A list that I made to shut up a salty POT who has massive dough but told me after a lovely dinner that he did not want to respect my wishes of a very reasonable baseline allowance before we grow the relationship and instead wanted to give me a ridiculously low amount per night at two nights per week. He used the excuse that a lot of men do: “I’m taking a risk and don’t want to waste my time and money on a woman who will take off on me after she gets her first few allowances.” (All prices reflect my city and I’m not generalizing.)
“Ok, so:
Haircut: $90 minimum plus tip. Extra for styling
Full set mani & pedi: $80 minimum plus tip
Blow-out: $40+
Tanning: $80+
Waxing: $145+
Skincare and make-up needed to look killer 24/7: $800+ (Replaced often. I can make a detailed list if you would like.)
“Basic” lingerie set: $120+
“Killer” lingerie set $250+
“Cute and breezy” outfit: $500 minimum w/o accessories
“Evening” outfit: $800 minimum w/o accessories
One pair of sexy stilettos: $500 - $1,500 or more
One classic handbag: $500 - $2,000 or more
Time spent taking care of myself at the gym
Time spent making sure that I am SAFE and healthy while intimate and have what I need to be clear of disease and/or pregnancies
Time spent doing research and reading up on skills to look better, act better, please my man better etc.
Cost of food that doesn’t make me look or feel like shit (I have sensitive skin and bad food makes it look awful)
Time taken away from studying and my career which hasn’t taken off yet like my potential SD’s has
Time spent on the phone and texting
Time spent away from my own bed
Time spent in the car
Gas money (almost $3 per gallon at the moment)
Potentially extended time set aside for traveling
These are the MINIMUM amount of things that I must do and buy repeatedly for this lifestyle and to remain the type of SB that I chose to be. I do them dutifully and even love doing them for the right man. These things do not happen by osmosis, nor do they come out of anyone’s pocket but my own at the moment. These automatically take up my time and my $ and if I were to enter an arrangement with anyone he would receive the benefit of all of them in ADDITION to my doting companionship, my best conversation, my full attention, and in ADDITION to this fab pu$$y. A SB/SD relationship is NOT an even give-and-take, but a unique agreement (or transaction as some see it) of two very different people’s assets. I’ve set the starting value of mine and you’re shopping. Like what you see? You’ll need to pay full price. That’s the risk you must be willing to take. I shouldn’t even need to mention what it is that I stand to lose in a deal like this gone sour. Now man up or move along.”
He apologized and told me he’d never thought of it like that before and I think he’s going to give me even more than I asked for just to make up for his ignorance. This wouldn’t work for just any man but I didn’t need it to!
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