I am childish and hate to lose.

🍰 I'm what they like to call a special case.

[we-flew-with-it]

"if you have social anxiety you have to socialize" oh wow thank you. you cured me. i am now no longer bound to my home for weeks on end in fear of strangers thanks to your (checks notes) insensitive tumblr post

[spicymochi]

your month, your flower friend!

[arkhamverses]

everyone is allowed a character that they dislike purely because of how the fandom acts about them. it is okay and it is allowed

[spacecowbabe]

when Brennan said "The first rule of existence is: as above, so below. People are fractal images of the universe. You are as we are. In the same way your heart feels and your mind thinks, you, mortal beings are the instrument by which the universe cares. If you choose to care, then the universe cares. If you don't, then it doesn't."

when Brennan said "It is a horrifying responsibility to think because things cannot remain the same, each and every one of us must shoulder some responsibility for how they will become different."

when Brennan said "Sometimes decisions are not difficult. Sometimes they are just hard."

when Brennan said "There is no moral. The Wolf eats you one day and until it does, the forest is beautiful."

when Brennan said "I always felt the fundamental substance of the universe is creation. None of this makes any sense, when you really break it down. It's like, none of this had to happen, but it's beautiful and art is the definition of 'this didn't have to happen, but it's beautiful.' [...] It resonates with the universe because the universe is consciousness playing with itself."

when Brennan said

when Brennan said

[kiwinatorwaffles]

having adhd and being a creator is like being on a timer. oh sorry you have this art idea? well you have approximately 12 hours to start it and 6 hours to finish the task or else you will lose interest and inevitably move on. oh you have an idea for a one-shot? well you’d better finish it in a day unless you want to banish it to your wips forever. ding dong bitch

[goldensunset]

the wrong people in this world are unlearning shame

[goldensunset]

psa: 'hey guys remember to be nice to people and try to be sensitive if you can :)'

gentle soul with debilitating anxiety: 'oh no do they mean me am i a jerk? is this me???? should i have apologized to that waiter for pouring soup in my lap? ahghghghghghhg i'm so bad at social cues'

the most obtuse and self-righteous person on the planet: 'you are intruding on my god-given right to harass strangers for no reason because you don't have trauma (broke a bone in third grade) like i do'

[goldensunset]

silently letting the barista give you the type of milk that makes your stomach hurt will not help them emotionally later in the day against the person that will verbally berate them for like breathing a little too weird

[novembudgie]

guess who got accidentally smushed flat onto my desk because she silently sat by my right hand and is the perfect shape of a computer mouse

[thatsbelievable]

[cock-holliday]

I really hate when there is a good post about positivity for trans men and trans women that address pressures each have to conform to a specific idea of things, appropriately reacting to struggles for gender roles and presentation and combatting internalized conflict…

And then the “nonbinary positivity” tacked on by a third poster is like “teehee we’re cryptids so we are immune to social pressures so we’re going to give you a sword, go forth and conquer the castle!” instead of recognizing a pressure to meet both or none of the expectations for trans men and trans women.

Posts like

Person 1: Trans men, it’s okay if your voices are high.

Person 2: Trans women, it’s okay if your voices are low!

Person 3: NB cuties it’s okay if you can’t cast 5th level spells on your first try :3

As if the presentation for nonbinary people is not both the pressure to conform to their agab from larger society AND within queer spaces a pressure to either conform to one binary gender OR be a thin waifish hairless elf who only uses they/them in a truly “”genderless”” fashion. Come on now

[sweetoothgirl]

Candy Cane Christmas Cake

[meriamwebsterdicktionary]

guy with a degradation kink x guy who just hates him

[brightlotusmoon]

[spell-of-the-rain]

This is from the book "What I Mean When I Say I’m Autistic" by Annie Kotowicz! (x)

[lingonberry24]

[ID: A paper book with section title: "Power Move". It wasn't until my thirties that I learned some people correct factual errors as a power move. That explains why teachers rarely appreciated it when I pointed out their mistakes - they saw it as an attempt to usurp their authority. I also got similar reactions from classmates, colleagues, and others whose authority was equal to mine, because they assumed I was flexing on them.

Nothing could be further than the truth. For me, showing someone where they're wrong feels like keeping them safe from the consequences of their mistake. It's a collaborative pursuit of truth, not a power move. End ID]

[chompercroncher-deactivated2024]

The thing is there is a real stigma around having higher support needs and I wish there wasn't!!!!! I wish I could talk freely about my experiences as someone who needs another person to bathe and dress me and brush my teeth and yada yada yada all that stuff but I always feel so nervous leaving those details in my posts ,especially if it's a blog I want to be taken seriously on. More open discussion about needing help with basic activities of daily living please !

[prokopetz]

You better watch out, buddy – I have extremely unusual life experiences which I mistakenly believe are universal, and I'm about to misinterpret your post in ways you can't even imagine.

[sivavakkiyar]

this is such a rude and obviously targeted thing to make me, a man with a problem, read

[sandersstudies]

People who act aggressive and negative as fuck and then when you’re like “hey can you stop” they’re like “I’m going through some stuff 🥺🥺🥺” like damn dude that’s crazy me too - for example right now I’m going through YOUR behavior.

[sandersstudies]

“I’m dealing with a lot 🥺🥺🥺” and I’m dealing with you so I guess we’re even

[sandersstudies]

If your reactions to your trauma or your problems are making other people around you feel unsafe you need new coping mechanisms.

[sweetoothgirl]

quadruple chocolate chip cookies

[tikkunolamorgtfo]

I stopped reading DNIs because 90% of the time they were just fucking inscrutable to me. I’d go to somebody’s page and it would be like “DNI if you’re a COSLA apologist,” so then I would Google COSLA and it was just like “Welp, either things are really heating up in the Convention of Scottish Local Authorities fandom or I still have no idea what the fuck this person is talking about.” Or “DNI if you identify as ANFO.” Okay, well, I definitely don’t identify as Ammonium Nitrate/Fuel Oil, but that’s probably not what you meant (although hey, maybe you did; I obviously don’t know enough about your views on chemical compounds to outright dispute that option).” Like, you have my blessing to hate whatever obscure fandom pairing or super niche kink group you want, but just know I am embracing ignorance on this one and will not be looking that shit up. Peace.

[chaumas-deactivated20240115]

reading DNIs is like reading conlang-heavy sci-fi

[broke-bruce-wayne]

[sarkos]

[tepperz]

#i dont even read bios#if you dont want me to interact#dont post publicly mwah