women and women first

lesbian-19

[sartbismus]

moids are absolutely terrified of women waking up and realizing they’d be happier without them.

[totaltraumacomic]

Strawberry Ice Cream

[old-school-butch]

[femsolid]

“I once sat on an airplane in front of two men and a woman, the woman sitting between the men. I gathered that all three of them worked for the same company. They appeared to be hierarchical peers, but the woman kept her status lower by laughing constantly, during and after nearly everything she said, as if to say, “Don’t worry, guys. I’m really just a dumb, silly, insignificant woman. I’m not threatening at all. So you can let me be here. And stay here.” Through all her laughter, the men didn’t laugh once. I wanted to turn around and shout at her: “Stop laughing! Stop belittling yourself -and all the rest of us!” But of course I didn’t. She -and they- would have thought I’d quite lost grip. So I spent two of the most wretched hours I’ve spent on a plane in a long time, listening to that self effacing, self-hating, woman-hating laugh.”

- Going Out of Our minds, Sonia Johnson

[monsterleg]

ew I’m not one of those pit-shaving man-loving straight-girl feminists

[empressofdiamonds]

Men's sexual excitation means fucking nothing at all.

Don't be flattered that a man is saying he's having a boner to your pics, men get boner to specifically placed cantaloupes at the grocery store. They get horny seeing a hole in the wall and are wonder wether they should fuck the hole, and with a condom or not.

Their (horny) compliments mean JACKSHIT. Expect money and actual efforts to woo you, they're more worth than a man's 15th boner of that day (oh what a honor!).

Their sexual excitation is worth less than pennies.

[lucydacusgirl]

*says ‘I’m so fucking sick of this pandemic shit’ in a distinctly vaccinated, pro mask, pro lockdown, pro taking all the necessary safety measures way*

[femalecharacterthatyouhate-deac]

[desaturated7-deactivated2021090]

incels are just the first generation of men who have been brought up addicted to porn. every single incel talking point about women is from porn. incels think women are having sex from the time they hit puberty onward bc they watch porn with pedophilic undertones or actual cp/loli, incels think women can have sex at a moments notice w any man they want bc that's what happens to women in porn, incels think women regularly have extreme sex like anal or gangbangs bc that's what porn shows them, incels think women like men who are abusive or violent bc that's what women in porn like. u know that weird meme that's being going around abt white women fucking dogs? yeah that's been an incel thing for years. why is that when men are overwhelmingly the perpetrators of beastiality? bc most men will have come across animal abuse porn by the time they're graduated high school and incels, who watch porn even more than normal men, see women having sex with animals regularly. incels are just men who's only contact with women has been through porn, men who accept that porns depiction of women is accurate, and they hate women because they totally believe what they see in porn. when they try to roleplay what they see with real women, and the women have boundaries and personalities and lives outside of sex, it infuriates them not because they're mad women have been abused and misrepresented, but because they're upset they are not getting the ultimate male fantasy they were promised from childhood.

[killjoyfem-deactivated20250218]

Men are so sad.

What’s even more pathetic is that this kind of douche is exactly the reason why women don’t want to be around men in the first place, lmao. Comparing our wanting to feel safe and not be sexualized to literal racism. It really shows how much they’re uncomfortable with/hate women’s boundaries.

Anyways, I can’t imagine how much more relaxing it would be to work out around women only. I’d definitely be way more into it instead of worrying about other things. If only there was a place like this near me 😭

[knight-of-vengeance-deactivated]

@blood-drunk-discourse @someoneintheshadow456

Anyways, I can't imagine how much more relaxing it would be to work out around women only.

She sounds exactly like the female bullies you've talked about.

[so-i-can-like-things]

Hey you all remember that time Dani Matters took pictures of a naked woman at a gym, without her consent btw, and posted it on social media for all to see? And then she tried to weasel her way out of it by saying it was an accident, that she only meant to send those body shaming pics of some random naked stranger to her friend?  OP is really delusional if she thinks that some women won’t hesitate to go all mean girls at the gym and shame/harass other women. 

[ngsb3]

Ok, so where are the men's only gyms?

Or are women the only ones allowed the privilege of having spaces all to their selfish little selves?

[killjoyfem-deactivated20250218]

Hey you all remember that time when

Research reveals 79 per cent of women have felt unsafe while exercising

Seventy-nine per cent of women have told Sky Sports News they have felt unsafe while exercising.

Woman raped by man she met at Oxford gym, jury hears

A WOMAN was raped on an Oxford street by a man she had met at a city gym, a court heard.

Pune: Woman gym trainer raped by colleague, police hunt for suspect

Police have launched a search for the suspect, who is also a trainer at the same establishment.

GYM RAPE CASES: Disturbing details involving teen who allegedly confessed to attack

Court records have revealed disturbing details about at least one of the assaults the 18-year-old is charged with carrying out.

Woman sexually assaulted at 24 Hour Fitness in Fremont, suspect arrested, police say

A Good Samaritan who heard the victim's screams helped pull the suspect off then held him down until police arrived.

Women angry at gym's handling of sexual assault complaints: 'I feel like we've lost'

Two Wellington women have spoken out about their months-long battle with a gym they worked at after complaining a trainer had sexually assau

Former Muay Thai instructor found guilty of sexually assaulting woman after trial class

SINGAPORE: A former Muay Thai instructor was found guilty on Wednesday (Jan 22) of sexually assaulting a woman who had gone to his gym for a

I mean, I could keep going, but you guys must get the hang of it by now.

When women seek out their own spaces away from men, they’re not worried about bullying or “mean-girls”. It’s horrible what this Dani Matters did, but men are still the majority of the individuals harassing and raping women in public spaces. So actually, you are the delusional ones here for believing these things are comparable at all. If you have this much of a bone to pick with women wishing to be safe to the point you view it as “selfish”, you are the problem.

If men want male only gyms... They can go for it, I guess? Do you want women to hold their hands and make it for them? LOL

[killjoyfem-deactivated20250218]

This fitness influencer/gym instructor that I follow on Instagram just posted this and I instantly got reminded of this post, and the reason why female-only spaces are completely necessary. The males in the notes are big coping.

[killjoyfem-deactivated20250218]

Nope, I’m not done, actually.

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[chlorinatedpopsicle]

A man secretly filmed women working out at a gym and uploaded the videos to a porn website.

A man secretly recorded videos of eight women in the changing room at a gym.

A Planet Fitness employee was arrested after a hidden camera he installed in one of the gym’s tanning rooms was discovered.

[transperceneige]

in much more interesting news, today at work I got to explore an abandoned 500-year-old castle, seized by the state because of the owner's massive tax evasion

we spent an hour and half going all over the grounds, I'd never felt so #urbex

[transperceneige]

just want to point out that we found this door at one point

[slightly-beefy-lampshade]

Sick story but gotta ask do you have more pictures of the door

[transperceneige]

just this very slightly different angle :

[quixylvre]

[gay-jesus-probably]

For the record while ATLA is an excellent show and Zukos redemption arc was perfectly paced, I would kill to have had Zuko join the Gaang at the end of book two, because the first half of book three would have been the funniest thing on the planet. Like. Just picture it. A bunch of unsupervised teenagers travelling undercover through enemy territory, trying to blend in… and the only people who have even been there before are 1. A guy who hasnt been there in a century, and 2. The former crown prince who has literally never spoken to a fire nation citizen who wasnt nobility, military, or one of his servants.

Like. Neither of them have any idea what they’re doing, or how normal fire nation citizens act, but they’re pretty sure the other one is wrong. Rest of the gaang knows even less. No adults. Zuko and Aang getting into a shouting debate over the finer points of fire nation culture is a nightly event. They are both so wrong, and so, so awkward

[gay-jesus-probably]

Zuko, for the fifth and probably not last time: FOR THE LAST TIME, NOBODY USES THE PHRASE ‘FLAMEO HOTMAN’!

Aang, aware of that fact but in too deep to back out now: OH YEAH? THEN WHAT DO THEY SAY!?

Zuko, clueless and bluffing: …Something about glory to the Fire Lord?

Toph, well aware that both are lying through their teeth and have no idea what they’re talking about, and fucking loving every second of this train wreck: Clearly the only solution is for both of you to go into town tomorrow and test your theories out.

[gay-jesus-probably]

And the side taking, oh my god the side taking from the other three. Katara sides with Aang every single time. Does she honestly believe that the people of the Fire Nation greet each other with ‘Flame on, my em-brother’? Hell no. Would she rather die than say that Zuko’s correct? Yes.

Sokka usually sides with Zuko, unless he comes up with something astoundingly stupid. Zuko’s thoughts, while usually wrong, sound a lot more plausible then Aangs, and fuck it he’s willing to take a gamble.

Toph is the closest thing to a neutral party they have, in that she knows damn well they’re all full of shit, and has chosen to instead egg them on to make it worse. She’s an agent of chaos, and this is free nightly entertainment. She’s having the time of her life right now.

[gay-jesus-probably]

The debate takes a brief pause once they stop going undercover and get to the business of actually saving the world, but holy shit. once things have settled down? it’s back on with a vengeance. Except now Aang and Zuko aren’t the two most wanted people in the Fire Nation, they’re the two most influential people in the world. They are trendsetters. They can make slang become a thing.

When Zuko first hears the phrase ‘flameo, hotman’ being thrown around casually, it takes a lot of deep breathing exercises to not immediately return to his previous occupation of hunting the Avatar.

[gay-jesus-probably]

Iroh: I’m so proud of the way you’ve been ruling, nephew. Flameo, hotman!

Zuko, in tears: How could you say that

[ratkingreject]

sometimes youtube comments are complete garbage and then there are comments like this

[lovelyslimebois]

Drop the link op!!??

[ratkingreject]

here you go!

warning: it is absolutely not what you’re expecting

[headspace-hotel]

as if i could possibly be expecting anything at all based on just that comment

[fingerlickinbutch-deactivated20]

Hey I remember there was a survey on gay men who were old enough to have lived through the aids crisis and a vast majority (above 90% iirc) were uncomfortable with/disapproved of the term queer. But I can't find it anymore. Do you or any of your followers have a link to that survey? I want to show it to a friend who just doesn't believe it's a slur and thinks ~it's been reclaimed and changed uwu ~.

I tried looking and couldn’t find it :/

Anyone seeing this have a link?

[shes-unforgettable]

Survey Finds That 93% Of Gay Men Don't Want To Be Labeled "QUEER"

A recent survey done by the website The Gay UK has found that 60% of those polled find using the term “Queer” to describe members of the LGB

[fingerlickinbutch-deactivated20]

Thanks queen 💕💕💕

[angeryducc]

“Queer” should not be reclaimed given its painful history as a slur — The Lamron

The word “queer” has undergone something of a renaissance during the past few decades. Colleges are implementing “queer studies” programs, t

Simon Fanshawe: "As I was kicked, he shouted Fucking Q***r. I still won’t write the Q word in full." - Lesbian and Gay News

As the fist hurtled towards me I curled up. Rather pathetically I was worried about the punch breaking my glasses because they’d have to be

Here's a couple more articles ive reblogged on the subject. They're more personal pieces but good reads.

[pronounpin-deactivated20200801]

If you're not trans, why do you consider "cis" inaccurate or offensive? I want to understand thoroughly

Personally, I find it offensive because it forces me to play a role in other people's delusions. Trans men are women, and are considered men only by the generosity of others. Forcing me to call myself cis to validate trans people's feelings is not acceptable to me. I refuse to be relegated to a subcategory of my own sex. I'm a male, a total male, and gay men haven't spent our entire lives having our manhood called into question to accept anything less.

And I'm just a man. Women are beaten, raped, forced to marry and bear children, and sold into sexual slavery. Little girls have their bodies mutilated and get shot in the head for going to school, and many of them don't even make it out of their mother's womb before they are designated worthless and cast off - all of this on the basis of their sex. And they're expected to call themselves cis and accept it as a privilege? Pass.

Cis implies comfort in one's identity as a man or a woman, and I know from my own experiences as a gay man that that is a lie. I have never been comfortable in my body and I have always felt that it was wrong, that the way I moved and spoke wasn't the way a real man should move and speak, and gender dysphoria is a common experience among gay people. And I know from what I've heard and read that women too often feel uncomfortable with their sex.

I'm guessing this question is in response to my "men who call themselves cis don't get to talk to me" post so I'll address that by saying that I have too much self-respect and dignity to lessen myself to validate the feelings of people who call me a faggot and a genital fetishist because I won't sleep with them and I expect any man I make part of my life to be the same.

And lastly, for what I think is reason enough, it's just fucking ugly.

[rudestfem]

You really went off with this one king 🤴

[powerfem]

This is so elegantly written

[thevaginamonoblogs]

It also implies that male and female aren’t innate. It implies that there are subcategories of male and female that are a choice. That being “cis” is a choice, and often enough it’s implied that being “cis” is the wrong choice.

[lord-duninsany]

Sex is not a socially acquired identity but a physical reality that has consequences for men and women regardless of how they "identify." How did an entire generation suddenly suppress this basic fact of human existence from their active consciousness?

[illalwaysbehere]

This entire generation spends their whole lives online and not in reality. That's how.

[euryale-far-roaming]

It's postmodernism. If everything is subjective, there is no real truth, and individuals construct our own identity and reality, then it's impossible to form class-based consciousness.

[now-exiting-fuckability-deactiv]

I didn't understand BDSM until at 16 I asked my boyfriend to choke me and he faltered. His hands wrapped gently around my neck. He'd never had sex before and had only seen a little porn. He held his hands there, warm and soft and I waited. He shuddered, voice cracked. He couldn't do it. He wanted so badly to please me but he couldn't hurt me. Why? Because he loved me.

Because that's what caring about another person looks like. I was so, so damaged. I knew love in power games and sharp words. I knew love as a means of owning another person. Love was proven in how much you could endure. His warm palms against my neck, sweating and limp. The look in his eyes when he said, I don't want to. I won't. That's what love is. It's caring about you even when it means not doing what you ask for. It's not hurting you because they simply can't bear it.

BDSM is antithetical to love. Someone who loves you will never use their hands around your neck to steal the breath from you lungs. They'll do it with a surprise kiss against your neck, driving an hour to bring you soup when your throat hurts, by remembering an offhand comment you made years ago. Someone who wants to hurt you or takes pleasure in causing you pain, DOES NOT love you. Period.

[radfemgwen-deactivated20210717]

agony. Actual fucking agony

[radkindoffeminist]

You start to become pretty numb to these after a while, but there’ll always be that bit that still hurts.

[senorjaded-deactivated20230917]

The amount of likes are what hurt me.

[radkindoffeminist]

And yet TRAs continue to tell me that ‘it’s only a small minority’ who say stuff like this…

[gvmrot]

maybe I’m old but I remember when the trans people that were dating lesbians and gay people were... transmen dating lesbians, transwomen dating gay men... I remember when it was common to have transmen in the lesbian community bc they still felt a connection. Now it’s shitty/evil/transphobic if you say that.. :/ before we could still be homosexual without being transphobic, but now being homosexual IS transphobic. Amazing.

[lesbian-lizards]

^ I remember those days too. I mean that’s the reason why it’s “LGBT”—because the T was also gay. But now this community is overrun with heterosexuals who want to choke us out.