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#i think im going insane again #im 25 now but its never too late for a mental breakdown

anyway i think pride month is a good time to think about how lesbophobia and biphobia faced by women are not actually different types of bigotry in any concrete way, it's all just slightly different manifestations of the overlap between misogyny and homophobia that causes people to treat women like they are not a reliable authority on their own sexuality. its not that one type of queer sexuality is meaningfully more accepted its that asserting your own sexual identity as a woman is pretty much just seen as a threat to general society and will receive whatever pushback is easiest to reach for. unfortunately sometimes as a reaction to this we have a tendency to place the blame on each other for this treatment instead of realizing we're all crabs in the same bucket.

there are essentially zero experiences that a bi woman has had that a lesbian hasn't also, and vice versa. we don't gain anything from acting like we're two distinct groups with any real power imbalance or competing interests between them.

#it feels like a lot of this stems from oh this bisexual woman/lesbian was a bitch to me #vs like actual structures of oppression #no bisexual women do not oppress lesbians bc they can pass as straight and also sometimes women use their attraction to other women for #validation from men can both be true #that experience does not paint a picture of every bisexual woman and instead of thinking that maybe realize she just kind of sucked :/#and not all lesbians hate bisexual women think theyre tainted by men and also there are lesbians out there who treat bisexual women poorly #or discredit their attraction to any gender bc of their own insecurities #this is not representative of all lesbians #she was just s bitch to you

byjove

When the average heterosexual family man complains about his family not respecting him, it is almost always because there is absolutely nothing about him to respect and he has made no effort to connect with any of them and he considers the slightest pushback or lack of affection a sign of ‘disrespect’. When the average heterosexual family woman complains about her family not respecting her, it’s usually because her 14 year old son keeps calling her a bitch and throwing things at her while her husband laughs. The difference is so fucking stark.

#my dad would get drunk and rant to me about this shit #bro you suck and theres nothing to respect #'oh i take care of everyone and no takes car of [his name]' like dude i moved in with my aunt at 14 bc of you #and then he got locked up when i was 16 #and hes the one who decided to go drive trucks when he got out #hes the one who decided to pick up half of my grandparents bills #and quite frankly he should be trying to take care of them #people spent years supporting him thru substance abuse while he fucked them over constantly #just to go fuck it all up again and lose his fucking job and now hes back in jail again #like im sorry if this doesnt sound sympathetic and ik addiction is an illness and all that but he literally doesnt even try to stay clean or #at least use in moderation and hes an irritating/aggressive drunk #like dude go to therapy or something im begging you to stop putting my grandparents thru this

lastoneout

I know this is a tiny part of the wider problems born of diet culture, fatphobia, classicism, and racism but like god the idea that "healthy" food must inherently taste bad has completely ruined us as a society.

lastoneout

Every time you feel bad for having coffee with cream and sugar or ranch on your salad or putting extra butter and salt on your veggies I want you to imagine the spirit of John Harvey Kellogg in front of you and then I want you to kill him with a real gun and eat your delicious food in peace.

#also nutrients from veggies absorb better paired with a lipid (fat) so theyre literally just soooooooo wrong #not only does it not 'cancel out' how healthy is it or whatever it actually makes it better!#not accounting for cholesterol issues ofc #but its also more yummy that way #anyway i just learned i dont hate zuccini at 25

petulantpony

i’ve said it before but i wish vaginas didn’t cost money

petulantpony

you literally can not have a vagina without paying for it. vaginoplasty for some, period products for others, if you want to stop buying period products that’s gonna be expensive medicine or an expensive procedure, recovery from surgery requires time off work and vaginoplasty specifically requires money spent on dilators. our bodies shouldnt cost us this much on baseline. having a vagina shouldnt have such a hefty tax on it. it makes me feel like i’m in a fictional dystopia written for middle school classrooms when i think about it.

#i think we should all start free bleeding in public until something is done about this

pharma-tard

if you're named some shit like cody it's been over for you for a long time

#this is about total drama #to me

boringkate

You listen to music regularly? Why? Have you even tried quitting? Could you quit? You get music stuck in your head? Wow. You're so ruined and music brained. I bet you make your partners listen to music with you when you have sex. Music addiction has really ruined a whole generation. You know it's not realistic to expect reverb in real life, right? You're probably so desensitized that you don't even feel anything anymore when you hear a bird singing that it wants some fuck.

paradigm-adrift

I don't have a problem with people listening to music per se, but I do have a problem with the music industry exploiting & mistreating artists.

Personally, I abstain from all music in order to keep my hands clean but really music should just be illegal outright to protect musicians from abuse.

terramythos

holy shit this person in the notes

#maybe they should've just gotten started on the caffeine addiction...#kids have always paid for music #my mother always told me about she spent her first allowance on a record??#like yeah streaming has its issues but the issue isnt music

depsidase

#see then we have my old manager who ate this shit up #even tho we only accepted online applications #and hosted online training #i wish i worked in the job market old people keep talking about #not shit is merit based anymore and quite frankly #if your manager is like 30-45 theyre gonna treat all the young people at that job like shit #and over praise every middle aged to elderly employee who moves slow as fuck and cant get anything done #all bc they call the customers baby #but needs help wjth the pos every 5 minutes whivh is why my times are getting longer but whatever #is all so whatevrr at this point

depsidase

#loose chargers that dont go to anything you currently own #but what if you need them one day

throwbackblr

#like -1.5 #wasnt even conceived yet

pocket-deer-belly

it's really really funny to me that like "people under 18 might consume porn and that's generally fine actually" is some shocking take. like were you not also young once. is it not normal to develop sexually around the age of 12. is it not normal to experience sexual thoughts as a teen. like it's fucking absurd that we're suggesting mass surveillance of children to ensure they will never see a boob ever outside of a classroom instead of just teaching children how to interact with adult content safely. you're just arguing for abstinence again, plugging your ears going "lalala" when someone tells you that kids should learn about sex or they will have sex in worse more dangerous ways

spaghetti-ex2

you are a pedophile

pocket-deer-belly

girls is it pedophilia to give sex ed to 12 year olds cause it acknowledges that people under 18 will have sexual experiences

#i miss not only the internet i grew up with #but the internet safety that went with it #like it was taught in school #we got pulled out of class and went to the library where we went thru these powerpoints and then had a clicker test at the end #it was pretty basic stuff like not showing your face #dont share any personal info like ur name number location age or any of that #but we were starting to take computer classes #so along with lessons on how to actually use the computer we also were taught basic safety as well #but not only that we had places on the internet made for kids #we had poptropica and funbrain and girlgogames and coolmath and studyisland and webkinz #and most of these didnt even have a chat feature!#then later came like moviestarplanet and habbohotel which were riddled with predators but thats also what the safety rules were for #and the chat functions were pretty restricted but ppl got around that obviously #but the solution to that is better moderation not putting kids on social media instead and expecting every website to be #both for kids and adults #yes we all have to coexist in public #but there are some spaces that shouldn't necessarily cater to kids over adults and the reverse is also true #nick.com and disney.com used to have games. kids should be the focus here and not what games adults like #certain websites are meant for adults . and may contain adult content. i shouldn't have to worry about kids being in these spaces #or worrying about kids in those spaces #idk the solution is probably the fall of the us and all its vendors #im tired of being a consumer i want to be a person again

innerchildabortionclinic

have you heard that they're revoking the passports of people with significant amounts of child support debt

hope they know this will hurt the MAGA demographic

gayvampyr

are you squeamish about needles?

yes

yes but only shots/injections (not IVs)

yes but only of IVs (not injections)

no

nuance

Voting ended onMay 23

#its fine as long as i can see it #idc about tattoos i can sleep thru those #but in a medical setting i just feel the need to supervise people when they stick me with things

theywontletmebeprincipal

humanity is so beautiful

#the chinese cigarettes look so pretty #i want one

patrochilles-or-bust

Random hill I'll die on but

These shower heads are antiblack 😭

patrochilles-or-bust

The implication is that you are a person who can put their entire body under this stream of water to wash your body, daily. Guess which group of people is likely not washing their hair every single day and therefore could not utilize this shower head to its full extent on a daily basis? Guess who'd have to lean their head outside of the water like an awkward giraffe in order to bathe, or would have to stand at the edge of the water?

patrochilles-or-bust

*deep luxurious black woman who's been inconvenienced sigh*

Apparently even Doechii agrees with me lmao

I hate over-head showers.

Why — wwhhhyyyyyyy must every hotel shower head be built directly above your crown, as if everyone on earth wants to get their hair wet every time they bathe?

This has to be some kind of micro-aggression.

A niggress repellent, if you will!

Because immediately, instinctively, I know: no Black woman was taken into account when this technology was designed.

#im too poor to have ever experienced these #but they look like something that should have a 2nd head thats detachable 100% of the time they are installed

aropride

u used to be able to put a dvd in your computer. and then u could watch it

sensitivesiren

#saw someone on tiktok earlier purchased a disk drive and they wanted her to pay #a subscription to play media from it in its Original Quality #she said even vlc player wasnt working with it

chaotic-neutral-knitter

do you ever feel yourself fail a charisma check in real time

#yeah sometimes #but have you ever passed unexpectedly and just wonder how you got away with that #thats fun

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