Hey there ! A little announcement. I’m opening up a Ko-fi page as well as Ko-fi requests ! Because I don’t like people giving me money without me giving something back.
It’s a nice way for me to have some money without a big commitment ; commissions are too much pressure at the moment and patreon is too engaged.
Here is what I’ll do :
1 coffee = one character head shot
2 coffees = two characters head shot
3 coffees = one character waist up
4 coffees = two characters waist up
Please note that all of this will be sketches !
That’s it for now ! I’ll probably update it if the demand is high enough.
Thanks for your support, reblog are very much appreciated !
Just a quick notice that I will stop updating my main with my art, since I think that I reblog too much stuff for it to be noticed. If you like my art, don’t hesitate to also follow my art blog !
scars in fiction: I got this trying to save my lover from an assassin- but tragically, I was too late. now I carry the mark of my failure with me always, and I can never forget~
scars in real life: so I was trying to open macaroni sauce with a paring knife
listen up ya’ll this post is 6 years old now and you’re still reblogging it. every month. once a month, my notifications blow up for this one video, but only until the 16th. then the notes on this vid completely stop. it’s so eerily spot on and impressive how you just all collectively know what to do. if I’m not online, people irl still remind me that it’s the 15th. thank you for six surreal years of me wondering if I completely fucking lost it. here’s to the 15th
tl;dr : please at any social gathering, take safety measures for both your safety and the safety of your group. (meet at a rendez vous point in case you're lost, the phone in your hands firmly so you can hear the notifications, have someone responsible for the group (doesn't mean that you won't have any !) etc etc). ESPECIALLY if you're a group of minors.
I was at a pride walk not too long ago, to advocate for our right to marry (I know, in 2021, big yikes). I went in alone, but got to know a group of youngsters (I'm talking 20-25 people, maybe even 30 at some point), and I was easily the oldest. It didn't say much, because I was, and still am, 17. The group kinda got split up, merging into group of around 5.
Under the cut for social anxiety, panick attack, and irresponsability.
I was just chilling with the group, insisted on sharing our phone numbers in case of an emergency and to find each other in case we got lost, when this teen come to us, really panicked. I knew something was wrong, and when I got to tell her what's going on, she said that she lost her friends that she came with, and she both hates and is scared of people. She was having a really bad panic attack. I'm talking shaking, wide eyes, almost crying kinda deal.
I took her aside, with as little people around as possible, and did my best to calm her down. First trying to make her concentrate on my voice, but I soon saw that wasn't absolutely working. I asked if it was alright for me to touch her, she said yes, and I took her hand.
I read from a fanfic that one character used the grounding technique to calm another character from a panic attack. It was my first time dealing with a panic attack this big, me being the helper, and I read that line a few weeks to a months prior to the events.
I did my best. I fucked it up at some point, because the word for smelling and feeling is the same in french. We got a laugh out of it and she managed to calm down. She was still shaking, but compared to her prior state, I took it as a win.
I took her number and told her to text me immediately if anything happened. With this story I'm also gonna touch on another touchy subject ;
If you're a minor and you're going into a big social gathering without an adult, please, I beg of you, take safety measures (meet at a rendez vous point in case you're lost, the phone in your hands firmly so you can hear the notifications, have someone responsible for the group (doesn't mean that you won't have any !) etc etc). To protect yourself, the group, and especially people with social anxiety. Nominate someone to be the responsible one if someone doesn't naturally take the place.
Because what I heard from that poor teen, is not acceptable. She was from another country, first time in the city (it's a gigantic city for my country), and had already almost got lost/forgotten from her group earlier that day. I almost blurted out that they don't really seem considerate for friends, but I held my tongue. It wasn't my place. My place was to help her find her group, and make them aware of just how irresponsible that was of them.
We found 'em, and lemme tell you, she was running to them and started ugly sobbing. They thought she was faking it, and I simply shook my head, trying my best to not eviscerating them too much.
I took each and every one of them aside, and made it very clear that if this happened again, and I find her lost and panicked in this event, I was gonna find them and we were not gonna be friends. I was livid. Still am to this day.
For you berry, I don't know all of them but for you it's more like. Dumb hoes. But most importantly : attractive dumb hoes. I think more of the : "haha they dumb" then the "oh fuck oh shit they're actually brilliant, we're doomed". And for the intelligent one it's more like "listen i knew you were smart, but you're scaring me".
“You’d be surprised”, said Xaldien, who just lost four followers and received a lovely “men can’t be raped” anon shortly after reblogging this the first time.
Out of 19000+ followers I have, only one of you actually reblogged about this issue, yet a lot of you have reblogged and liked a picture by playboy about catcalling and that how men should never do it.
Additionally, I have received abuse in my ask box (which I will be answering when I can) and threats. In particular death threats and rape threats.
I can see the real problem here already. Male domestic violence and rape is just invisible in our society because we don’t want to talk about this because it just damages the status quo of this fucking website.
yeah honestly this has no link to my usual content but it’s so fucking true i can’t keep my eyes closed
also saw on the hellhole that is tiktok, between 2 funny lil gay things, a glimpse of straight tiktok with a woman saying that if her man has a morning wood IN HIS SLEEP then it’s perfectly okay to ride him
and that my friends is SA, unless discussed beforehand. while the op cleared things up afterwards and my hopeful little ass will choose to… believe her to keep my sanity untouched, the comment section DID NOT pass the vibe check, and a lot of women AND men think that a woman cannot SA a man on the basis that “men are always up for it”, “find me a man who wouldn’t be happy with that”, and the glorious “you can’t SA your partner you’re literally in a relationship”. i assume that we’re not braindead here but im still going to spell it out: just bc you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you can have sex with your sleeping partner, unless discussed beforehand. otherwise, it’s SA. AND I THOUGHT IT WAS COMMON KNOWLEDGE
I love graphic tees, you can wear full sentences on your body. To strangers, that sentence is everything they know about you, it’s literally your only interaction with most people. Make sure your shirt says something important to you.
when i was in middle/early high school my best friend and i ran an entire RP universe through a complicated network of over 100 fake facebook accounts working in real time, characters fighting in the chat with each other and causing drama on the feed and relationship statuses changing and updating profile pics and everything, different browsers on the same computer logged onto different accounts and running the whole thing like a real time grand strategy game we had documents we had charts we had relationship maps we had character arcs and we were so good with making it seem legit we were in it for the realism and it was just the two of us doing this, and at our school for mentally ill kids everyone else was 14 and doing drugs and getting pregnant and getting suspended for knifing each other in the parking lot but we just minded our own and 100+ fake people's business and stayed out of trouble and let me just say. facebook's rules nowadays would never let any of that fly and that's the greatest tragedy of all we could never pulled any of that off now but 2012 was a different beast. you had to have been there
we'd be in like 10th grade science class and it would be 1:43 pm on a tuesday and we'd be like oh shit emily should have her pregnancy test results by now we have to post updates and we'd be sitting in the back on our laptops rp'ing emily and her baby daddy and her brother having fights on her facebook wall in real time while our teacher had some bad outdated 90s documentary playing on the projector. kids these days would have to do that on twitter and it's just not the same, you have to prove every identity of every account you can't just make 100 different yahoo emails. this decade is a bust
