optimismishappiness

I have messy hair to go along with my messy thoughts. Just blogging through my heartache. Wassss goooo'?

[thebuddhistmind]

Once you accept yourself as you are, you allow yourself to be happy. You don’t need to become anything or anyone else, just as a rose doesn’t need to become a lotus in order to be happy. A rose is already beautiful. You are wonderful just as you are.

Thich Nhat Hanh

[laughing-treees-blog]

When you listen to a thought, you are aware not only of the thought but also of yourself as the witness of the thought. A new dimension of consciousness has come in. As you listen to the thought, you feel a conscious presence - your deeper self - behind or underneath the thought, as it were. The thought then loses its power over you and quickly subsides, because you are no longer energizing the mind through identification with it. This is the beginning of the end of involuntary and compulsive thinking.

Eckhart Tolle // The Power of Now (via laughing-treees)

[lafemmedufutur]

Affirmation for Today

The universe is on my side.

The universe is on my side.

The universe is on my side.

[lookingformyhappilyeverafter]

It's been so long since I last felt like this. I've actually never felt like this. I always used to wonder why people killed themselves. What led to that. How selfish. How could they not see that things were going to get better. But right now I can't see that things are going to get better. I don't ever see them getting better. They're never going to get better and I'm so tired of trying to make my days better. I don't know what to do anymore. I need help

[lookingformyhappilyeverafter]

I told you to hold me with fragile hands because I’ve been broken before and finally found all of my pieces again. You grabbed my hips and whispered I was the best thing you’ve ever had. And then you spread your fingers and I fell through and I didn’t realize until it was too late. You shattered me.

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[lookingformyhappilyeverafter]

For a second I started to see just how fucking good we could be that I forgot of just how fucking bad we were.

You’re so toxic to me but I deserve this because I let you be. (via lookingformyhappilyeverafter)

[lookingformyhappilyeverafter]

I wish I could go back in time and erase, erase, erase everything about you because I swear I’m not as strong as everyone thinks I am and it’s so hard to keep smiling.

How can I be so strong when there’s moments like these that cripple me? (via lookingformyhappilyeverafter)

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

One of the hardest lessons in life is letting go. Whether it’s guilt, love, anger, loss or betrayal, change is never easy. We fight to hold on and we fight to let go.

Lessons Learned in Life (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

[babyanimalgifs]

baby animals blog

[words-of-emotion]

No matter how much it hurts now, one day you will look back and realize it changed your life for the better.

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[caramelcoatedxxxtacy]

Don’t you ever say “I love you more”, it’s a fucking trap. Because you do love them more. And they’ll leave you first, And my God how it hurts,

just don’t do it. (via caramelcoatedxxxtacy)

[caramelcoatedxxxtacy]

I’m not the girl your mother warns you about. I won’t kiss your best friend or break your heart. I won’t make you choose between what you love to do & me. I’m not cold. I’m not reckless. I’m the girl your father mentions when your mom’s not around. I’m the girl that gets away. I will love you more than anything. I will kiss you when you cry. I will stand by your side until you decide otherwise. And you’re just like your father, so you will. You’ll let me go & I won’t look back, But you will. I promise you, you will. I’m that girl.

http://caramelcoatedxxxtacy.tumblr.com/ (via caramelcoatedxxxtacy)

[lookingformyhappilyeverafter]

I just wanted to love you.

[waitingfor-you]

found this in my high school bathroom stall //

[emptymidnights]

When I’m standing in front of you, on the verge of breaking, all I want is for you to ask if I’m okay. I don’t know if I’m too good at hiding it, or if you’re just not looking.

because you never do // L.B. (via emptymidnights)

[lookingformyhappilyeverafter]

I told you to hold me with fragile hands because I’ve been broken before and finally found all of my pieces again. You grabbed my hips and whispered I was the best thing you’ve ever had. And then you spread your fingers and I fell through and I didn’t realize until it was too late. You shattered me.

[words-and-feelings-deactivated2]

Yet here I am still awake at 3 in the morning still wondering what I did wrong.

@ofelia-h-m 3 a.m. thoughts // submission (via words-and-feelings)