come over closer, hold me tight

lex or red | 20 | it/its | 137🌻110🌻104🔒moodboard requests open! active nov 22

[lexatheprofessional]

read pinned please!

Hi, welcome to my blog! I go by Red or Lexi currently and use it/its pronouns. I'm femme-leaning nonbinary and pansexual.

I'm 20, so just be aware before following. I follow DNIs that apply to me, but if I missed something or didn't notice a carrd link, feel free to let me know or just remove me as a follower! Safety is key especially for m!nors on this site.

My posts/reblogs will center around:

lovecore and feminine aesthetic

lgbt-inclusive female empowerment

life advice and positivity

self-care

neurodiversity (I am autistic, professional DX but support self-diagnosis)

mental health, especially d!sordered eat!ng (I do not post/reblog pictures or content that promotes them, just occasional personal venting, harm reduction, and body positivity around these issues. I do not condone self-injurious behaviors for anyone else, and encourage people to get help if they can)

I make moodboards, and requests will always be open. If I have a lot, I'll DM you to let you know where you are in the queue so you know you aren't being ignored.

DNI:

(I know people ignore DNIs, but this is a warning that I check my followers and will block you if you are one of these)

TERFs, racist, ableist, other discrimination

nsf/w image/video focused blogs (occasional is ok, just not if that's your entire presence)

under 15y/o

anyone else who makes me uncomfortable, it's my blog and I curate who follows me here

❤️🍒💋🌹🍓💄👠

[nothingbutloveforyou]

i want the small but significant things. the goodbye and hello kisses, knowing how they like their tea/ coffee, taking care of them when they’re sick, „i got that thing you mentioned“, falling asleep in each other’s arms and them being the first thing you see when you wake up, lazily making out, being a shoulder to cry on, cooking together and for each other, making memories together … sharing our lives until we can’t tell where one ends and the other begins

[aidashakur]

[non-ducor-duco-woman-deactivate]

Be excessive, be obsessive about what you truly want. There is no other option but getting what you want. You will work harder than you could imagine, there will be sleepless nights and probably you won't even have time to eat. But don't stop. Yes, for a long time it will be CHAOS, confusion. But let me tell you, THE SATISFACTION you have from the hard work, there is no better feeling than achieving your goal through hard work. And then, THE REGRET you'll have for not doing it will eat you alive. YOUR CHOICE

[that-one-girls-blog-posts]

reminder:

[violentwavesofemotion-deactivat]

“I came home. I enjoyed my bath. I enjoyed perfuming myself. I knew I was born for this, to do it over and over again, the ritual of the dressing, the perfuming for love, for sensuality. I enjoyed everything sensually,”

— Anaïs Nin, from a diary entry featured in Mirages: The Unexpurgated Diary; 1939-1947

[sleepyclover-blog]

I eat romantic shit up. If I were asked to just sit on a roof and look at the stars id probably internally combust

[soracities]

i'm a simple girl: i see sunlight on the water, i find god

[batmanego]

mannnnn until we all get okay with the idea of people needing other people to get them water/food/etc like. idk we’re just never gonna make it

[batmanego]

yes you have autistic in your bio but are you rude to people who need carers and assistance with basic tasks? do you call me lazy for a text post where i ask my father to bring me water? yes you have adhd and post constantly about executive dysfunction but if a schizophrenic person who needs but doesn’t have have a carer hasn’t showered or worn clean clothes in months exists, how are you going to react to that?

[batmanego]

yeah yeah you’re all for disability rights but if someone is campaigning for adult changing tables in disabled stall bathrooms because they have incontinence and have to wear a diaper are you going to think they’re weird? if a person has a visible colostomy bag are you going to think it’s gross? what about feeding tubes? how does your opinion on these issues change if the person in question is fat, or homeless, or a person of color?

[killrockstar]

no joke we need the 'free the nipple' movement back. what the hell happened.

[killrockstar]

i have to watch my spinach cook so without getting too into it i genuinely believe the desexualization of bodies and nudity could solve a shit ton of political problems faced with.

[killrockstar]

i dont know if anything i say ever makes sense, like obvi not eveything. but i think it would be a huge start in equality and treatmeant in not only women's lives but trans and gay people as well; groups of people who are so often sexualized that doing something as simple or innocent that's seen ok from (most, but i'm aware not all) cis men as literally, walking around without a shirt on, is seen as perverted and dangerous. removing this ideology is giving respect to the bodies of those (that is deserved if and when showing sexuality regardless) who often don't have it by just like. existing within a body. anyone here read the left hand of darkness.

[caffeinatedopossum]

As an asexual person, I think this would also help asexual people immensely. I'm so scared of things I do being misunderstood as sexual because so many people take that as an invitation to cross my boundaries when in reality, I'm just trying to be comfortable

[financeprincess]

✨ Currently Manifesting... ✨

Regular facials, manis, pedis, massages, Brazilian waxes, lash lifts. Glowing skin. Glowy makeup. Fluffy curls. Microshaded brows. Laser hair removal. Veneers. Subtle plastic surgery. Intoxicating perfumes. Shopping. Diamonds. Designer bags. Credit card rewards. International travel. Networking. Career certifications. Investing more. Brunch with the girls. Picnics. Farmers markets. Art galleries. Museums. Fresh flowers. Silk scarves. Big sunglasses. Beautiful lingerie. Silk robes. Receiving lots of gifts. Lots of sunlight. Hot yoga. Incredible sex. Nature hikes. Tennis lessons. Green smoothies. Matcha lattes. Candles that smell expensive. Sleeping 8+ hours a night. Bubble baths. Studying foreign languages. Absorbing as much knowledge as I can. Book clubs. Pottery classes. Jazz & classical music. Cooking with fresh herbs, vegetables, and spices. Champagne. Charcuterie & bruschetta. Gelato. Fresh bread. Ocean air. Hugging my loved ones. Petting dogs. Giving lots of gifts. Journaling. Meditating. Gratitude. Volunteering. Donating to charity. Manners. Etiquette. Charisma. Therapy. Healthy boundaries. Radical personal responsibility. Positivity. Self care. Abundant love.

[shahwolarchived-deactivated2021]

to those of you who literally just stayed alive and made it to the end of the year, i'm so proud of you.

[enki2]

[rnway]

[girlmostlikely]

Me, still insane: I used to be sooo crazy

[tryingtogetaway]

love is not as transient and conditional as some of you guys think it is. when people tell you they care about you, they don’t change their mind ten minutes later because you said something weird or annoying. the people that love you will still love you when you do things that upset them. love doesn’t instantly disappear like that

[recoversuggestions]

friendly reminder that you didn’t waste your year. any moments of happiness or comfort, any small accomplishments, they all matter. this has been a really hard year, and simply surviving is something to be proud of.