🌟 The Starlight Constellation 🌌

he/they/we ♱ Parotraumagenic system ♱ PRO ENDO ♱ HBCU Band Head ♱ 🇹🇿 ♱ Pagan ♱ Autistic ♱ Pan and Genderfluid ♱

[our-plural-cafe]

We keep seeing anti endos and willos. If you're pro endo or pro willo please interact - Host

[editedantiendoposts]

seeing anti-endos anywhere is so sad because like can we go back to cringe undertale discussions and even roleplay without fakeclaiming people?? bcz tell me why ive seen these anti-endos use PLURALKIT and act like endogenic systems are stealing a resource that's open for them to use 😬

[editedantiendoposts]

“Safe space for all systems”

No. That means it’s a space to hate people who have systems that don't meet the miserable requirements anti-endos impose on EVERYONE.

Anti-endo spaces are inherently not safe for anyone. Anti-endo spaces promote stuff that makes people doubt their CDD if it isnt making them 100% miserable. They encourage people to share information about their trauma to prove being a system. No safe space labeled “safe for all systems” by anti-endos is safe for anyone.

[editedantiendoposts]

Dear endo and/or willo systems;

Live.

Sincerely, a system with trauma and a CDD, y'all are just as real as we are.

[positivitygenic]

created plurality is beautiful and inherently deserving of protection and acceptance. having helped so many, it is a normal aspect of plurality.

[ask-a-sysmember]

Systems in general: how did you figure out you were a system?

I’ve been questioning for a while but I can’t tell if it’s just regular dissociation or not. Kinda feels like my brain is haunted

This question is for all systems/plurals.

Mod answer below.

We spent our life thinking that it was normal to talk to fictional characters and OCs in your head and have them give unique and different answers.

It didn't help that our core is a writer and one piece of writing advice we saw was to "make characters that you may not necessarily agree with." So she did lol.

For us, syscovery was slow at first and then all at once. We would have conversations. Then question "Am I alone in my mind?" And reflected on that for a while. Then, after talking to a couple systems, we suddenly realized "wait omg this is real."

We knew it was a mental disorder but beyond that it was a vague concept that we knew was inaccurate in most media.

Suddenly it just felt. Real.

And of course we questioned whether or not it was our imagination. Until it upset one of our sysmembers and we realized how we think can impact each other in different ways. We stopped doubting after that.

And we decided that we grew up together. We will always be together, in some way, shape, or form. And that if we want to have a meaningful and productive existence, then we need to accept our reality and help each other and the body succeed.

We aren't perfect. We argue. We have tense relationships. But we try to help each other, even when it's hard.

I think that plurality is something that is personal, like gender. If you feel that you are plural, then you get to define what that means to you.

[our-plural-cafe]

We were in a discord server. Specifically those mental health servers (I would not recommend joining those, made us split more.) and we saw other systems explaining their experiences and that's pretty much how we found out.

We also went through DID/OSDD tiktok. Those videos also helped spread awareness to the fact we were a system

[talon-dragonbeast]

i swear people freak out about the tamest shit ever

"they identify as animals" thats nice, sharon

"no but they actually think they are animals" theres a war going on, sharon

"like they wear masks and run around in all fours and even bark at people" sharon the war

[our-plural-cafe]

"But they're endogenic/made system!" People are dying, Sharon.

[femceladonite]

how it genuinely feels to become pro endo after being anti for so long:

[our-plural-cafe]

We keep seeing anti endos and willos. If you're pro endo or pro willo please interact - Host

[ribbon-system]

reblog if you're ok with your singlet friends asking you questions about plurality and/or your system

[kitothekoyote]

So a friend of ours recently asked us how we knew we were a system. I had no idea how to answer that until they gave me some of their experiences and how they felt like they were insane becaise some people around them told them they were crazy.

They said that they've heard the voice of a comfort character that they've created in their head and there are different parts of him that seem to take control in certain situations.

This dude might def be a traumawillo plural and I'm all for it 🥹❤ Welcome to the club, gang!

[pleasantlyplural]

I love you systems who use the term headmates

I love you systems who use the term fragments

I love you systems who use the term parts

I love you systems who use the term shards

I love you systems who use the term members

I love you systems who use the term alters

I love you systems who use the term brainmates

I love you systems who use custom labels to describe their plurality

All of you are so valid <3

[kaminarilovesme]

As someone with OSDD-1, I've done an entire research project and understand almost the entierity of psychogology, so yes, all types of plurality is possible.

[the-hadal-zone-sys]

Y'know what?

Genuinely fuck you if you're still spreading that bullshit that plurals can't be happy and that being plural has to be all misery all the time or else you're faking!!!

I'm tired of being nice about this!! I love my headmates and I will never, EVER pretend otherwise!!

[pro-endo-circus]

okay so we’ve wanted to make this rant for a while but didn’t want it on main sys blog

maybe this has been said before. But calling endogenic systems “psychotic” is incredibly fucking offensive??

As a system with psychosis, having the psychosis has nothing to do with the system. Anti endos call endos “psychotic” or “delusional” when it’s simply not the case. You’re making endos look unstable, and this sets a horrible image for genuinely psychotic individuals. Psychotic people have enough on their plates, and now they’re being blamed for endogenics daring to exist.

Just because you do not morally agree with something does not mean it is a delusion.

do you know what a delusion is? Have you ever experienced psychosis? You tell endos they can’t fake did just for you to diagnose them with psychosis. Isnt that contradicting your whole arguement? We claim to not be disordered. Yet you shove a whole separate disorder in our faces.

We’ve learned that we can’t call some bipolar for being wishywashy, or narcissistic for being a prick, or ocd for being cleanly. So why can we call people psychotic for not having trauma? That’s such a fucked up narrative.

Real delusions are warped and miserable. Okay? And endos literally claim to not be disordered? So why thrust the misery of psychosis upon them? I wouldn’t wish my delusions upon my worst enemy. It’s genuinely so vile to see so many fakeclaimers telling each other endos will be told by doctors they are psychotic if they are open about being plural. Sickening. There is no correlation between endogenic plurality and psychotic delusions. Idk what else to add

[styxcord]

I really like newly discovered systems and talking to them. It's fun to see how excited they are about their plurality and to listen to them talk about what they've discovered, and about how there's still so much more to discover

[angelic-oath]

how do you start building/becoming a system?

well, most common way is through tulpamancy. here's a good thing i found on it. there's also tons of reddit threads you can find, like this one for example!

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found this doc

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take another for good measure

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creating OCs/consuming media/asking BAH blogs and focusing on those while creating your system can help too! ^^ once you start, it becomes easier.

don't worry if it takes you a while, or if it happens quickly!!! everyone goes at their own pace :)

overall @created-system-hub @pluralhelp @tulpagenic-help and etc are good for tips or just scrolling down on their page!

p.s. if anything needs to be taken out, tell me (respectfully)!