It's a small sin on the scale of the problems of clothing designed for women, but why are women's summer tops, even if not on thin straps, cut in rather than straight down, so that the strap of the bra, which women are commonly expected to wear, shows, which in turn is commonly considered undesirable?
This is a photo of my very elegant grandmother, Sushila Rao, posing with her new camera in India, where she was born and raised. It was probably taken sometime in the 1940s. Sheâs wearing a tailored, white linen suit and flat, brown leather sandals, which make her look so strong despite the fact that sheâs very petite. It was very daring of her to be out and about in menswear back then, rather than a traditional sari!
-Tejal
on the topic of shaneandilya vs. the centaurs media machine. i would be very very interested in like. actual professional conflict between harris + the centaurs new reputation as a gay athlete utopia and shane specifically. shane went to the sidcros school of saying a lot of words but also nothing of substance at all. nothing political. nothing personal. fun anecdotes that just reword the question he was asked. given how shane in particular is treated after being outed, that he is the one person completely ostracised by his team, there is not a universe where i feel he would tolerate his relationship or personal life being used as fluffy content for the centaurs tiktok page. harris wants to show the world shaneandilyaâs loving, respectful relationship and how they support each other in the room. he wants them to reveal how they met, their favourite memories, what it was like playing against each other. maybe one of those couple guessing games. shane refuses outright and will not budge. harris asks on behalf of the queer fans, the kids in ottawa who might grow up to be drafted as centaurs in the future. shane declines again. harris, gently, tells shane that thereâs nothing to be ashamed of, and the centaurs support him and ilya completely. shane asks if the centaurs will continue to support them if he refuses to be milked for viral bits. harris is perhaps thinking â unkindly â that shane is still repressing his sexuality, and denying his and ilyaâs right to publicly love each other the way everyone deserves. he asks why shane is so reluctant to even consider it when the centaurs have been so welcoming to him and troy. shane replies well maybe thatâs because when you came out as gay it wasnât a top story on cnn, harris.
haha so cute the centaurs have a video of ilya and shane â let me stop you there. shane would never. he would never! he has an airtight agreement with the marketing and comms team that anything posted of him is strictly professional. he knows every comment on social media will be about him and ilya already, and he will NOT be encouraging it. he is a hockey player. my shane would rather die than discuss his married life on instagram on the official centaurs account. or any platform. are the other centaurs doing this?? the other hockey teams??? no. he is an athlete not a reality star.
The way that it often comes up in fic is in this humiliating way towards Shane specifically. Not only by randoms online, but by his teammates and by his husband. Not only because/when it comes in a framework where Ilya is oversharing and Shane is trying (in vain, to little effect, and yet not in a way that causes an actual problem for their relationship) to stop him (often like 'Shane: take this down'), but because the oversharing of what they do in bed is about what Shane does for Ilya and Shane, as the receiving partner and as the less penetrative one, is cast in the role of the woman in heterosexual sex and so objectified sexually, in an environment that's misogynistic and treats women as sex objects. It's 'what Ilya does to Shane' becoming public consumption. Which, again, is something Shane doesn't want, and notionally tries to stop, but so ineffectively that it has to keep going on - because Ilya's desire to expose their sex life to the public is more important than Shane's privacy or dignity and his actions, even if with requisite minor pushback from Shane, are fundamentally framed as acceptable.
That's slightly different than the PR exploitation by Harris in fics, or having their teammates share 'cute' anecdotes about them (including of public-adjacent sex acts and PDA), but it's the same narrative of the Ilya/Shane's relationship becoming public consumption, even in quite intimate ways. I'm so fed up of running into this that I want reactive fic narratives now that's about the struggles of this post-canon ficverse exploitation of their relationship.
That's even before we get to those others (randoms online being inappropriate, but also said teammates) saying things that are apparently meant to be okay in-narrative, but are homophobic/inappropriate (going "shut up, fruit" to Shane) and are not there as an indication that even the progressive Centaurs are playing in the same apparently analogously-to-RL (not that Reid really develops this) hockey league and so have been shaped by it. It's a certain kind of homophobic-rhetoric-but-played-as-fine online talk that's clearly written by people who think this is an acceptable way to talk themselves, but again it's a kind I've seen more towards Shane than Ilya - just like the homophobia in the league we do get bits of in canon are towards Shane, not Ilya.
Replacing physical buttons and controls with touchscreens also means removing accessibility features. Physical buttons can be textured or have Braille and can be located by touch and don't need to be pressed with a bare finger. Touchscreens usually require precise taps and hand-eye coordination for the same task.
Many point-of-sale machines now are essentially just a smartphone with a card reader attached and the interface. The control layout can change at a moment's notice and there are no physical boundaries between buttons. With a keypad-style machine, the buttons are always in the same place and can be located by touch, especially since the middle button has a raised ridge on it.
Buttons can also be located by touch without activating them, which enables a "locate then press" style of interaction which is not possible on touchscreens, where even light touches will register as presses and the buttons must be located visually rather than by touch.
When elevator or door controls are replaced by touch screens, will existing accessibility features be preserved, or will some people no longer be able to use those controls?
Who is allowed to control the physical world, and who is making that decision?
it's completely crazy that women are still taking their new husband's surname in 2026. how does this not register as horrific to literally everyone. under what paradigm could that possibly be anything but pure male supremacy
i mean, in the west its kind of a choice between would you prefer your husbands surname vs your fathers or grandfathers surname. i get the sentiment but its not a battle worth picking imo.
Why is the surname your husband/fiance has "his" surname, but the one you've (presumably) had all your life is "your father's" or "your grandfather's"? Why say "your husband's surname" and not "your father-in-law's" or "your grandfather-in-law's"? Why do only men have surnames but not you, who only has a man's surname? If it's a choice between your own ancestor and your spouse's ancestor, even in that poor choice the answer should be clear: the name you've had your whole life. Why would you accept the civil death of the erasure of something so basic to your identity as your name for a man and a man's lineage instead of your own?
Alternate suggestion: if it's "your father's" surname only, why not change it to your mother's? She grew you and gave birth to you. The man you're marrying (or his father) is not a more important link to you.
"Not a battle worth picking" but who are you fighting? Keeping the surname you've had all your life is a non-action. It requires no change. OP's opponent is a patriarchal practice erasing women's identities, but instead of opposing it as a societal practice, you want to take its hand.
I still see a lot of people saying that Ilya could have gone to any other other team in the league if it wasnât for Shane. I donât blame you because Ilya thinks that way too.
Well, where would he go? Would he be better off in the end? Letâs keep his goal of obtaining Canadian citizenship in mind.
Montreal? They canât afford Ilya and Shane, and Ilya didnât want to take a pay cut.
Toronto? Thereâs Dallas Kent.
Letâs say in this universe, there are tons of Canadian teams, theyâre all better than Ottawa. Do they not have a Dallas Kent? Do they have cap space? Do they have a star center already and thatâs why theyâre good? Ilya canât just knock anyone out of their team he wants just because heâs âthe great Ilya Rozanovâ. For example, is he going to waltz into New York anytime he wants, take up a huge chunk of their cap space, take the captaincy and kick Scott Hunter out of the team?
Letâs say Ilya is Roger Crowellâs favorite son, he also doesnât give a fuck about any other players, and he goes to a great team. Once he gets there, does he gel immediately with the new team? Because a great team would also expect better results pretty quickly. How would he deal with that pressure? Does he also not get so depressed he can barely get out of bed or give speeches before games?
purely from a practical perspective i canât believe that tripgate was resolved so quickly off page because it like. not only actively discredits both shane and ilyaâs professional accomplishments, questions their integrity, and alienates them from other hockey players. it also technically canât be disproven by the fact that theyâre on the same team? like say the season starts and the centaurs break every record and sweep their way to a cup win. if people discuss tripgate itâs not gonna be a âwell we were wrong and these guys clearly gave a fuck about winning the entire timeâ it would probably be âthese guys threw games for each other until they were on the same team and got to win togetherâ
on that note â wouldnât shaneâs injury from marleau also be called into question? how does ilyaâs trade to boston not permanently affect his reputation in a new negative way? like every other league would come out of the woodwork to try and discredit their efforts if it means they might benefit. the public response would frame shane and ilya as dishonest because they actively hid their personal relationship, even though they had no obligation to come out, because now the focus is how they might have been rigging games for each other. why the fuck is tripgate a plot point introduced 85% of the way through the book
this show is about men this movie is about men this game is meant to be played as a man these characters are men so they're intrinsically more likeable than their bitchy women counterparts this show is about women but they're all for men to look at this movie is about a woman but there's a guy there as well to make it more palatable for General Audience (men) this fandom is all about this one man what do you mean you don't like men. what about this man you must like him!!! he's like a woman to me! and by that i mean i headcanon him as a trans man because im #queeringit and him being a trans man basically means Woman Lite right? so i basically do care about women! and going on e makes you like men and going on t makes you like men and being a lesbian means you still have to have a himbo man friend and you HAVE to read this book! it's about a man
Iâve explained to a lot of people why I wonât play video games where I have to play as man. That was the ONLY option I had growing up, and I learned to enjoy myself anyways. And then I grew up, and there were other options, and I heard men complain that they couldnât related to woman main character. Or didnât want to play a âgirl gameâ. Or a thousand other reasons why they hated her. And I was like HUH??? So now when I see a game where I can only play a guy, I ask myself questions. Was this made for me to enjoy? If not, I donât play it! Same with movies, same with books. Media starring men is no longer the default for me. I have to be convinced in other ways. Otherwise itâs a âdude movieâ, a âdude bookâ etc. (much like how I had to hear guys dismiss movies and women centered media as âchick flicksâ âfor girlsâ)
The article also details that men aren't abusive because they were abused as kids the driving force for abuse towards women is the behaviour is beneficial to them and they don't respect that woman or women in general
In a broader context, structural relationships of inequalities in politics, religion, media and discriminatory cultural norms perpetuate vio
but, why are we making males the standard for whatever we wear? We can just wear whatever is comfortable and not made with the motive to sexualize us. I think making males the standard again puts women on a manmade pedestal, where women have to "prove" to be worthy of being equal to males by acting like them or doing things equivalent to them.
Although i can see op might have meant that men have made clothing for themselves such that it keeps them comfortable and is not made with the intention of them trying to appeal anyone in the world. But, i can also see a lot of counter arguments on this particular statement.
do add your thoughts if someone wants to say more on this....
there is nothing we are missing out on by avoiding clothes men don't wear. there is a reason men don't go around prancing in skirts and dresses and it has to do with dignity. male clothing will always be more comfortable than whatever the tighter, shorter female alternative is.
i look around any room and see that men and women are so distinctly categorized in what they wear, how hairless they are, their mannerisms and how do women not feel humiliated seeing this, how do they walk into the same room and not see how every other women takes part in her own degradation, like how is nobody bothered by this. the way it's so binary, how you literally will not find outliers, and the thing is i don't think women who refuse to perform femininity are treated as harshly as they would be a decade ago, it literally doesn't have to be this way anymore but it still is and it's somehow gotten worse.
This is a compilation over all judgements pronounced by the Revolutionary Tribunal in Cambrai, an âannexâ of a bigger one in Arras. This tribunal, which held its sessions in a college classroom of the city, was in function between May 10 to June 28 1794, and during that period 212 people from all parts of the department of Pas-de-Calais were brought before it. Of these, 150 were sentenced to death, the youngest of them 17, the oldest 88.
Since the question of what exactly someone could get put to death for during the âterrorâ has gotten rather mythologized throughout the years (looking at you Oversimplified đ), I thought it could be interesting to put together this compilation to see what actual court documents say. The data presented here comes from volume 2 of the 1864 work La terreur dans le Pas-de-Calais et dans le Nord by Auguste Joseph Paris, who in his turn cites exactly that form of document.
14 May â two people are sentenced to death: the priest François-Dominique Tranchant, 78, for âpossessing more than sixty pamphlets, each more counter-revolutionary than the other [and] having carefully preserved a multitude of fanatical and royalist writings and sought to dissolve the national representation,â and his niece Euphrosine Tranchant, 45, for being her uncleâs âaccomplice.â (Paris, page 105-107)
28 May â the tribunal sentences two men to death â Pierre Devaux, 68, for âfederalism,â something which denied he was guilty of, and chevalier Pierre-Jacques-Joseph Verdelin, 52, who is already outlawed for, as an ex-noble "not having withdrawn from Cambrai, a stronghold, within the prescribed period." It acquits two others â Henri Lebrun and Boniface Doremus, mayor and national agent of EscaudĆuvres respectively (Paris, page 170-171)
3 June â the tribunal sentences one man to death â François Podevin, 28, for being a âdeserter and spy,â and acquits four people suspected for âacts of war.â (Paris, page 171)
Intrigued by how one might have "unintentionally made royalist and counter-revolutionary remarks".
"storekeeper Mathurin Delorme, 53, for having âdeclared that he was not crazy enough to get his head smashed in by going to repel the enemy" ha!
What strikes me is the number of those for having kept pamphlets or else mementos of the previous regime (here and in Arras). Such things have political and propaganda value, so it's not shocking, but from the modern view, we want such things to have been preserved. These people were doing valuable work. Gets executed for being a hoarder. Then, sadly for them, they made their own way into history. Thanks for these write-ups, must have taken ages!