Straight male doms always make me feel so giving hesitant. Like so many of them exhibit the same red flags just within the first few minutes of conversation.

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Straight male doms always make me feel so giving hesitant. Like so many of them exhibit the same red flags just within the first few minutes of conversation.
Current deductions: cis men cannot write good fucking porn that has anything to do whatsoever with the pleasure of an afab body because they are too god damn inept at it unless that porn is also directed at pleasuring their dicks, not actual women or anyone else w/ a female body.
My accusatory evidence: The now 4 different erotic stories men have sent me thinking they were really good and, quote, “you might even just cum from it”, that were in reality just another story geared towards the pleasure of the person with a dick. I swear to god like y’all have no idea what this kind of body does do you...do you just throw darts at a board and decide that’s what you’ll do?? Huh?? Is that how this works? Is that h
Exactly! Give the child a voice!
Lmao pregnancy would literally kill me and damn near killed my mom because nobody would remove the third fetus in her womb next to my twin and I. They refused to remove a fetus that was already dead, and killing a woman who was on track to have two premature twin babies, on the grounds of religious freedom.
They couldn’t have cared less that forcing her to carry an already dead fetus to term, and then deliver it even though it had a 9:1 ration of her dying, because “Abortion is murder”.
Our own personal beliefs on abortion don’t mean we can just change the laws from what is safest for a pregnant person to what we’re comfortable with. ...Also the life liberty and pursuit of happiness clauses only refer to living humans, and whether you like it or agree with it or not, fetuses are not classed as humans until they are viable outside the womb.
Abortion allows men to evade responsibility
Abortion helps predators cover up crimes
Abortion aids trafficking and exploitation
Abortion forces women to kill their child for a career or education
Abortion doesn’t bring women out of poverty
So tell me again; how does abortion empower women?
The ability to decide who uses your body and for what purpose is extremely empowering.
Bodily autonomy doesn’t apply to pregnancy.
Next.
Bodily autonomy *does* apply to pregnancy.
Pressuring, manipulating, coercing, or otherwise forcing pregnant people to continue or to terminate their pregnancy would violate their bodily autonomy and reproductive rights.
Having the right to make your own reproductive decisions is empowering.
Having your body and rights violated is not.
Try again.
Let me make this real clear, real fast for you, bub. I’m sorry to break it to you, but bodily autonomy is not a fundamental human right when it comes to abortion. The bodily autonomy argument takes a few different forms. None, however, are successful. The unborn — though physically dependent on and inside of the mother — is a distinct, self-developing individual with his or their own DNA, brain, arms and legs, etc-. Abortion attacks and kills the body of someone else; violating the unborn’s bodily autonomy.
Consider an analogy: May we do whatever we want with anything that is on our private property? May we attack or kill innocent people who are passing through or seeking refuge? No, we must respect the rights of other people. Mere ownership does not give me the right to kill innocent people whom I find on my property.
May a pregnant woman ingest drugs that she knows will cause her child to be deformed or disabled? Clearly not. And if knowingly harming the child is wrong, killing one (through abortion) is even worse. Bodily autonomy is important, but there are obvious limits to that autonomy when someone else’s body is also involved.
The right to control one’s body does not justify the intentional killing of others. Nor does it nullify our obligations to the youngest and most vulnerable members of the human family.
Indeed, the autonomy argument turns common sense and justice upside down. The unique nature of pregnancy — the bodily dynamic between an unborn child and her mother — is not, as the argument supposes, a reason to think that killing or neglect is permissible. It is, instead, a reminder that human beings are connected to and dependent on each other.
An unborn child is not an intruder. They are precisely where they naturally belong at that point in their development. If the child doesn’t belong in the mother’s womb, where do they belong?
No one, pregnant or otherwise, is legally allowed to kill an innocent person, and by granting a woman the right to abort her child, we are giving her more rights than other humans. An abortion is causing harm through action — actively doing something to prevent someone else from having a life. Someone who was created, most likely, by the pregnant woman’s choice and action.
Wait. If “bodily autonomy doesn’t apply to pregnancy,” how is it that abortion violates the “unborn’s bodily autonomy”? Not that a zygote/embryo/fetus even has bodily autonomy, considering it is “physically dependent and inside” another human.
A person’s body is not comparable to property. But, if you really want to go THAT route, I’d suggest you research castle laws/doctrines. Next.
Yes, pregnant people may injest drugs that they know could harm the embryo/zygote/fetus. Next.
That’s it? Cool.
People, including those who are pregnant, have the right to decide if they want kids, how many kids they want, when they want to have kids, etc. A person may even decide to use contraception, even though this would be “actively doing something to prevent someone else from having a life.”
People also have the right to decide who uses their body and for what purpose. Even if someone needed to use your body for survival, you could decide not to allow this. For example, organ donations are voluntary. Even though one donor could potentially save 8 lives, they could decide not to donate. It doesn’t matter if the person needs the donation because of their actions (i.e. they caused a car accident), or if it was their child or other family member. They could still decide not to donate.
All together, this means a person, while pregnant, has the right to decide if their pregnancy is continued or terminated. And if you were to pressure, manipulate, coerce, or otherwise force a person to continue or to terminate their pregnancy, this would violate their bodily autonomy and reproductive rights.
And that just shouldn’t be considered permissible, bub.
It’s kind of hilarious that amount of excuses and idiotic arguments people will make up to “justify” and continue to the senseless slaughter of unborn children. Like how amoral and depraved do you have to be to think that tearing a pain-capable human being limb from torso is perfectly okay for any reason? You treat “bodily autonomy” like a God damn religion, tbh.
Yeah, I appealed to the unborn baby’s bodily autonomy in hopes that you’d understand a bit more since you’re so hung up on bodily autonomy anyway. So, are you saying that people who are physically dependent don’t have a right to bodily autonomy? Welp, say goodbye to the bodily autonomy of all those people on life-support or anyone who is literal dependent on anything or any person.
Ah yes, the utterly stupid “right to refuse argument” which contends that a woman has a right to refuse to let the unborn child use her body to survive just as a person is not obligated to donate an organ to save the life of someone else.
This argument has enormous problems. Abortion, in the vast majority of cases, is not merely the withholding or withdrawing of “life support” from the unborn child — it is the intentional and active killing of that child, often by dismemberment. This killing violates the child’s right to life (the right not to be intentionally killed) and the right to bodily integrity. Indeed, if people have a right to bodily integrity and so do not have a duty to donate a kidney, then people in utero have a right not to have their bodily integrity fatally violated through abortion.
Moreover, even if abortion were not intentional killing (i.e if it were simply a refusal to aid the child by removing her from the womb), abortion would still be wrong because a pregnant woman does have an obligation to allow her baby to live and grow in the womb. Here’s why.
First, the father and mother, except in cases of rape, willingly engaged in an activity that caused (and is biologically ordered to) the creation of a new, dependent human being. So they bear responsibility for the resulting child. Second, parents have special obligations to their dependent offspring that they do not have to others. Fathers, for example, must pay child support even if they did not intend or desire to become fathers. Parents may not abandon their children or refuse to provide for their needs (though they may relinquish those obligations through adoption).
The parental obligation may not require extraordinary acts (like donating a kidney), but it does require basic, ordinary care, such as the nourishment and shelter provided during pregnancy. If unborn children are valuable members of the human family, like born children, then the same parental duties that apply after birth are present beforehand as well.
Finally, the purpose of the uterus is to gestate the unborn child — it is where that child belongs. All human beings, during their prenatal stages of development, rely on it for care and protection. The uterus exists for the unborn child rather than for the mother. It is reasonable to think that a child has a right to live in her natural environment.
I’d like to break it down a little bit, beginning with the comparison of a mother’s providing for a fetus to someone being “forced to donate blood, tissue, or organs.” There is a huge discrepancy here that isn’t being noted: when you fail to donate blood, tissue, or organs, you are not directly killing a human being. Yes, your lack of donation could lead to the death or ailment of someone. However, with an abortion, a child is being killed, by your own hand, by your own choice. Not simply getting its resources removed. A fetus clearly doesn’t have the ability to speak or to persuade the mother to keep it, either. The parallel cannot be clearly drawn here for that reason.
The difference here is that by a person choosing to not donate organs or blood, they are causing harm through inaction, after death. An abortion is causing harm through action. Someone who was created, most likely, by the pregnant woman’s choice and action. Comparing abortion to a person who has decided not to donate his or her organs is criminalizing to that person and decriminalizing what would be an actual crime if it were done by or to any born being.
Are people on life-support *inside* another human? Did you not remember you said that part?
So far, you’ve compared a pregnant person’s body to property and a machine. Not a great route to take.
Wait, so even if abortion is comparable to organ donations, then pregnant people still wouldn’t have the same rights as a potential donor? Unbelievable.
1. It doesn’t matter if the pregnancy is a result of sex or rape. And if it does matter to you (i.e. if you support a rape exception), then your issue is with people having sex. Not abortion.
2. A person may actually abandon their child. Add “safe haven laws” to your list of things to research. Oh, and it might be a good idea to add “bodily autonomy,” while you’re at it.
2a. If donating a kidney is an “extraordinary act”, so is pregnancy and childbirth.
3. The uterus is part of the pregnant person’s body. To say it exists for anyone else is unreasonable.
It actually doesn’t matter if you think it’s right or wrong for another person to make their own reproductive decisions. It’s not your pregnancy, it’s not your body, it’s not your decision. If someone else wants or needs to abort their pregnancy, you thinking it’s wrong should not stop them from aborting. They should not have their rights and body violated because you think abortion is wrong.
I’d assume you also think it’s wrong for a person to decide not to donate organs, as they would not be fulfilling their obligation to the other humans who are connected and dependent on them. Either way, that also doesn’t matter.
A person has the right to make decisions regarding their own body. And if they don’t want to allow another human to use it for survival, then they have the right to refuse. Whether they’re pregnant or not.
It does not matter what I need to “research”. I’m Canadian; there’s a good chance that some of those laws don’t even apply to me. However, I know that killing an innocent person — unborn or not — is wrong and I will always do everything in my power to prevent abortion.
You’re right: It doesn’t matter if the pregnancy is a result of sex or rape. A human being is always a human being, no matter how they were created. Pregnancy and childbirth are natural parts of life and is something a woman’s body is literally designed to do.
Abortion isn’t equality; it’s hypocrisy. You’re literally saying that one human being has less value than another solely based on their size, location, and level of dependency. The only “freedom” of abortion, is freedom from your own responsibilities.
Carrying a pregnancy to term isn’t giving up the right to control their own body. You can still do whatever you want while you’re pregnant, you’re simply advised against doing certain things like drinking or smoking. But is alcohol really worth killing your own child?
If you think that killing a pain-capable unborn child by ripping it limb from limb for any reason is perfectly okay, then you’re a bad person. I’m sorry.
I find it rather pointless to continue this argument. I will never change my mind. I will never think I am wrong. I will always be against abortion, and nothing you say will change that. I doubt that you want your mind changed since you seemed so hooked on your perverted baby-murdering ways. So, this whole thing is basically a pointless waste of energy.
If it doesn’t matter, then why did you bring it up? Repeatedly, I might add.
Sex is a natural part of life and something a person’s body is designed to do. Yet, nonconseusal sex is wrong.
No, but feel free to point out where I literally said that.
If a person *has no choice* but to carry the pregnancy to term, than they do not have control over their body. If you can do whatever you want while you’re pregnant, then you can get an abortion if you want.
“Perverted baby-murdering ways”? Someone has been sipping a little too much of that pro-life kool-aid.
But, you’re right about one thing. It’s pointless to continue. Have a day.
P.S. https://laws-lois.justice.gc.ca/eng/acts/C-46/page-6.html#h-9
P.P.S. https://canadiancrc.com/Child_abandonment.aspx
I just love when pro-lifers use intentionally severely emotionally manipulative and non-factual language to try and prove that they are correct...I also love that every single time you’ve made sure to say “pregnant person” they always circle back to “women”, most likely so they can play the abortion is sexist and misogyny card. Like... it takes minimal effort to not exclude trans men.
Either they usually admit they think pregnant people should be forced to carry a baby to term (that’s considered torture, folks!) that’s a result of assault, or that there’s a difference in their mind between a fetus made consensually and non consensually.
Abortion does not help predators cover up crimes, it is not a way for men to avoid responsibility, it doesn’t uwu force uwu a pregnant person to murder their child or have a career. Many many MANY peoplee with infants still work. It doesn’t aid in tradfixking or exploitation. Actually, human trafficking victims are encouraged to have a child, so they won’t be able to leave. Abortion actually CAN help women get out of poverty.
Oh, and also? At least here in the US a rapist can request joint custody of the child created by raping someone else.
I guess he...wanted me to degrade him? Anyways, straight men are just so fucking stupid sometimes and this is the kind of straight man that puts “sex positive” in his bio. Like...shut up, of course you’re sex positive, you’re a straight man. But in reality, we both know that means, “I am going to force my kinks or fetishes on you and insist you see my genitals without your consent even after you’ve said no, under the guise of using words that were not meant for me to use”.
...I swear to god I’ll kill you
Dear women who have abortions
Dont act like you are having an abortion because you “care about the baby.” You don’t care about her at all. All you care about is yourself. You don’t want to get fat, you don’t want to get stretch marks, you don’t want to have to give up alcohol.
If you actually cared about the baby, you would give her up for adoption. But nope. You just don’t want to be pregnant. Be an adult and take responsibility for your actions.
Nah. If I have to have an abortion it will be because I don’t want more damage done to my body. And because I cannot afford another pregnancy or another child.
Why? Because I am a responsible adult.
Not wanting to be pregnant might be a reason some people abort, but that does not make the decision any less responsible.
It’s an incredibly selfish thing to do
You can think that, but it doesn’t really matter. Pregnant people have the right to decide if their pregnancy is continued or terminated, whether you think their reason is selfish or their decision is irresponsible.
Actually I care about the fact that it would’ve killed me because intersex bodies aren’t very good at being pregnant sometimes and I don’t drink alcohol and am severely underweight but, sure, the reason was because I don’t want to get the fat I need on my body to be there or have the stretch marks I already have or give up the alcohol I don’t drink.
And wow, nice attempt at a guilt trip by automatically referring to a fetus as “her” as if you actually care about women in the same post as you quite literally shaming women!
Attention ladies
If you have a son be sure to abuse it until he kills himself we don’t want any disgusting men to grow up, the same goes for if you were forced into having a hetero relationship because no one is hetero it’s all a lie. Report any other males in your family for rape and just get rid of them.
OP smells like fish and cats
@demencia-hates-maps Please don’t insult the smell of inocent cats and fish like that.
What the fuck is this? Who the fuck encourages abuse?
Anyways if you’re a man, you deserve the same love and respect as a woman. If you’ve been abused or raped, you matter. If you want to kill yourself, please don’t, there are people who care about you, there are people who love you. Also heterosexual people exist. And if you’re a man in a hetero relationship, theres nothing wrong with you no matter what this disgusting excuse for a human thinks. Men are just as important as women.
The smell I’m getting from OP is sewage.
OP stinks of cat vomit
All of you are bullies
Stop bullying her because she’s right!
Nobody’s bullying her 🙄 we’re just saying she could ACTUALLY effect someone worse than just minorly irritating them with her trolling and that goes for you, too. Do you, too, enjoy having blood on your hands?
Attention ladies
If you have a son be sure to abuse it until he kills himself we don’t want any disgusting men to grow up, the same goes for if you were forced into having a hetero relationship because no one is hetero it’s all a lie. Report any other males in your family for rape and just get rid of them.
OP smells like fish and cats
@demencia-hates-maps Please don’t insult the smell of inocent cats and fish like that.
What the fuck is this? Who the fuck encourages abuse?
Anyways if you’re a man, you deserve the same love and respect as a woman. If you’ve been abused or raped, you matter. If you want to kill yourself, please don’t, there are people who care about you, there are people who love you. Also heterosexual people exist. And if you’re a man in a hetero relationship, theres nothing wrong with you no matter what this disgusting excuse for a human thinks. Men are just as important as women.
The smell I’m getting from OP is sewage.
OP plausibly has blood on her shitty little troll hands right now because someone came across her blog when they were in a bad enough headspace that they’d taken it seriously so the only smell I get from them and all their other “ #lulz it’s fun to troll as a radfem pretending to be a trans person or a hardcore radfem “ is absolutely, 1000% trash compactor.
If you call pedophilia a kink please unfollow me and never talk to me again
Isn’t it disgusting that 23 people just unfollowed me
Unfollow me too
this goes double if you call paedophilia a disability. unfollow me twice
and if you call pedophilia an “orientation” or in any way compare it to being LGBP+ you can unfollow, delete your blog, and set yourself on fire.
I just lost 50 followers.. bye
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GO ON AND S M A S H THAT UNFOLLOW BUTTON
BUHBYE U McNASTIES
I’ve seen this circulating forever and genuinely thought “no way do I have any of them following me” until this week when it turned out I had all these fuckin “MAP” (pedophile) followers sad to find out I’m an “anti” (normal person) Please leave and also please get guinea worm.
That’s the biggest load of shit on the planet. (I’m aware a lot of sugar babies don’t do sex work exactly, but that wasn’t the point). I DO do sex work and that is absolute shit. That’s...one of the biggest red flags of a scammer there is. If you want any kind of service in return for money, you provide that money in the way the person “”selling”” that service accepts. 🙄🙄🙄
Meet Ted.
This dude has been harassing someone else I follow through meetme. Has made like 20 profiles, maybe more to harass her. Can’t remember who though.
It’s hilarious when they think they’re offering me something that’s actually in any even remote way appealing. ...I’m probably going to get blocked for this.
What even ARE men sometimes...his profile picture is a googled picture of a black and white photo of a cat, by the way.
I don’t think this could’ve been any more stereotypical, frankly.