Always thinking, never sleeping

Queer & Demi, various hyperfixations, 18+, they/them

[mardyart]

I like my spidey a little lonely, a little conflicted and a little emotional

[everythingspid3rman]

Peter sweating bc there’s no select all option

[crowiin]

going insane over this movie

[cloudiifeather]

absolutely loved brand new day

[spicymochi]

matching tail squad

[spicymochi]

semiaquatic secret agent

[creekfiend]

on this website I frequently find myself feeling like ron swanson at home depot

[hypokeimena]

#when people tell you youre wrong when you are actually wrong: embarrassing! but tolerable #when people tell you you are wrong when RON SWANSON AT HOME DEPOT I KNOW MORE THAN YOU: #MOST HARROWING HUMAN EXPERIENCE.

[creekfiend]

funniest tag humanly possible. thank you for your correction, accuracy is important to me.

[forrpercyy]

three apples tall

[murraysiskind-deactivated202511]

It’s so crazy that suicide prevention is just people going awwww don’t!! Awwww come on noooooooooo stopppppp

[allhailklisz]

[yokelfelonking]

One of the best ones I saw was a thing noting that every single one of the few survivors of suicide jumps off of the Golden Gate Bridge realized, on the way down, that the problems they were killing themselves over actually were fixable or could be worked through...except for the now - extremely unfixable - problem of gravity.

[authortobenamedlater]

Went to the Holocaust Museum in DC once. There was a video interview of an Auschwitz survivor who said he and some other prisoners stayed up all night with a man who wanted to kill himself. The man didn’t kill himself and survived to liberation.

In the video the survivor said “Never seek a permanent solution to a temporary problem. And they’re all temporary problems.”

Hearing that from a guy who survived the Holocaust rewired my brain a little bit.

[drgrlfriend]

I think something a lot of people don't understand is that depression is not suicidality, and suicidality is not depression. People can, and are, depressed without being suicidal, and sometimes suicidality peaks as people are emerging from depression. Suicidality is a wave, and the trick is to allow that wave to crest and subside WITHOUT acting on it. Whatever it takes to ride it out. For some people that's distraction, like watching television. For others it's calling a friend -- not to talk about the suicidality, but just to talk. For others it could be as simple as going to sit in a coffee shop or library, because the presence of other people is a huge diminisher of suicide risk. That's what suicide safety planning is about. It's like having any other type of emergency plan, like a plan for fire or evacuation. It's making a plan when you are in the frame of mind to do so, so that you can just DO the plan without having to think about it when the occasion arises. When you're in the midst of suicidal ideation, or even intent, you're not in a problem-solving mood. So knowing past!you, with the help of a therapist hopefully, came up with the plan and all you have to do is follow up until the wave crests and subsides, is what allows you to see another day.

ETA: Here's a link to a safety plan. https://www.samhsa.gov/sites/default/files/988-safety-plan.pdf

[goldkirk]

There’s a really compassionate and well-written paper/book/thing called Suicide: The Forever Decision that’s written specifically for people who are currently suicidal. The letter to the reader at the beginning is wonderful and deeply understands how to talk to someone who’s suicidal without preaching or talking down to them.

It’s very honest. It’s very clear. It’s very kind. It presents you with a lot of information and a lot of understanding and lets you take it all in like the autonomous human you are, and make decisions from an informed place. It goes over the reality of suicide attempts, pain involved, likelihoods of survival, after effects of attempts, and how to get help if you want it after reading all of that and learning about the reality of suicide attempts.

You can read it for free here: https://qprinstitute.com/pdfs/Forever_Decision.pdf

No one can ever stop you if you’re really determined. Only you can stop yourself. If you’re suicidal and there’s ANY tiny part of you that wants a chance to not go down that route, but can’t convince the rest of you yet, give this short book a try. Or share it with anyone you know who might need it.

[herpsandbirds]

[zendadya]

Tom Holland & the cast of "The Odyssey" answer the 50 most searched questions (2026)

[taikatoridreams]

The story book continues

[fedoraspooky]

whoever's idea it was to have womens t-shirts have those tiny sleeves that go way up into the armpits must have done that maliciously

[ieatratsyummy]

The fatphobia, ableism, and misogyny surrounding mobility scooters makes me so fucking mad.

Mobility scooters are just as valid of an aid as power chairs, manual chairs, rollators, etc etc. the only reason YOU shy away from them is because the media has made you associate them with usually fat and mean older women who are "lazy".

Are mobility scooters really only used by "bitchy" fat older women in grocery stores who want to make your day worse, or have you been watching too many Karen tiktok compilations.

[wetdirtguy]

Me spending time with people: joy abounds, we are all connected and there is hope!

Me 1 day later: I need to be left alone to gather the pieces of Me together

Me 2 days later: there is something very rotten at my core and I will almost certainly die unloved

[jessmalia]

Mal's Gilmore Girls rewatch: Twenty-One Is the Loneliest Number 6.07

[stellaluna33]

Please forgive the essay, but @balkanswift 's tags were too good for me to pass by!

#this scene and others make me wonder what Emily studied in college and why she never had a job or career

According to the Revival, I believe, Emily studied History in college. I think she and Richard met in college (though did not attend the same school! Yale University didn't open its doors to women until after Emily's time. She would have attended one of the nearby Women's Colleges, like Smith or Vassar) and probably married soon afterwards, and for a woman of Emily's class and generation, a married woman's "career" was expected to be Managing her Husband's Household and being a Society Wife. It was supposed to be a symbiotic partnership: the husband made the money that enabled them to live a Society Life, and the wife made that life HAPPEN.

A college education for a woman of Emily's class and generation was valued so that she would BE an Educated and Cultured Person, NOT to prepare her for a "career." That said, the DAR (Daughters of the American Revolution) is actually a reasonable choice for a History Major like Emily to devote her time to, as one of the major focuses of the real-life organization is Historical Preservation (Revolutionary War history, to be specific). At least some of those "fundraisers" would probably be intended for historical preservation or purchasing monuments to commemorate historical events.

[kimbearablykute]

I'm going to go out on a limb and say that it was reasonable and good for that to be Emily's "career". Preservation of history is worthy and important, and for all her foibles, Emily is an excellent wife.

[stellaluna33]

And see, that's the crux of this scene, really: both of them are right in a way, and both of them are wrong. Richard is right that Emily's life would never be fulfilling for Rory, because RORY is a different person than Emily, with different desires and different interests, and Emily needs to see and accept that. But Richard is a fool for not seeing that Emily is the only reason he is able to live such a comfortable life without even having to think about it. Emily has been told her whole life that this is her highest and most important duty, and he's just told her (whether he meant to or not) that it's worthless.

[luminomoon]

someone needs to physically restrain my limbs so i stop purchasing notebooks and stationery. you see, i have a disease

[starwalkingpotato]

Ok, here is the OFFICIAL AND ONLY CORRECT GUIDE to starting reading Pratchetts Books. Its a multiple step process, so read all steps carefully otherwise you will be wrong and shunned to eternity.

1. Go outside.

2. Trust the universe for once in your life.

3. Find any of these: Library, Thriftstore, secondhand bookshop, a cupboard with free books, your relatives or friends book shelf or storage boxes ...

4. Locate the Pratchett Book.

5. The universe has now deciced with which book you must start with.

6. Compliment the universe for its wisdom.

7. From there on repeat the steps above.

Edit: Added relatives and/or friends to step 3