a face to die for; the heart of a murder.

tiny femme queer dyke (she/her) harm reductionist, sex work/er. body neutral. jewish, polyamorous, kinky. burnt out grad student. in love with sass, overpriced shoes, misandry, body modifications, drug user liberation, front line activism work and radical social change. anti-assimilation, anti-capitalism. if you go far enough left you get your 🔫 back. curses like a sailor, fights like a lady. former party girl turned sober babe [04.08.2017] I'm all about that back alley riot grrrl feminist killjoy shot. no apologies, no regrets. toxic and proud. short skirt playing the long game.

[corpus--incorporated]

you don’t have to match my freak you just have to think whatever’s wrong with me is fascinating and perhaps even sexual

[skippyisntfunny]

[salmonella-destroyer-of-worlds]

[genderqueerdykes]

i saw this helpful print out at my local library earlier, i thought this could be of help to someone. even if you personally don't inject, this advice could save a life. I'm here for all addicts and users, we care about you and love you. everyone deserves to be informed about their health regardless of what substances they use

[ugly-anarchist]

Just a reminder that this blog has always and will always support sex workers. Yes this includes full service sex workers. Yes this includes cam girls. Yes this includes porn stars. I do not care what form of sex work it is, I am pro sex worker and believe that they deserve respect, sexual autonomy, and control over their own lives.

If your feminism does not include sex workers then it's bad feminism

[bee-unknown]

Sex work is like abortion, you make it illegal you don't make it disappear you just make it unsafer

[samwisethewitch]

Hey. If you are legally married to an abusive partner. If you believe your legal spouse will become abusive in the future. If you feel at all unsafe with your spouse. Or even if you are thinking of ending the marriage for a totally mundane reason:

Start taking steps to divorce them NOW.

I'm not saying you should leave now without a plan. Having a safety plan is still important. Having support people who can help you leave safely is still important. Keeping yourself safe is still important. But if you've been thinking about leaving or have been making plans, you may want to move up your timeline.

No-fault divorce may be one of the things on the chopping block under Tr*mp's new regime. For those who don't know, these are the laws that allow couples to divorce even if no one is "at fault" for the failure of the marriage. This made it much easier to get a divorce in the USA, and made it easier and safer for victims of domestic violence to leave their abusers. Conservatives want to return to a fault divorce system, which would require the person filing for divorce to prove their spouse wronged them in some way, such as by having an affair.

TLDR: M*GA wants to make it harder to get a divorce, which is going to trap people in unsafe marriages.

If you are married to an abusive partner, or even to partner you just don't want to be with, I encourage you to file for divorce as soon as possible. ESPECIALLY if you are a woman or femme. Get out now, while it's relatively easy and simple to do so.

If you're scared of how your spouse will react to being left, contact your local domestic violence org and ask for someone to help you make a safety plan. These are trained professionals who can help you get out safely.

And not to put too fine a point on it, but what little government aid does exist for American DV survivors right now is probably going to lose funding or be shut down entirely in conservative areas. Just another reason it's a good idea to leave now if at all possible.

(Disclaimer: I am not an expert on politics, but I AM someone who has worked in domestic violence and sexual assault response and who has read what actual expert political analysts have written about Tr*mp and Pr*ject 2025.)

[weltenwellen]

Resmaa Menakem, In an Interview by Krista Tippett

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:D

[cryptile]

Something my dear friend said to me that i think fits

[pyrrhiccomedy]

i think it's cute when americans talk about being from the 'great state of connecticut' or like 'the great state of wisconsin.' not when it's texas or new york or california obviously because then there's the fear that they're being serious. but when americans adopt that really earnest tone and are like 'god bless the great state of delaware' in response to a picture of a seagull swallowing an entire ziplock bag full of cheese-its. I think that's very endearing

[pyrrhiccomedy]

you are all adorable

[semanti]

[ineedleinhey]

Men: the reason we’re violent with women is because we need sex and are denied it

Also men: women are sleeping around too much, why is it so hard to find a virgin, this is why we’re violent with women

The only way to escape this parade is to just uninvolve yourself with men.

[radicalli57]

“Not all men”

Yes all men.

The widespread oppression of women would never have happened in the first place without every male’s contribution.

In the west women have fought incredibly hard for what rights we have now, however just a few short decades ago we had none of that, because males enforced it that way. You cannot have such a widespread oppression without each and every oppressor pushing it. This isn’t mere “social upbringing”, it’s an innate drive to hurt and control. Males are evil on a biological level, they are not capable of real change, they’ve well proven that. Every male you know is just a bad dog on a leash.

The male has not changed from 100 or so years ago, if these laws keeping us “safe” didn’t exist, all males would treat us the very same as they did in the 1940s.

In eastern countries women are still fighting for even the basic rights we now have, the males in those countries are no different from the males in western countries, the only difference is the existence of laws and punishments. Have a look at our sisters in eastern countries, how many males amongst them fall into the “not all men” “category”?

[geissorhiza-deactivated20250305]

"Not all men" protects the passive onlooker types of men. In most situations people understand that being an onlooker is just as bad as being a perpetrator, but when it comes to men's actions against women, that idea is tossed out the window. Men are actively defended for being passive onlookers and for enabling other men rather than doing anything to act against them. Any attempts to push men to do just one thing better for women is met with tremendous backlash. Men feel satisfied knowing they're part of the "Not bad ones". They see passivity and quiet tolerance of other men as the positive. If a kid is being bullied by their classmates do you end the conflict by stating "Not all kids in this school"? Men don't feel any incentive to actually be good, they just want to avoid being publicly branded as one of the "bad ones".

[siryouarebeingmocked]

In most situations people understand that being an onlooker is just as bad as being a perpetrator,

No, no they don't.

Watching someone rob a liquor store or assault someone else without helping is generally not considered as bad as doing it yourself.

You're not going to get charged with "guilt by witnessing", unless your country has some sort of Byzantine, draconic legal code.

In fact, there are Good Samaritan laws which legally protect people who intervene.

Men are actively defended for being passive onlookers and for enabling other men rather than doing anything to act against them.

I love how you keep moving the goalposts. First it's being a "passive onlooker", and now it's "enabling".

Neither of which you've actually defined.

Last time I checked, the vast majority of men and women were opposed to male on female rape and sexual assault.

Or abuse.

Or even men defending themselves against violent women.

Even in prison, rapists have a high chance of being assaulted, raped, and/or murdered.

Speaking of enabling, what do you call it when feminists help perpetuate the idea that domestic abuse and sexual assault are inherently M on F?

Especially when that idea benefits feminism?

[ultramaga]

"Males are evil on a biological level"? Imagine if a human found there were demons, and told other humans about it. Would they just sit there moaning about it for sixty years, or would they take up arms - or flee? Feminists lie constantly. They lie that men are evil, and we know it's a lie because they neither fight nor flee. Instead, they bitch at men that they should feel bad.

If we were genuinely as they say, we would just kill feminists. Especially if, as they claim, we run the world. So the terrible evil overlords just let them squat about all day doing nothing except bitching?

Feminists are awful, and radfems are just the worst. This is what happens when people have nothing in their lives, no responsibilities, just sitting at home all day every day... And I have to wonder if it's because these people have never been useful. In the past, kids and teens had to do some work. But this is a generation raised without anything past maybe a little homework.

Growing up, I saw kids that were useful, that learned skills and self reliance, and they became strong and independent. I can't think of any radfems that resulted from these successful people.

So here's a proposition. We take the radfems, put them on a survival island, maybe leave them with tins of food and can openers until they can grow crops etc. I think they will starve to death screaming at men to open the tins for them. These are totally dependent useless people - but the prison is in their minds.

If you have never struggled, you will never know your own strength.

[beepbeepmfkr]

Your issues with masculinity and malehood are not the curse that trans men must bear in order to earn your respect or protection ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

[pansnovidinniaabandoned]

trauma never justifies harming innocent people. no matter how much you hate men, your hatred is harmful and you being misandristic and sexist makes everything worse.

[sukme]

[wally-jo]

my favorite wholesome porn moment

[afro-elf]

y’know…. conversations about world war ii would be a lot more bearable and constructive if white men found that period rightly horrific rather than pornographic 

[werewolfofsector2814]

We glorify war because it’s the only time we’re allowed to release the beast and not go to jail for it.

You want to see who a man truly is, put him in a battle.

Man is never more himself, than when he has nothing to lose.

[afro-elf]

you’re not fucking odysseus, go to therapy

[limoncellolacroix]

“MAYBE IT’S NOT MY WEEKEND, BUT IT’S GONNA BE MY YEAR” I scream at 12 am with tears streaming down my face and a bottle of champagne in my hand. it has not been my year yet. it’s not even a weekend today is Thursday