Pirate Xilby

[piratexirlby]

Gender Typical

For some cis always, solely and completely, a binary gender always solely,and completely and perisex. Coining this because you can be cis and non-binary/genderqueer or cis and use another gender modality. People often say cis or cisgender when they mean gender typical. Flag design by @big-transfem-sister . Tysm!

[multigenderswag]

If someone says "this rigid definition of a label doesn't account for the complexity of gender" and your reaction is to say "well the label is perfect and your gender is wrong" I think you have failed to understand queerness.

[grison-in-space]

also, you may have some difficulties with your understanding of the concept of labels. they are intended to be descriptive, not prescriptive.

[multigenderswag]

Shoutout to multigender people who exclusively present as one binary gender. That doesn't make you not multigender.

[piratexirlby]

Integra Woxen

When one is integragender, a woman/girl/female and xenine/xenic/XIN/xenogender.

Flag is a combination of the cis female and trans xenine flags.

More in this series coming soon.

[the-delta-quadrant-deactivated2]

apparently this is a hot take, but the way gender and sex are constructed, the only way to have cis privilege is to be binary, cisgender and perisex..

no nonbinary trans person has cis privilege.

no neither-cis-nor-trans nonbinary person has cis privilege.

no cis nonbinary person has cis privilege.

no nonbinary person has access to any kind of cis privilege. even nonbinary people who do consider themselves cis aren't afforded the same privilege as binary cis perisex people at all.

[the-delta-quadrant-deactivated2]

"aces and aros are technically queer/LGBTQ+, but not all of them identify that way. they are welcome if they feel a connection to the queer community."

while this might be true, it bothers me that aces, aros and some other identities after the T get that caveat but the others don't. there are many lesbians, gay men, bi and trans people who don't identify as queer/LGBTQ+, but no one ever says "lesbians are technically queer but some don't identify as queer". it seems to only be us weirdos after the T who get the caveat.

also, have you considered why aces and aros aren't identifying as queer? maybe more of us would identify as queer if unconditional inclusion was actually modelled for us. "if they feel a connection to the queer community" - how was i supposed to feel connected to this community when ace inclusion was never modelled for me? when i was a baby ace 9 years ago, i thought i was cis and straight, and the only queerness that was portrayed to me was LGBT, nothing else, not even nonbinary people. where exactly was that connection meant to come from? how was i meant to feel a connection to a community that was constantly discoursing over my existence?

i only felt a connection to the community when i realised i was enby. only after that i learned that my asexuality was queerness all along. my queer gender was literally the stepping stone for a connection to the queer community based on my asexuality.

ace and aro exclusion needs to be unconditional. it doesn't feel like inclusion of aces and aros get this weird caveat but most other identities don't. it feels like aces and aros are still held to higher standards and that LGBT(no +) people are more inherently and unconditionally queer than aces and aros.

either everyone should get that caveat or no one.

[polyphonetic]

If you liked:

"women are my favorite guy"

Consider:

Supporting and accommodating multi-gendered people :)

[xx-k4nd1-1n-cyb3rsp4c3-xx]

Knowing tumblr this is gonna get death threats in my inbox, but here are some ways I'd like you to consider supporting multigender people!

No more "DNI cis people" or "DNI straight people." Personally this makes me feel very unwelcome as a person who still partially identifies with their AGAB. I'm technically somewhat cis by definition, but I'm nonbinary and trans. Stuff like this makes me feel like there's some sort of threshold of "queer enough" for people to be worthy of interacting with you. you're making a lot of multigender people feel unsafe by doing this. if you accept that bigender people are valid, you must also accept that people are gay and straight simultaneously, and cis and trans simultaneously. that's just kinda how being multigender works. a lot of multigender people will be alienated by this.

No more TME/TMA. Or any gender binaries at all. the world is not that simple, you can't just sort people's experiences into neat little categories. this one not only impacts multigender people, but GNC people, trans people who don't pass, and intersex people.

When people say "I use all pronouns" please take it to mean just that. I get this problem a lot. People hear that and think it's safe to just treat me like I'm cis or they/them me in fear of getting it wrong. Don't be shy to switch it up please! Especially with the pronouns that don't "match" our presentation, we probably barely hear those.

[queercripintersex]

Sexual orientation in intersex people (Carpenter, 2016)

Noticed this in revisiting this summary of a survey of intersex people from Australia in 2016. We are way more likely to be non-heterosexual than the general population. They didn't take data on people's genders, just their official sex, but in their survey population they did have 8% trans people - again higher than general population.

I know in "Sex and Gender 101" we tend to make a big deal that intersex people can have any sexual orientation and can have any gender.

But I think it's also worth highlighting that being intersex, on a population level, does have effects on gender and sexual orientation. We're way less likely to be hetero. We're way more likely to be genderqueer. You really can't neatly detach intersex from other aspects of queerness - it affects so much of our lives.

[sawbrain]

☆ ) GENDERTROPE — gender - trope

gender system where one's gender is connected to a specific type of trope in fictional media (examples would be knight in shining armor, surprise villain, etc.)

[adrestianflames]

I'm just gonna come out and say the controversial thing that's been weighing on me for months now.

I am visibly Trans and I experience transphobia on a regular basis. I have never once been misgendered or made to feel uncomfortable by a member of my Jewish community.

I am visibly Jewish and I experience anti-Judaism on a regular basis. I am consistently devalued, shunned, and othered by Queer people in Queer spaces and Queer communities because of my Jewish identity.

LGBTQIA+ people need to do better to accommodate religious minorities. Anti-Jewish sentiment due to Queer-based religious trauma isn't any better, kinder, or more moral than anti-Jewish sentiment due to white supremacy.

[adrestianflames]

@unbidden-yidden There it is! Couldn’t have said it better myself

[lanphet]

[ID: tumblr tags that read "some of y'all really need to get it through your heads that while atheism is 100% fine - antitheism is actually a hate group that helps further the goals of white supremacy and xtian colonialism - it's continued tolerance in queer spaces makes them unsafe for queer religious minorities including queer Xtians of color" /END ID]

[another-vampire-boyfriend]

FRIENDLY REMINDER:

transfem ≠ a trans amab person

transmasc ≠ a trans afab person

an afab person can be transfem

an amab person can be transmasc

an intersex person can be transfem/transmasc

someone can be transfem and transmasc

these labels aren’t talking about genitals, they’re talking about the intersection of being trans and identifying/presenting in a masc/fem way

I get that we normally use these terms in this way, but it just presents another form of binary thinking if there is no flexibility to these labels, which is pretty ironic considering these labels were made to be inclusive of nonbinary people.

By limiting the meaning of these labels, we only hurt Trans people. We exclude nonbinary people, multigender people, trans intersex people, trans systems, and so many more.

[piratexirlby]

This times a million

[queer-coining]

CONTRAPUNK → a "-punk" term for people who challenge the idea of ​​"contradictory"/reject the idea of ​​labeling themselves "befitting". This can include:

- multi lesbian / multi turian / multi straight ;

- gaybian / straight lesbian / straight gay ;

- agender pangender ;

- Multi-AGAB ;

- Cistrans ;

- non-AFAB Transmasc / non-AMAB Transfem ;

- Others .

[queer-coining]

INTERMODAL → Gender modality for intersex! "intersex as one's gender modality. Like intergender".

Request by anonymous

[ozvezdja]

padme's handmaidens are such an underrated concept. i mean, yeah you can call it women supporting women and leave it at that but like. its so much more intense than that. they basically created the persona of queen amidala together. they assigned her specific mannerisms and tone of voice and breathing patterns and all of them studied that well enough to play the role perfectly. they put all of the derangedness teenage girls put into discovering their own identity into perfecting mimicry instead & they did all that knowing that their role will always be to die in padme's place if it comes to that. idk what insane levels of devotion does it take to be like 14 and you've become so intimately familiar with your friend that you can quite literally become her. there's friendship & traumabonding and then theres "my entire life is dedicated to dying for this woman" and then there's that but with added identity fuckery and thats what the handmaidens have going on with the bonus point of being 14

[piratexirlby]

Occupigender

A subset of xenogender. An umbrella term for xenogenders related to hobbies, occupations and jobs.

Flag design by LBo (Twitter @Crusty_LBo). The red in the middle represents joy (like doing/being the hobby, job or occupation) The off white is creation and activity The dark blue represents night and day (like night/day shifts or hobbies done at night time specifically) The dark purple is achievement(edited)

[genderkoolaid]

I don't think androgyny in general is genuinely valued but can we talk about how "desirable" androgyny is always about neutrality and removing as much as possible (white, super thin, no boobs no bulge no body hair) whereas "ugly" androgyny tends to be fat, hairy, full of gender (visible breasts/bulge), often involves people of color. like whenever we see sci fi Futuristic Androgyny it's always "we've removed all possible characteristics" never "we combined all these characteristics" & me myself? as someone who's androgyny is hair and genderful and "ugly"? i notice

[ryanyflags]

autigender enby/enban/nonbinary autigender androgyne autigender agender autigender neutrois autigender maverique

[other post] (autigender man/woman flags)

(can also be called autienby/autimav/etc.) I don't know any specific androgyne/agender/neutrois equivalents to boy/girl/man/woman, so I just listed them as this. If anyone knows those words, these flags can be used for those too. (I tried looking it up, but wasn't able to find anything besides the general nonbinary/enby/enban and maverique specific words unfortunately.)

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Here's the second set of autigender alt flags :D

There's two flags for each term, one with a white symbol, and another with a dark color symbol. They both mean the same thing, feel free to use whichever one looks prettier / easier on the eyes to you.

The symbol used is the autigender symbol by @themogaidragon. The colors for each are just what's typically associated with them/their flags, with extra adjacent colors based on the main colors.

I really like how these flags came out. Autinonbinary and autiandrogyne are my favorite, the colors are really nice :)

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Extra rainbow versions,

[themogaidragon]

Woah they look so cool! :D /genuine