* ‧̍̊˙· 𓆝.° ｡˚𓆛˚｡ °.𓆞 ·˙‧̍̊ @nb-fish - Tumblr Blog

Hello I am Fish and this pinned post serves as both an introduction and a general information post. For my pronouns, check the text under the heading

This should really go without saying but if I see a TERF, ace exclusionist, or any type of bullshit in my general area, I will block you. Fuck off

General info:

what do you mean when you say you are a puppeteer?

- I hope to be a puppeteer someday and am currently working to get a broader education in the field

What’s with the 𓆟 tag?

- this is the tag for my original posts. Peruse it if you wish. I try to be funny with varying degrees of success

What’s the ‘fav’ tag?

- this is for my favorite posts. The posts that slap my nuts off, if you will

What’s the ‘a friend’ tag?

- my animal tag. Prime comfort material if you’re having a bad day

Any side blogs?

- my ffxiv side blog for mine and a couple of friends WOLs. URL is hydaelyns-silliest-jester. FFXIV tag on this blog is for miscellaneous content

Why do I get random floods of specific content at times?

- it is usually due to my special interests being activated and I enter a category 5 autism moment. I apologize for the confusion/inconvenience if your dash gets flooded.You can block these tags, I will not be offended

Can I find you on any other social media sites?

- you can but I don’t really use them. If you want to see more things from me, this is the best place to do it. I’m not gonna link my other accounts here. The only other one you can really find me on is ao3, which is EnbyFish, and that only really updates when I get ideas for a certain fic, but I am happy if you enjoy my writing

What’s your favorite muppet?

- Dr. Teeth

What’s your favorite fish?

- Blacktip reef sharks

I am very bad at answering posts from my inbox but I welcome queries

With that being said, enjoy the clownery

#𓆟

vampyr-ism

highwind

#art #ffvii

twig-the-escaped-cephalopod

i am Thinkimg . about the Character. and listening to a Song. i a m sure this will not have repercussions

lifeinasmalltowninjapan

BBC2 Masters Of Terror (1976)

The Phantom Of The Opera (1925)

#horror

otterjpg

[insert destiel breaking news meme here]

#a friend

silavut

Not sure if this one's been done yet, but after doing a bit of digging, I found an original, full-size version of Angus Mcbride's art of Saruman and his orb, aka "Pondering My Orb" meme. (Yes, this is actually Saruman.) Unfortunately, I could not find the original title, if there ever was one.

After comparing a couple others, this was the best version I could find in high quality.

Now you, too, can ponder Saruman's orb in full, high-quality wizardry.

Enjoy!

#wizards

mossquitoman

came to me in a dream

orpheusilver

HOW TO HUG LONG DISTANCE

orpheusilver

HOW TO EMAIL HUGS

orpheusilver

10000 KILOMETER HUG TECHNIQUES

arowitharrows

I feel like people struggle to understand that my life as an aorace person is not centered around an absence of relationships. There is no romance shaped void that I am trying to live with, or live around, or which my life's purpose is to fill somehow.

I go to university and I go to work and I volunteer in my community and in the in-between moments I drink tea with my friends and I plant tomatoes on my balcony and there is no need for anything else. There is no room for anything else anyway.

When I am asked how I deal with 'the hole in my life' or what I do with 'all my free time', I know these questions are not about me at all. They are a reflection of the person asking.

thatsthebirds

Its kind of asking how you cope with the lack of parking spaces when someone doesnt own a car

ace-of-bass

Ooh I love this analogy because not owning a car does come with problems (at least in the US typically), namely that US infrastructure is so reliant on cars that not owning one means that you deal with other problems, like lack of bike lanes, infrequent public transit, people always assuming you can drive places, etc. Aro/ace people do face problems due to amatonormativity in society, such as inaffordability of places to live alone (because it's assumed you'll live with a roommate until you're a "real adult" and live with a partner and also because of capitalism), lack of ways to meet new people that aren't specifically focused on dating, and people always asking when you'll settle down, aren't you lonely, don't you miss having a partner? as OP talked about.

Like, there are problems that one encounters as a carless person, and there are problems I've encountered as an aroace person. But the problem as a carless person isn't lack of parking spaces and the problem as an aroace person isn't lack of a relationship.