[patronsaintofweepingmothers]

"back" (2010), sunshine's creations

[homunculus-argument]

I am no nutrition expert but I do have a pretty damn good track record of keeping myself alive, so I want to remind you all that "fed is best" also applies to adults. There's nothing you could eat (that has been deemed fit for human consumption, I don't mean asbestos you smartass) that would be worse for you than just straight-up not eating. No food is as bad as no food.

A protein bar isn't the best possible source of protein in your diet, but it's better than not getting that protein. Fresh fruits would be better than orange juice, but if your choices are between having the orange juice and not getting the vitamins at all, you drink the fucking orange juice.

If you were out at winter while barefoot, and your options were between wrapping random newspaper around your feet, or not having anything to protect your feet, you wouldn't think "newspapers are a worse option than proper shoes, therefore I shouldn't take this worse option" and go barefoot.

[liketolaugh-writes]

I didn't think of this the first time I ran across this post, but there's actually a fantastic book dedicated to this exact principle:

Cooking is Terrible: sadly, you still have to feed yourself

It's geared toward people who struggle a lot with preparing even simple meals, particularly neurodivergent or otherwise disabled people. To that end it includes a lot of suggestions along the lines of 'pick at least one food each from three of these five lists, put them on a plate, you have a meal.' (e.g. cheese slices, apple slices, lunch meat, crackers.)

(It is not geared toward people who need to follow a specific diet, to which they say, essentially, 'I assume you know what you need to replace.')

(Also the author is nonbinary, which is great, but still a side-note to how damn useful the book is)

And remember: adding ranch to vegetables does NOT remove the nutrients from those vegetables. It is not 'as bad as not eating vegetables at all.' YOU NEED THOSE NUTRIENTS.

[mealreminders]

Please remember to eat, my friends.

[chronicillnessresourcelibrary]

Book Recommendation: Cooking is Terrible: Sadly, You Still Have To Feed Yourself

A selection of recipes from the book can be viewed here.

Link to general info about the book which includes links to where you can buy the ebook or physical copies ⤵️

[wolfertinger666]

it's gonna be summer soon

(he/him) 🐇🌺🌊

[mostlyhereandthere]

angel who's wings are upside down

[akashicrecord]

[pheere]

Banquet of Mermaids - Ryoko Kimura

[livesuffer]

[cogcontrol]

it's crazy how by writing q and picard tng perfectly predicted the relationship between a tumblrina and a blorbo. like yeah here is this emotionally constipated middle aged man and the omnipotent homosexual who wants nothing but to put this guy in fucking Predicaments. also the omnipotent homosexual is considered a weirdo by his peers. he is also unemployed. that's a big plotpoint actually

[genderkoolaid]

if you ever catch yourself implying that the patriarchy encourages transmasculinity in any way, you not only fundamentally misunderstand transphobia but also apparently have selective memory when it comes to basic aspects of misogyny

[prettyboykatsuki-moved]

i love writing porn and i wont feel bad about it. understanding the eroticism of a character is character analysis if u are enlightened.

[prettyboykatsuki-moved]

i love you porn i love you smut i love you intricacies of human sexuality i love erotica i love you freak nasty walls of texts i love you analyzing the subconscious through the lens of sexuality i love you bdsm i love you weird fetishes . u move me

[daftpatience]

slow down for your disabled friends. thats like a bare minimum kindness that we shouldnt have to ask for. i love that youre so quirky and walking fast is a cool personality trait to you and all that but i bet you can count your physically disabled friends on less than one hand

[emeldiir]

I'm curious if you have any femme [bi] mlm OCs ?? or any butch4femme [bi] mlm OCs .... :3c

I do!!

^^ These two are in a butch4femme bisexual mlm relationship! both are trans men!

^^ And these two are butch4femme bisexuals in both a wlw and a mlm relationship. They both identify as nonbinary and genderfluid. The femme has top surgery and self identifies as a femme fag

I would love to make more femme art too, so if you have any ideas or want to see anything specific let me know!

[butchfemme-experience]

Hey! Just a reminder that bisexuals and queer men/achilleans are absolutely allowed to identify as butch or femme, and I encourage you to loudly identify as butch or femme if you feel like it. This is not a discourse topic, you have always been part of, and included in, the butch & femme labels and I would love to see more bisexuals and achilleans identify as butch or femme!!! YOU ARE ALLOWED!!! And you absolutely SHOULD if you desire to!

[emeldiir]

Bear Butch 4 Wolf Butch anyone?

[treecitysessions]

[moonlightsapphic]

I learned a lot today from Obviously Queer’s video essay “FEMME: Lesbian History, Identity, Politics and Invisibility” and femmebis’ “The “Lesbian-Only Term” Myth: A Comprehensive Historical Essay on ‘Butch’ and ‘Femme’ ”.

[everyoneisgayandtrans]