'Wherever you are is the place I belong'

M. 32. Brasil.

[kissed1996]

If you had to sing a child to sleep RIGHT NOW what would you sing and it CANT BE a lullaby it has to be a regular song

[rivetgoth]

Perhaps my genuine biggest piece of socializing advice as someone who spent years of my life feeling wholly incapable of positively interacting with other people is to just ask the other person questions about themselves. Like that’s it. People love answering questions. They really love thoughtful follow-up questions. They love feeling like someone else is interested in them, their interests, their lives, their opinions. At some point in your questioning they will say something that reminds you of a funny / interesting story. Tell it. You will be remembered as the person who asks a lot of questions, makes people feel like they matter, and tells good stories. boom. done.

[uhoh-but-yeah-alright]

Yeah ok I mean I obviously can never know whether Harry wrote The Waiting Game about being closeted, but if someone were to sit down to write a song about being closeted, it sure could sound like that.

[raylangivins]

[dailykafka]

— Franz Kafka, Letter to his father

[ashstfu]

i don’t think people understand how much of life is grief. not just people dying, but losing the version of yourself you thought you’d become. grieving the city you had to leave. the friends you lost not in argument, but in silence. the summer that will never come back. the feeling that maybe you peaked at 12 when you were reading books under the covers and believing in forever

[greenishness]

As part of her social media detox this girl on YouTube made herself do one hour of understimulating tasks every day and she just counted rice for 60 minutes straight because its no different from doomscrolling in terms of wasted time

[greenishness]

When I say this changed my life. Every time I'm on my phone I ask myself Is this different from counting rice for one hour ? and if the answer is no I go find something else to do. It works well because it's not about conforming to productivity standards or about moralizing digital hobbies it's just an honest reflection on whether tomorrow I will be glad I spent my time this way and then acting accordingly. The rice paradigm

[furryprovocateur]

i think ultimately you do really have to kill that part of your brain that vividly imagines how you would redo parts of your life.

[keepingupwithzaynmalik]

"I'm not a dude of many words if you gathered, I like to say fuck and yeah. FUCK YEAH! I'm joking, honestly, I feel like I'm getting better at this. I used to hate this, I used to hate talking. I'm sure you guys know if you ever came to see us in the band. I never used to do it so I'm learning. I hope I'm a decent speaker now. You guys what to hear another song? Let's make these last couple of songs real special for Louis, yeah?"

— Zayn at last night's show in Los Angeles (credit)

[jalboyhenthusiast]

being 31 is like being 21 but with the added Horrors

[palacesofmymind]

zayn giving louis a big shout out during his stairway to the sky show in la (night 2) 29.01.25 🥹❤️

louis in the crowd: 

[dailytomlinson]

"Let's make these last couple songs real special for Louis, yeah?" - 29.01

[dailytomlinson]

"I know a friend of mine who's here [...] I don't wanna give his location away but Louis is here tonight" - 29.01

[theambitiouswoman]

Everyone loves you while they are benefitting from you. It’s easy to confuse transactional relationships for actual care, especially when people shower you with attention while gaining something from you. The real test of love & loyalty comes when you have nothing to give. Those who stay, who value you for who you are rather than what you provide, are the ones worth holding onto. It’s important to recognize your worth and set boundaries, so that you surround yourself with people who appreciate you beyond your utility.

[tordenvejr]

not knowing the path doesn't mean the path doesn't exist

[statementlou]

screen directly after Zayn left the stage

[srldesigns6277]

His smile is everything 😍