you're a copycat

blog detailing my life with narcissistic personality disorder. every time i get anon hate my ego doubles in size. she/her, hy/hymn.

[lifewithnpd]

quick intro

hey, i'm halo, i have npd and questioning hpd and i use she/her or hy/hymn pronouns (i get some people have religious trauma so won't want to use my neos) talk of narcissistic abuse and shit-talking people with npd just because of their disorder will not be tolerated here. this is a safe space for people with npd, and more broadly, people with pds. xoxo, halo

[hpdcultureis]

hpd culture is HELLO? AM I INVISIBLE? PAY ATTENTION TO ME. PLEASE. HOLY SHIT PLEASE. I FUCKINF BEG OF YOU IM COOL I SWEAR. LOOK AT ME HELLO??? BSHHSHSBSB

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[neurodivergenttales]

Society: why do you want a diagnosis so much? Honestly, you just want a label so that you can feel special

Also society: you obviously don't actually struggle with that, you don't even have a diagnosis

[worms-in-my-brain]

People with psychotic disorders are neurodivergent too.

People with personality disorders are neurodivergent too.

People with substance abuse disorders are neurodivergent too.

People with tic disorders are neurodivergent too.

People with bipolar disorder are neurodivergent too.

People with dissociative disorders are neurodivergent too.

Neurodivergence isn’t just ADHD, autism, anxiety, and depression. (Plus those last two also get left out sometimes!) Neurodivergence is anything that affects your brain.

“Neurodivergent people hate loud noises” is actually just as valid as a statement as “neurodivergent people have delusions,” “neurodivergent people have tics,” or even “neurodivergent people have low empathy.”

[mossy-aro]

ppl will be like ‘i support people w mental health issues!!1!!!’ until it’s about a societally demonised disorder. ppl will be “allies” until they’re asked to stop using psychotic as an insult, to stop equating low empathy with being inherently evil, to stop calling anyone they don’t like a sociopathic narcissist. it’s so telling how people will immediately resort to the exact same ableist language the second they’re not talking about a ‘sympathetic’ disorder like depression or anxiety.

if ur respect for people w mental health issues is conditional on what sort of issue they have, it’s not respect at all.

[writeitinsharpie]

my dash is like "shitpost" "important sociopolitical event" "fandom fuckery" "queer discourse" "vague hornyposting" "advice for adulthood" "calls for a boycott of companies for xyz reasons" "series of gifs of a show i don't watch" "cute cat" and i think that's how this hellsite was meant to be consumed

[charlesoberonn]

Sumerian Veteran: *has severe PTSD but doesn't know it because the term won't be invented for another 5000 years* I fight the same battle in my dreams every night and my relationship with my family has fallen apart.

Sumerian Healer: *saw hundreds of veterans with the exact same affliction before* You're cursed by desert demons.

[mr-elementle]

actually we have recorded texts of sumerian warriors describing symptoms that closely match ptsd, and the diagnoses was not desert demons, but rather "Those dudes you killed are still attacking you with their ghosts because you killed them"

[oaluz]

from complex ptsd: from surviving to thriving by pete walker

[hauntedselves]

Image transcript:

Human Bill of Rights (Guidelines for Fairness and Intimacy)

I have the right to be treated with respect.

I have the right to say no.

I have the right to make mistakes.

I have the right to reject unsolicited advice or feedback.

I have the right to negotiate for change.

I have the right to change my mind or my plans.

I have the right to change my circumstances or course of action.

I have the right to have my own feelings, beliefs, opinions, preferences, etc.

I have the right to protest sarcasm, destructive criticism, or unfair treatment.

I have the right to feel angry and to express it non-abusively.

I have the right to refuse to take responsibility for anyone else’s problems.

I have the right to refuse to take responsibility for anyone else’s bad behavior.

I have the right to feel ambivalent and to occasionally be inconsistent.

I have the right to play, waste time and not always be productive.

I have the right to occasionally be childlike and immature.

I have the right to complain about life’s unfairness and injustices.

I have the right to occasionally be irrational in safe ways.

I have the right to seek healthy and mutually supportive relationships.

I have the right to ask friends for a modicum of help and emotional support.

I have the right to complain and verbally ventilate in moderation.

I have the right to grow, evolve and prosper.

End transcript.

[cpunkhobie2]

shoutout to everyone with forget disorders (adhd, DID/osdd, ptsd/c-ptsd, asd, dementia/alzeheimers, schizophrenia, other psychotic disorders, major depressive, chronically ill/phys disabled people with brain fog, people with long-Covid, natural memory degradation, and etc.)

[disability-can-be]

I love you!

[fernwah-funzone]

wait you understand that kinks are ok because they're fantasies that make you happy right? you all get that you don't need to have trauma for your kinks to be okay? right? like none of you think i witnessed a tragic accident on the pool toy assembly line right?

[fernwah-funzone]

there seems to be some confusion in the notes of this post so just to clarify i'm specifically talking about whatever kink you think is immoral

[sproutlett]

forgive yourself again and again and again and again and again

[typewriter-worries]

love letters, victoria chang

[only-knives]

[Text ID:

If you don't forgive yourself, tomorrow will still arrive. So you might as well forgive yourself.

/End ID]

[novitiate-deactivated20181021]

‘dont say gay if youre bi’ lmao lets all leave the house! lets all go outside and get a big gulp of fresh air is what im thinking

[yardsards]

[the-delta-quadrant-deactivated2]

[ID: a screenshot of a tumblr tag that says “if we all go outside in the right place we can all be called the same slurs regardless!”]

[chunkecheeks]

type “i am” in the tags and whatever comes up first is your new mandatory kin

[floatygirlii]

I am best girl🌸

[eastern-lights]

…

[goodfish-bowl]

You come into MY HOUSE

[k1ngtok1]

HMM

[un-love]

@holdinbacksecrets

[lifewithnpd]

accurate

[nicepersondisorder]

im so overwhelmingly sexy, this is why i never leave the house. if i went out for a walk people would start losing their minds and chase after me because im so so so beautiful and irresistible

[egotisticalmachine]

google dot com show me tips to acquire supply from people without being manipulative and fake but also without having to be the one to go initiate interaction. google dot com show me how to summon admirers who are also my friends. google dot com you arent fucking helping

[defiantsuggestions]

Listen to me. Listen. Listen to me. Please.

You don't have to earn the right to call the suffering you went through abusive.

I keep seeing people say, "I don't think I have a right to say I was abused because it was never physical," and "I don't have the right to say I was abused because it wasn't that bad," and most infuriatingly, "I don't have the right to say I was abused because I know I was loved."

Please. I am begging you.

I was abused in countless different ways for a long long time, and I am telling you, you are allowed to call your situation abusive.

You don't need permission, and I don't care if someone else 'has it worse.'

You are allowed to call it abuse.

It's okay. You aren't disrespecting anybody. You aren't taking attention away from "real victims." You can acknowledge your situation is fucked up. You can call it abuse.

[thegoodluckpirate]

Amazing news y’all, turns out fat people with NPD are wonderful and cherished and stunningly gorgeous!

Fat narcissists are babes and kings and absolute legends, it’s just a fact!