[mallloryrowinski]

A week ago I read an article that went from “depression and anxiety are over diagnosed, over medicated, and heavily influenced by outside factors that we don’t address in treatment” to “therefore no mental illness is real” and I just… fuck man. Fuck. I keep stumbling on this raising pressure to eliminate mental health from the list of what’s allowed to be a medical condition and it’s been driving me insane because those who will be thrown under the bus are people with critical illnesses like bipolar, schizophrenia, and so on and so forth.

[timteractions]

“her feminism focuses on women and not gender” oh well thank god

[eve-was-framed-pt2]

“hey so, i see your feminist content focuses mainly on the material reality for women and girls instead of something we made the fuck up. this is very offensive to me personally because it makes me feel bad for reasons that I cannot and will not explain. prepare to be annihilated.”

[sluttynurse]

if you're viewed as a conventionally attractive woman you're punished bc you need to be knocked down a peg for thinking you had any inherent value and if you're viewed as unattractive you're punished for daring to exist without permission but that's how it is innit there's no winning when the system was designed to make you lose in the first place! 🤣

[mallloryrowinski]

I stumbled upon a wild tiktok today made by a woman saying victims of domestic violence aren’t victims. That “these” women are putting themselves in sketchy situations “for the plot”.

All the comments were along the lines of “yes exactly like they ignore all the signs and choose to stay too”.

At this point we should start blaming people who get, idk, ran over by busses. They shouldn’t have been crossing the road!! Couldn’t be me!!

Good to know so many people never came close to experiencing that type of pain? But y’all are idiots still

[kiefbowl]

I think a lot of people don't realize how shameless and opportunistic a truly lazy, entitled man can be. like the amount of work that can be put into avoiding washing dishes might sound crazy so that you believe no one would do that, but they're banking on you being sane like that. you think "what's one dish to wash" and he thinks "I will kill myself before I wash a dish." I know. I know! he could just wash the dish and not kill himself, but he would rather kill himself than wash a dish so he can't be reasoned with. he'll fake an injury and do money laundering and pretend he's a puppy dog before he washes a dish. I know. surely not, you think. but yes. he will lie that he has bone cancer just so you wash dishes for him. he'll live in filth when you stop washing dishes just so you'll wash dishes for him. he will tell you his mom was an emotional abusive bitch and he has brain trauma because of it, and it's truly just because he'd rather kill himself than wash a dish. I know, I know...it's just one pot. It's just one pot! why kill yourself? I don't know!! but he'd rather kill himself than wash a dish, so he's gotta do all this work not to wash a dish. but kief, that can't be. it is. I'm sorry. He would rather kill himself than wash a dish. It's crazy, I know.

[girlnumbers]

love when someone is like in my culture we respect women. that has literally never been a thing in any culture ever lol

[magnetictapedatastorage]

15 years ago the people screaming slurs at feminists and saying they deserve to be raped to death were understood to be obvious anti-feminists, mens-rights-activists, conservatives, whatever you want to call them they were very obviously on the opposite side and made no attempt to hide it. now a not-insignificant fraction of the people screaming slurs and rape threats at feminists are... other people who claim to be feminists, but "good" ones, and they just really hate feminists that go "too far"... much more than they hate, you know, men who rape and kill women. are we on planet crazy right now. is this insanity island perhaps. did something happen in 2012

[mallloryrowinski]

Wizard liz this wizard liz that, “it’s her fault this happened to her”, “this is exactly what she deserves”. Have some compassion for your sister. Without compassion we are nothing and have nothing.

“She should this, she should that”. Shut your mouth. Drop the “psychoanalytic deep dives” of a woman none of you met. This is ridiculous

The internet loves hating on women in pain. Y’all are horrific.

[mallloryrowinski]

Ewwwww, a bigot. Why are you so gross?

God forbid someone says anything feminist in today’s day and age

[virtualcremefem]

" xyz men should just hire a sex worker "

maybe women in the sex trade are not a dumping ground for evil men to use them as punching bags. if the man sucks, why should ANY woman have to put up with him?

[fem-scum]

“Here’s the twist that emerged. Some young women wanted sexual equity with men: that’s a claim for equal power. They didn’t want to be mere sex objects, they wanted to be active sexual agents. But while true and total sexual equality between men and women is still too threatening, it has nonetheless proved lucrative to flatter women that they have it. So the media began to highlight this message: it’s through sex and sexual display that women really have the power to get what they want. And because the true path to power comes from being an object of desire, girls and women should now actively choose—even celebrate and embrace—being sex objects. That’s the mark of a truly confident, can-do girl: one whose objectification isn’t imposed from without, but comes from within. You have to admit, this is a very slick contortion. The best way to gain this kind of power is to cater to what men want. And you’re not acquiescing to men or to patriarchal sexual requirements: by submitting, you’re in the driver’s seat!”

Douglas, Susan J. The Rise of Enlightened Sexism: How Pop Culture Took Us from Girl Power to Girls Gone Wild. St. Martin's Press, 2010.

[kragehund-est]

i am NOT interested in the divine feminine. i will jerk off for 3 hours straight and eat 10% of my bodyweight in smoked meats and cheeses.

[kragehund-est]

not to be a killjoy but it's straight not helpful to say "this is what divine femininity REALLY is, op" because divine femininity is an irredeemably stupid and harmful concept

[aizenat]

If you remove the desire to have children from your “must do/life accomplishment” list, I’m realizing how much slower life can be as a result. Like you don’t have to rush to find someone to settle down with or have your life in order by 25 if having kids before x age isn’t a concern.

No wonder we’re all rushing when there’s this time limit.

If you stop planning for children, you have all the time in the world to get your degree, get your license, fall in love, make mistakes, etc. I’m just now realizing how this pressure to have kids is at the core of youth obsession, the aging out of women from certain spaces (especially beauty/aspirational type spaces), and just the overall timeline obsession we have.

If you take kids out of the equation, there are no timelines. Just lives to live. Childfree isn’t just a choice some women make; it’s true freedom from everything our society tells us to prioritize and how to live. Literally none of it matters when having children is never your goal.

[pure]

american “leftism” is principled communism for issues that affect men, and libertarianism for issues that primarily affect women and children. renting a peasant to deliver your cheap treats must be criticized, but renting a peasant for sex is just how the world works, bro. men can choose a job and still be recognized as exploited, but anything a woman chooses absolves her of exploitation. if men were somehow not victims of capitalism, if only women were victims of capitalism, no one would be a communist, because sympathy is reserved for human beings. women don’t fit that criteria. leftists only care about racism, homophobia, imperialism, etc, because men are victims of those things. present an issue to them that concerns the sexual subordination of women and children, and they turn into liberals. being a feminist forces you to confront the reality that every movement, right and left, is a men’s rights movement first.

[pissy-ramblings]

Men bring nothing to the table but more dishes.

[jihadibarbie]

getting on birth control for a man is something i can never wrap my head around. like no im not messing with my hormones unless something is wrong with ME. why would i start taking pills because a nigga likes creampies????? stand tf up

[kanelia]

People who think it is some type of new sexual orientation to not be interested in casual sex are special types of silly.