tumblr: never be ashamed of being in an abusive relationship and calling your parter out on it!! speak up if you're comfortable so you can motivate other victims on speaking up too!! never feel embarrassed or guilty of what you went through, it was not your fault and your abuser deserves to pay for it
taylor swift: writes dear john, a song about being 19 in an abusive relationship with john mayer who was 31 at the time
tumblr: OK BUT DID JOHN MAYER ASK TO BE PART OF THAT NARRATIVE??????????????












