trans woman: *sets any kind of boundary to prevent herself from being harmed*
literally every tme person at once: "wow thats not very Love Light and Good Vibes of you, clearly she has whatever shes going through coming"
If a trans womans take on the queer community seems unduly hostile or militant to you, you need to sit back and consider that the vast majority of queer people treat this shit like a cool kids club and not a material foundation for resisting violence. For us this is about survival.
"Wehh I went to (oppressed ingroup hangout) and they acted like I have some kind of privelege over them and therefor we arent exactly the same!! why are they dividing the community" Do you hear yourselves.
Related to the op post on boundaries, and part of this is due to being Black *in addition to* being transfemme:
I can count on my hands the number of people who I’ve turned down for sex or set a sexual boundary with who DID NOT go on to ignore it, or who didn’t then punish me for setting said boundary (in some cases, via HAL specifically)
I’m not a petite person, but because of the view of transfemmes as solely a sexual object for others, and as Kali Nicole Gross said it, the “unrapeability of Black women” due to a perceived lack of honor/virtue, I’m little more than a rapetoy to anyone who wants it.
If I fight back I’m an angry, violent, aggressive Black tranny only seeking to harm innocents. If I don’t, they can later go on to claim anything about me and have it believed despite me having been the victim.
There is no freedom besides that which we claim for ourselves, it will never be provided at the hands of those that oppress us. You have to preserve your boundaries and fight back no matter what happens because it’s all you truly have. Please.
Folks, Anonsee works for the federal government and came here after fae were driven off of bluesky for bragging about security clearances. Probably stop reblogging them because they do not have liberation at heart.
Block people who do shit like this. Attempting to isolate black transfems is blatant violence and transfeminists should know better. Its always the most vague shit too
lets be a little less vague then.
anonsee has publicly posted detailed descriptions of choking a woman unconscious from standing position in a sexual manner without consent. fae expresses confusion that this was not well-received, and points to this as evidence of hot allostatic load.
fae's also had a tendency to cross boundaries and push people into sexual conversations online in very uncomfortable ways. someone says they hate spiders, anonsee says a bunch of extremely horny spider shit to them. things of this nature.
hell I liked anonsee. I publicly pushed back against people who were casting something fae said to me as a boundary violation (white women bottoming as reparations I think, fae can verify, BK implied I was a victim but I wasn't harmed). but I also believe the women who have alleged faer misconduct, who are not exclusively white trans women.
transfeminism means that we understand and consider the multilayered oppressions that anonsee faces as a black transfemme that I don't face as a white trans woman. it means restorative justice, which isn't just ignoring the bad and yelling about how horrible the victims are for not just forgetting it. it doesn't mean that we actively choose to hide a missing stair under a rug. anonsee deserves to live and thrive in safety, not to have survivors ignored and vulnerable people kept ignorant.
anyways. I came back to tumblr for a hot second because someone decided to question whether both anonsee and my rapist were run off bluesky simply for being non-white and trans. imagine my annoyance seeing this here too.
Oh hey its people who doxxed me using the word of a known federal informant (Laurelai Bailey) and helped talk me into offing myself bc one of them got HAL’d and told me in full detail and got scared others would find out if I wasn’t dead :)
@dialogusnes @livfreeorcryhard I’ve been unemployed since 2024, my last job was doing cybersecurity for the fucking census bureau, and I spent part of the last year homeless and only not on the streets because one of my partners was able to take @rookfeathered and I in to sleep on their floor last minute.
Y’all have harassed EVERY SINGLE ATTEMPT I’ve made at finding work I was physically capable of doing, or accessing means of survival, the moment you found out I was trying to do it - including harassing me out of being able to work with a trans journalism org to specifically call attention to Black transfemme issues which almost no other journalism spots are doing. I can’t do sex work, get mutual aid, EVEN WHILE I WAS HOMELESS, safely because of y’all!
And like I said earlier, BECAUSE OF FREAKS LIKE YALL I NOW GET SEXUALLY ASSAULTED AND NOBODY WILL FUCKING BELIEVE ME BECAUSE OF THE VERY LIES YALL WORK TO PROPAGATE!
Y’all will admit to lying on me! Admit to orchestrating all this! The only thing I *did* do, which I have been very open about when I was on bsky, was get forced to work in tech in DC by my most abusive ex as part of her financial (and other forms of) abuse of me because she learned I had a chance of getting paid well, and phrased shit on my resume in a way to get myself jobs while being an openly Black crippled tranny.
And once I had free will I ended up using the access of working for companies providing services to the fucking government to 1. Be a whistleblower multiple times. 2. Used the tech money to house, feed, and otherwise care for 5 other disabled trans people, constantly help mutual aid for DOZENS of other disabled and/or bipoc trans folks, and more!
I am not the fucking person y’all are obsessed with painting me as, because me actually telling the truth living by the EXACT SHIT IVE BEEN SAYING THIS WHOLE TIME would mean that y’all destroyed a Black transfemme’s life yet again, after they had already told you you would and how, and y’all can’t stand that idea. Y’all got bamboozled by an *actual, well known* fed and some white supremacists and are committing to the bit because otherwise you have to acknowledge the horror of what you’ve done to me.
Anyway, I’m insane enough now to now tell y’all that I hope that until you come and confess what you did to me, that each of you ends up in your own personal version of the hell I’ve lived in since I tried to kill myself at y’all’s behest. I hope no rest comes to you until you take my justice into your own hands and fight for me not because it’s easy, but because it’s right. I hope your own restoration remains tantalizingly out of reach until you restore me. I hope you are burdened with the need for exactly the Justice I seek.
Screenshots/receipts below break - obvious disclaimers of “no I didn’t dox laurelai bailey”, “no I’m not dating her or a nazi”, no I wasn’t a “gun and badge carrying cop”, no I’m not a mass murderer responsible for millions of deaths, no I’m not a wifebeater, no I never worked to do covid disinfo to get people killed what the fuck:
now, this may be surprising, but the screenshots of people who harassed me a week after i was raped as part of their campaign to out my rapist for another rape she did aren't something i'm responsible for, and i'm not associated with the other rapist who colluded with my rapist to run cover for that other rape and manipulate me.
also, and this purely coincidence, but it's very funny to me that one of those screenshots' timestamps are literally within the hour of my rape. so thanks for that.
but you didn't know any of that.
No, I didn’t and I’m sorry about that coincidence.
Also why would you believe them still when they ALSO did that to you? They wanted me gone bc I wouldn’t let their racism slip by and I wouldn’t shut up and be a token like BK. they used you as a pawn as well.
Like trust me I empathize on that all bc I’m so fucking tired of this, but what is the point of repeatedly hunting me down to the point I can’t even do mutual aid when I’m homeless or unemployed? I literally almost got jumped by a group of teens for being “ faggot” yesterday irl and I have to come and beg for my innocence on here too. Even if I was evil as y’all say, how is any of this fucking justice and not just making sure I Remember My Place?
who said i believe *them*?
i believe my friends who complained about how you behaved towards them. i believe you, when you say that you worked cybersecurity for a federal bureau. i believe your descriptions of events that you wrote about, up to a certain point. and that point is where you describe them as a harmless misunderstanding, and the other party obviously would not. and honestly i'd trust BK because he listened to me, and apologized, when i asked him not to use my name to attack you.
salty sucks shit through a straw. lb is a serial rapist, among other horrors. you have a pattern of crossing peoples' boundaries and responding to any pushback the same way you responded to me.
justice doesn't mean we all pretend nothing happened because you'll yell at anyone who talks about it and losers will DM me loser shit behind a block.
