’s drawing from a cultural vocabulary where “mother” and feminine terms are now seen as more powerful, iconic, literally peak top G behavior.

also outside of slang, people literally see motherhood and having children as "embarassing" hence the "im gonna draw u pregnant," jokes. so this is actually uplifting the associations tied to womanhood instead of reducing men for embodying them ?

--- to kinda point at smth op said, "caretaking and femininity don't have to be equated, men should be allowed to be caring and loving without being emasculated... [in tags] i mean how you just cannot describe a man being caring without comparing him to a woman. it's insulting to all genders tbh..."

but being compared to a woman should be the least insulting thing you could say to any gender LOL?

stepping away from the use of slang in general, i think this is also overlooking the cultural nuance and weight of "mother." not woman or man, literally just the idea of a "mother."

accross many cultures, “mother” is tied to: nurturing, emotional labor, softness and warmth, being the primary caretaker, etc. while “father” is often associated with protection, provision, authority, and emotional distance. these aren’t hard truths, just long-standing social scripts. but theres no rules to say a "mother" has to be a woman, nor that a "father" has to be a man, nor that EITHER has to have the aforementioned qualities // as op pointed out and is very correct abt.

the issue would getting offended to be associated with one or the other solely because you see it in a heavily gendered way, solely due to its history. yes, hyj exhibits many of the traits associated with "motherhood," as a man. but he doesn't NEED to, to still be percieved in such a way:

literally any male character evil, kind, protective, distant, buff, short, tall, slim, etc. all equally get referred to as "mother" by women in fandoms despite having zero overlapping character qualities physically and emotionally---just look at any ZZZ male character comment section.

and when "feminization" does go too far, women DO call it out or notice it (size gap yaoi memes, alnst till controversy, etc.)

people could just gravitate toward “mother” because of those cultural parallels--but again it's not set-in-stone thing for women (nor all mothers) i.e. riette is still called "mother" by her fans, despite not having anything of the prev mentioned "sensitive qualities." "mother" is used still in the nuance that she's a hardcore (problematic) baddie.... its all just loose happy language that only brings more fandom drama when policed/seen negatively.

denying people's preference towards the idea of "mother" solely because of stereotypes just reintroduces the idea of erasure through “equality."

these historical binaries cause people to police silly/innocent actions around defiance to stereotypes, when the aim should be to do whatever inspite of stereotypes. the majority of women in fandoms use this sort of language in a completely normal way, and ensure it doesn’t become a basis for ACTUAL prejudice or exclusion.... even by saying,

"he was THE single mother of the year. picking out clothes for his kid, feeding them, nuturing them, being emotionally vulnerable, comforting, and not to mention... repeat offender birthing... " - just being silly and in awe

it comes from recognizing those differences, understanding the inequalities tied to them, and still affirming that someone’s worth, capability, and humanity are not diminished because of them.

so i was surprised this post implied such portrayals of hyj were anti feminist. bc again, hyj (+shj, +stw, +literlaly any chara in msch) are all little evil dudes that would be called "mother" irregardless.

i really do assure people that no one is calling these men femininely to demean and belittle women. they really just do it for the love of the game.tm.

got awfully serious for a silly "just let women call men mother its not that deep" kinda post, but it is just kinda like that.

TLDR:

1.) mother, wife, diva, princess, cunty, and other feminine terms are now 21st century slang for being BASED and PEAK, it's not just "forced feminization," it's "youre literally MAIN SLAYAAA"

2.) regardless of slang, cultural nuance of "motherhood" is inherently reflective of han yoojin's character moreso than people's idea of "fatherhood," hence the preferred frequency in use--HOWEVER but both terms DO apply equally. no one who calls hyj "mother" would deny/hate calling hyj "father." but someone like op who prefers calls hyj "father" would hate the visa versa.....? there shouldnt be an issue with either preference of language anyone chooses to use.

3.) mother =\= woman !!! mother =\= caregiving !!! riette is mother, moon hyuna is mother, sung hyunje is mother, song taewon is mother, its really just the laissez-faire capitalist mother grindset!! its not secretly, demeaning, belittling, its just women having fun how they want to bc they have the choice to like it!!!

ultimately in the official webtoon han yoojin gets called "monster daddy," "breeding partner," and "mommy," and hyj gets embarrassed by all of the terms equally. so everyone should just brainrot all the time.

theres no point in policing how women express their affection towards male characters--as i dont imagine its fun to constantly feel frustrated/upset w how other internet strangers address some guy? just let people be normal and have fun since its not as harmful as op implies. charas should be able to be called whatever, and feeling like its sneakily insulting is primarily just bad faith in the girls that do it... but i assure you its not that serious/some deluded way of thinking, and that these people really just use these terms in a light hearted and positive way.

pardon cokerant it's been phasing in and out of my mind

[kalgalen]

"i want them to make each other worse" i want them to have an impact on each other that's hard to define as objectively good or bad but is still sure to change the trajectory of their lives and alter their very being on a fundamental level forever