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@kiwi-discourse
i now pronounce you top and bottom
you may now top the bottom
me telling my wife weâre having a kid: :â) youâre gonna be a milf
Iâm going to be honest, this is probably the funniest thing a straight person has ever said
But sir this is my emotional support hateful slur
Captain America is a war criminal, Winter soldier is an assassin and Hawkeye murdered people in endgame.
Menâ˘ď¸ on Twitter: How can Captain Marvel, a woman, twist a manâs hand who verbally abused her. She should be put in jail.
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im so fucking sick of the dysphoria debate. sam smith comes out as nonbinary and the comments are like âbut do you experience dysphoria?????â like what makes you think you get to ask such a personal question? when someone comes out and tells you how they identify thats all you have to know. respect them and move on. the fuck is wrong with yâall
yre all ignoring this post bc yre fuckin cowards who dont want to admit asking a trans person who just came out âbut do you have dysphoria?â is the SAME as cis people asking âbut have you had the surgeryâ
happy almost pride month heres some lgbt cowboys for your discord servers :)c
All of the ridiculous âwhy canât we have platonic datesâ posts always make me so mad because there is nothing, absolutely NOTHING stopping you from going out with your friends. Believe it or not, friends go out to eat and go to the movies together. They go bowling, they go to the beach, they go shopping together, they LIVE WITH EACH OTHER, and literally no one will consider it romantic because thatâs a common thing that EVERYONE DOES WITH THEIR FRIENDS, you fucking nitwits!! Go the fuck outside!! Make some goddamn friends! And fucking delete your Tumblr because it is so obvious that you people lose touch with reality so fucking fast on this website.
How the hell do you make friends though? On top of that get them to text you back and hang out? Itâs like the only reason people hang out nowadays is to have sex.
Asexuals really be like "being a cis heteromantic ace isnt being cishet because we don't feel sexual attraction and being straight requires heterosexual attraction!"
lol right! delusion⌠convince yourself
me: I think straight aces are straight
ace tumblr: oh so youâre basically a cishet terf who hates closeted people
me: cishet aces arenât lgbt
inclus, squinting really hard: so you donât think trans women are valid? you terf
As another 16 âexclusionistâ I really appreciate your blog ! Like thereâs nothin wrong with ace people or being ace but cishets just donât have the same oppression or history as lgbt folks, and Iâm glad that thereâs someone there like you to explain that ! (Also cause, cishets in lgbt spaces make me feel uncomfortable and at points unsafe so I really appreciate you politely explaining that to people like your friend!)đłď¸âđđ
love you! fuck it up queen!
my biggest issue w inclusionists is that theyâre so ready to dismiss people who are actually LGBT for wanting to keep cishets out of the community. imagine prioritizing cishets over like.... people who are actually oppressed,,,
yeah itâs mad dumb tbh but oh well we all make life choices
Ace people âcoming outâ as ace to their coworkers, their boss, or anyone they dont have a personal relationship with is not revolutionary or brave in any way, in fact it is mostly just weird that you think you need to tell these people about how much or how little you feel sexual attraction. It is never going to be the same as a gay personâs employer finding out about their relationships and it is never going to carry the same consequences, you guys just really wanna feel special.
Reblogging this again for pride month bc ace people still arent oppressed for being ace and pride isnt about you!
ace discourse is literally the stupidest thing this site has come up with, like. less than 20 years ago a horrible misogynistic homophobe articulated an identity based on saying nasty shit about his wife and started a forum for this. the definition of this identity was warped to include, among others: experiencing compulsory heterosexuality, being a bottom, or the state of not wanting to have sex with every person you see in the street, and now people are arguing that these identities are systematically oppressed and historically linked to being gay and trans. mayhaps you should think critically for five fucking seconds hm?
âIf fiction canât cause bad things to happen, how did Jaws cause a wave of shark killings?â
1. Jaws tapped into an extant fear of sharks. It was based on four fatal shark attacks in 1916, at a time when Americans were largely ignorant of sharks and werenât sure whether they could even bite humans. These real-life attacks caused an irrational fear, which Jaws exploited.Â
2. Stephen Kingâs Cujo did not tap into an extant fear of St. Bernards. It was based off real-life events (specifically, a visit King once made to a mechanic, where a St. Bernard growled at him) but Americans did not fear St. Bernards. Culturally, dogs were beloved as family pets, and people could read or watch Cujo without suddenly developing a desire to murder their pets.
Both Jaws and Cujo were bestselling novels with popular, high-grossing film adaptations. If fiction affects reality the way antis claim it does, then Cujo should have caused a wave of dog slayings â especially since Cujo itself was just one book at the tail end of a horror fiction trend for evil dogs (including masterpieces such as Hell Hound, Dog Kill, Rabid, The Pack, The Dogs, The Long Dark Night, The Haven, and Blood Snarl). Weirdly enough, US and UK readers were able to read and enjoy these books without mass slaughtering their Jack Russell terriers.
When you argue that Jaws caused shark killings (instead of acknowledging that America already feared sharks and considered killing them a non-issue), youâre aligning yourself with uneducated parents who blame first-person shooters (or Richard Bachmanâs Rage, now out of print) for school shootings. Angry, depressed teens with murderous fantasies will seek out media which seems to align with their fantasies â such as Doom or Marilyn Mansonâs music. If they donât find this media, they kill anyway. If the media they find condemns their fantasies, they kill anyway. Parents blame media because they donât understand how a teenager can kill other teenagers, so they need a boogeyman to point fingers at (thereâs a lot of reading on this topic, but my personal favorite is Why Kids Kill by Dr. Peter Langman).Â
So, what does fiction do? Not much, on its own. Itâs a tool people can use to explore new ideas (e.g., a closeted gay kid may see Kurt on Glee and use that character to explore the concept that gay people arenât innately bad) or to reinforce the ideals they already hold. For example, a white person with nascent racist ideals may watch Birth of a Nation (1915) and come away cheerily convinced that racism is perfectly fine; but the same person may also watch Jordan Peeleâs Get Out and come away with the same exact cheerful conviction, even though Get Out rather explicitly condemns racism. No matter what the message is, people will twist it to fit their own ideals.Â
Any piece of fiction can be used for any purpose. Unfortunately, the same applies to nonfiction. Dr. Amy Hammel-Zabinâs Conversations with a Pedophile is intended to educate parents so they can recognize when their parents are being groomed, but it can also be used by pedophiles as a handbook on how to groom a child.Â
The solution isnât to ban any book that could potentially reinforce a negative value, because every single book ever published has that capacity. Every fanfiction, no matter how fluffy or G-rated, could theoretically convince a pedophile that child molestation is okay â because pedophiles are seeking that confirmation everywhere they go, and when they donât find it, theyâll twist the source material so that they do.Â
Not to dump a South Park meme on you, butâŚ
Donât know why I still have to say this.
Even the most famous school shooters themselves acknowledged their love of violent media wasnât what caused their own violent impulses. Eric Harris specifically described how he alone was culpable for his actions. And for someone who liked to blame others for isolating him socially, I think that says a lot.
The relationship between fiction and reality is much less causal than people want to make it. A lot of what fiction does is reflect things we already believe. Since fiction is so often taken into a social justice narrative, letâs talk about a type of representation that I know a lot about- mental illness in the media.
A lot of it is bad. You got your serial killer psychopaths, your âhauntedâ mental hospitals, literally anything that could be compared to One Flew Over the Cuckooâs Nest (which is a great movie but suuuuuuper dated), a lot of inaccuracies. Oh and the multiple personalities thing a la Psycho. Lot of yikes.
But the thing with these movies is that they donât change anyoneâs opinions on mental illness. All they do is reinforce ideas that already exist, and have existed for a long time, about mental illness. Mentally ill people were being called demons and locked into dungeons a long ass time before Norman Bates ever killed anyone.Â
Or perhaps we can talk about a more egregious example of a harmful take on mental illness- Thirteen Reasons Why. There were several copy-cat suicides that took place after this show aired, and thereâs no denying that the show had an influence. But the sad reality is that the people who took their lives were most likely already depressed, already predisposed to suicidal ideation, and easily bought into the romanticization of suicide that the show portrays. And while I 100% agree 13RW did a bad job portraying depression and suicide, suicide has been romanticized far beyond the scope of that one show. The show didnât cause anyone to die by suicide. It only influenced what was already there.Â
So is it bad to push for newer, better, more accurate representation of mental illness in the media? Absolutely fucking not. But that push is representative of a slowly shifting culture around mental illness. The changes weâre seeing in our society as scientific understanding of mental illness increases is changing the way we see things. Itâs changed the way we see older films like Psycho, and itâs changing the way we depict mental illness in future films. But whatâs behind that is really science, is the hard work of activists whoâve fought to end stigma.Â
Fiction isnât a causal variable. Itâs a moderator. In statistics, a moderator is a variable that significantly strengthens the relationship between an independent and dependent variable, but it doesnât explain the relationship nor does it account for all of the variance (meaning the relationship between the independent and dependent variable is still significant without the moderator, itâs just less significant.) This is what fiction is. It strengthens and reinforces ideas we already have, or it can reflect how those ideas are changing. But it doesnât cause anything. Except, hopefully, for you to think.Â
Dear Transmeds,
There are so many things wrong with your ideology but PLEASE understand one simple fucking thing - transphobes do not care if youâre dysphoric or not. They do not hate you for being dysphoric or not dysphoric, they hate you because youâre transgender.
Iâll repeat it again: Transphobes do not care if youâre dysphoric or not. They do not hate you for being dysphoric or not dysphoric, they hate you because youâre transgender.
Love, a (dysphoric) transgirl.Â
âqueerâ is such a useless term. if i tell someone im bisexual, they know i am attracted to men and women. if a man tells me he is gay, i know he is a man exclusively attracted to other men. if someone tells me they are queer, it tells me nothing about them. it doesnt tell me who they attracted to. it tells me nothing about that person.
It tells me theyâre trying to be a extra lil bitch and that I shouldnât be friends with them
No, you probably shouldnât, for their sake.
yall realise thats exactly the point, right
queer covers everyone who is noncis or nonstraight
it covers the identities you want to erase or disallow from the community
it doesnât immediately tell you private information about someoneâs sexuality or gender that you arenât entitled to
and the person in question may not even know themselves, but queer is what they know they can always use if theyâre not sure except they know theyre definitely not cis/straight
you hate it because itâs too inclusive and too broad. Itâs supposed to be inclusive and broad. If someone tells you theyâre queer then all you need to know is that they are in some way not cis or straight and other than that it aint your business. If being told someoneâs identity is none of your business pisses you off, thats a you problem
Imagine saying you wont be friends with someone unless they disclose all details of their gender and orientation immediately upon meeting you and still feeling that youâre morally superiorÂ
okay but like queer is literally a slur its not 'inclusive', if you want to say it for yourself and reclaim it for yourself than yeah im good with that but dont call a literal slur 'inclusive' yikes