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It/it's I'm just a 17 year-old, Black, Aro/aceflux. I made this account to express my thoughts and feelings. Kind of a place to sort my thoughts. I also may say some stupid stuff so please let me know if I do.

[mylittlecornerontheweb]

If your new to aro/ace culture or you simply don't know much terminology here's a lot of terminology I may use.

Unspecified : Blush

I might use qpp in reference to a quasi-platonic partner (I'm using this version instead of the more mainstream one to avoid harassment, unwanted arguments, etc ). I'll be using zucchini and peach fuzz to refer to a qpp.

[theuncrackableegg]

[mylittlecornerontheweb]

Me, but not all of them are unsupportive, it’s just I know that someone’s going to let it slip, and then I’m not getting shit from anyone anymore 💀

[mylittlecornerontheweb]

Packing 😈

*Attempts to make DIY packer out of socks* -Flat- 😪 *Puts panty liners in it to bulk it up* 🎊DICK🎊 😍 BULGE!!! BULGE!!! BULGE!!! I’m being deadass when I say this I stood there for a few minutes stroking it pretending I had a real dick 💀 Then I almost started crying because I don’t have a dick 😭 (When I come out I’m going to buy a 10′ packer cock keep playing with me dysphoria. I give myself big dick energy and I’m going to have an even bigger budge 😌💅🏿)

[mylittlecornerontheweb]

Just got finished watching Brace, the short film for the second time. It’s literally so good 😩

[aro-culture-is]

Trans aro culture is having all your "crushes" actually just be people you had gender envy for.

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[mylittlecornerontheweb]

So I’ve been considering coming out and I was like “Why come out in the "traditional” way? 🤔" So I devised a plan 😈 I’m going to come out to everyone privately and see how long they can keep their mouths shut 💀 At the moment I identify an Agender Aroace / Agender-trans man bi-aroace (Still figuring things out) so that’s how I plan on coming out. I know some of them think I’m lesbian or bi so I’m curious about their reaction. I look forward to entertaining myself. Let me know if you want updates 😊

[mylittlecornerontheweb]

Considering backing out half-way through! 😰

[mylittlecornerontheweb]

So I've been considering coming out and I was like "Why come out in the "traditional" way? 🤔" So I devised a plan 😈 I'm going to come out to everyone privately and see how long they can keep their mouths shut 💀 At the moment I identify an Agender Aroace / Agender-trans man bi-aroace (Still figuring things out) so that's how I plan on coming out. I know some of them think I'm lesbian or bi so I'm curious about their reaction. I look forward to entertaining myself. Let me know if you want updates 😊

[mylittlecornerontheweb]

First time/attempt at binding?

Last night I was scrolling through Instagram and I occasionally go on the transmasc side of Instagram. I always envy the ones who can/want to bind or get top surgery. Then I got a bright yet not so bright idea to make a DIY binder out of scarfs 💀 I went to my moms bathroom and took two of her longest scarfs and went back to my room. I tied the scarfs around me rotated them so the knot was in the back and spread them over my "tumors". I had to do this a couple of times to get it half flat (Ended out putting on a bra with no pads to kind of keep them secure and in the right position.) When they felt flat enough I snuck to the restroom with a shirt on and it looked like I had a B/C cup (mind you I'm a DD 😫) so I went back and put on a baggy jacket and... I looked so flat! Oh my god! For once in my life I was able to look in the mirror and be happy despite me having trouble breathing and backpain! 😃 I looked so handsome 😩😍

[mylittlecornerontheweb]

Ended out doing it again. This time for about 6 hours. Ugh! I know I'm not supposed to, but I really enjoy being flat chested.

[mylittlecornerontheweb]

First time/attempt at binding?

Last night I was scrolling through Instagram and I occasionally go on the transmasc side of Instagram. I always envy the ones who can/want to bind or get top surgery. Then I got a bright yet not so bright idea to make a DIY binder out of scarfs 💀 I went to my moms bathroom and took two of her longest scarfs and went back to my room. I tied the scarfs around me rotated them so the knot was in the back and spread them over my "tumors". I had to do this a couple of times to get it half flat (Ended out putting on a bra with no pads to kind of keep them secure and in the right position.) When they felt flat enough I snuck to the restroom with a shirt on and it looked like I had a B/C cup (mind you I'm a DD 😫) so I went back and put on a baggy jacket and... I looked so flat! Oh my god! For once in my life I was able to look in the mirror and be happy despite me having trouble breathing and backpain! 😃 I looked so handsome 😩😍

[tontonguetonks]

Ace Academic Resource List

💜🤍🖤 Asexual Scholarship: A Running Reference List 🖤🤍💜 NOTE: APA 7th ed. citations to the best of my ability, but I’m certain they’re not a

For anyone interested, I’ve put up a running list of articles/books on asexuality on a google doc. It’s open to the public to edit, so if you’re itching to share your findings, please do!

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[mylittlecornerontheweb]

Interesting...

[mylittlecornerontheweb]

I'm like 50% sure I have OCD and I'm literally so exhausted. It nitpicks at everything I do and I'm tired of redoing things. I can't play games with my friends anymore, because of it and I just want it to stop 😫 And I'm absolutely terrified of doctors and psychiatrists for no reason so it just makes it harder for me to get help. I don't even know if what I have is even OCD, I don't have any intrusive thoughts it's just all "Gotta redo it it didn't feel right" type of thing and it drives me mad.

[mylittlecornerontheweb]

this is zee, i dont know anything about it yet but it seems to be pretty cool! it asked me to send an ask or 2 with it/its pronoun usage for it. i hope this helps it ^_^

Thank you! I think I like it ☺️

[mylittlecornerontheweb]

hey, u left a reply on the it/its post of mine and ! if u want me to, i can send a few asks using it/its pronouns for u so u can check if youre ok with them :} i just need 2 know with what name u wanna b referred to with first

Really?!? Thank you!!! My name is Zee ^.^

[773637748382829172888-deactivat]

[ID: Bugs Bunny in a suit, with his hands folded on a black background. Next to him it reads “I wish all it/its pronoun users a very pleasant evening” in white text]

[mylittlecornerontheweb]

I've been contemplating whether or not I should use these pronouns. It's not because it has a "bad" connotation or anything like that it's just I don't know how I feel about different pronouns, and since I'm not out I can't really ask people to use a certain set to test them out.

[thetroublesofbeingtrans]

I saw a tiktok the other day that was showing the "nonbinary aesthetic" and included binders... idk how to tell u guys that constantly excluding amab nonbinary people is bad...

[mylittlecornerontheweb]

People need to stop categorizing Nbs as skinny white afabs that want to bind. Nbs come in all different colors, sizes, and shapes and express their gender differently. They don't have to be androgynous they can be feminine, masculine, or neutral presenting. Some are completely ok with their boobs, some want boobs, others want no boobs, and some people want bigger or smaller ones.

[raavenb2619]

[ID: The Scooby Doo ghost meme. In the first panel, Fred looks at a ghost, labelled “Aces can love too”, and says “Okay gang, let’s see who the ghost really is.“ In the second panel, Fred pulls off the mask and looks at a man labelled “arophobia”. End ID]

[mylittlecornerontheweb]

In case anyone’s confused I’m pretty sure this is referring to arophobic aces. (Sometimes, they don’t realize they’re doing it, but it still needs to be addressed.) When they say “Aces can love too,” they usually use it to “rehumanize” themselves. This essentially throws aro-spec under the bus. It makes aro’s seem less human and therefore less important, more hated, and just adds to the misconceptions that already surround us. We are then forced to defend ourselves. And of course, aro’s can feel different forms of love including romantic, and some are loveless. All of these are completely valid. I wouldn’t necessarily blame them for this so I try not to get upset. We are taught how to recognize homophobia, biphobia, transphobia/enbyphobia, but never arophobia. So it’s no surprise that we let arophobia/amatonormativity pass over our heads.

[geraltcirilla]

it’s so wild to me when ppl say aroaces are “basically straight” or “straight by default”. i’ve NEVER been romantically and sexually attracted to a man in my whole life. that’s not straight. HOW is that straight? just because i’m also not romantically or sexually attracted to women either? being straight doesn’t mean you AREN’T attracted to ppl of the same sex, it means you ARE attracted to ppl of the opposite sex. i literally don’t know how else to explain it. i have as much in common with straight ppl that lesbians do, which is nothing.

i’m not out here asking for shit except to not be referred to as straight. that’s all i want.