Seeing how you reframe "bitchy" or angry women as people with a backbone and principles has done wonders for contextualizing so many relationships in my life. I've gravitated towards "ice queens" my whole life without knowing why and you've given me so much vocabulary to properly appreciate them for everything they do; thank you 💕
see I love an upfront hardass for that reason because they’re such sweethearts when you’re not actively doing the thing that makes them turn into icy monoliths. they provide a grounded and connected way to interact with them: don’t fuck around with these highly identifiable behaviors and you get a sweetheart. what’s not to love.






















