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22 trans man he/him, not gay as in happy but trans as fuck, queer as fuck, and fuck you; i have a bat and you have fragile teeth

[ahmnorhein-zkn]

Repost, now do your honors.

[jkl-fff]

Trans people just existing is no more sexual than when cis people just exist.

[cosmonautroger]

Wendy Carlos

[positivelyhere]

Coffee tastes square and I will NOT be elaborating

[leaky-heart]

I LOVE YURI AND YAOI !!!!!!!!

[positivelyhere]

When I was growing up, being Queer was an insult. I learned words were synonyms with insults before I knew what they meant. I felt utterly alone in myself. I couldn't imagine myself growing up, what life I could live. All Queer media I found was tragedy, they never got happy endings, most likley one being killed and the other living in shame. Brokeback Mountain was my TV glow, I watched it hiding behind the kitchen wall because I was drawn to it but not allowed to see it. It was my lighthouse in the stormy sea. But it doesn't have a happy ending, and neither did any other movie or short film I could find. Everything was underground, european short films, nothing readily avaliable and never having a happy ending.

But they it finally happened, we got Queer stories with happy endings. No longer tragedy. I wish I could show my young self these new movies. New stories where Queer people get to be proud and have happy endings.

I just saw the kissing scene from Heated Rivalry and cried tears of joy. No longer do young Queer kids have to see themselves die on screen, no longer do Queer kids have nothing but pain associated with who they are. We finally get triumph, we finally get goofy teen love, we finally get to see ourselves grow older.

I felt so alone as a kid and teen. I felt like an alien. I only saw people like me die, I didn't have anyone to look up to besides corpses. But the more I found other Queer people and Queer culture I stopped feeling alone, I knew I wasn't alone anymore. I could see other Queer people, talk to them, experience Queer media, and I had older Queer people to look up to. Alive people.

Representation matters. Because every Queer person deserves to know they aren't alone, they aren't destined to die. They have a community, they can make a life for themselves. Knowing there were other people like me has only improved my life, I used to feel like an outsider. Now I know I have something to cling on to. I'm just so damn happy. I need to say how important it is, how much moments like this matter. How the public narrative shifting from ignoring us, depicting us as tragedies, to portraying our honest to god stories has been so monumental. We have finally brokenthe barrier and can speak our voices, no longer ignorable, no longer victims, we are proud. It means so much to me. To the little boy who never thought he'd live this long. Never thought he'd find love, friends, a community to be apart of. :")

[positivelyhere]

I love swingers, they're wonderful people. I remember learning about non-monogamy at a young age and always thought, "thats nice, so many people getting along like this, I bet they are happy to find other people like them"

I didn't make any connections to the Queer community as it seems like a cishet married couple sorta vibe. But like these people have always existed, and I feel cishet society freaks the hell out Way too much. They make a big screaming fit like swingers are the antichrist eating babies. I've always understood that it's not my business, it's like knowing about a party you don't attend, I hope everyones having a good time. But everytime it feels the larger cishet community makes such a big fuss over swingers, like omg theres bears in the woods! Yeah? They've always been here.

Cishet society is so concerned with reinforcing the cishet monogamous relationship, even more liberal cishets will still react like swingers are the most bizzare people and swingers are a new phenomena. It really shows how cishet society is so hostile to anything outside the status quo, even members of their community are still used as examples of deviance to obsess and make a loud fuss over.

No one that I've seen talk or reference swingers has done it in any way normal, usually they react like paul revere and scream through town about the swingers. Always making a bis fuss to get attention to shame swingers. It's so obnoxious, and getting old, the same panic over and over again. Using swingers as shock value reinforces the norm and makes swingers an example of deviance to be publicly shamed.

I can now assume more swingers are possible Queer, but weather cishet or Queer non-monogomous relationships should be respected and treated more normal bc they are, always have been. The internet makes you believe everything is new and weird when it just suddenly realizes something exists and everyone screams about it for the sake of the joke, and the joke is reinforcing monogamy by public shame. Anyone else getting frustrated with the constant panic surrounding swingers? Like children are being killed in [take your pick] but yeah lets panic about Mr. And Mrs. Smith's sex life.

[positivelyhere]

Cats aren't domesticated, they domesticated us. Cats have only evolved to further manipulate us. I don't train my cat, she trains me what to do.

Everything is a negotiation, and even when she knows she is doing something naughty she takes deliberate actions to be sneaky and try. When caught she screams at me and runs off. When she's angry she knows excatly what I have stopped her from doing and does that. Once I took longer than usual to return from class and she opened my sock drawer and threw out all my delicately organized socks. And then sat on the throne of her own making and waited for me to return, and then she yells at me, I love her so much.

She's the most toxic asshole and I wouldn't have her any other way. She yells in my face constantly, and I just have to do what she wants.

[positivelyhere]

Everyday I'm a man is a day I like living

[positivelyhere]

I want a bikini top for the boys, with my stupid tacky swim shorts, backwards baseball cap, mid beer in hand. But the world ain't ready for that smh 😔

[positivelyhere]

My gender expression is frat bro with sick tits. I'm a simple man. Pushup bra for the boys.

[yournonbinarypal]

[nyastranauttheastronaut]

Something came over me and suddenly I'd made this :3

[bluemoonsamurai]

I finally know what to name my Sylveon: Testosterone. :)

[bluemoonsamurai]

Okay, this was supposed to be a joke, but I couldn't think of a name for him.

[randomly-generated-posts-machine]

the testosterone that kills you instantly

[positivelyhere]

I cant think of anything funny to add i just choked reading this its so fcking funny

[pup-purgatory]

[positivelyhere]

How I look with my he/him pronouns

[kaenith]

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 Happy Pride 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

Available as prints, stickers, and more on Redbubble and TeePublic!

[vinny-vox]

Why are you lgbtq+? wrong answers only GO

[positivelyhere]

I wanted to play the game of life on hard difficulty

[nonbinarynow]

This is Jim Sinclair, at the time going by Toby. They are a neuter, asexual and intersex enban, and a seminal autism activist. They have been an educator on transneutral nonbinary identity, non-binary transition, the anti binarist position and intersex issues for decades. This is an interview with them from the 1980s, talking about their experience as a non-binary/genderqueer person at a time where the community was just coming together.

"In a 1997 introduction to the Intersex Society of North America, Sinclair wrote, "I remain openly and proudly neuter, both physically and socially."

Nonbinary people have always existed, and will always exist. Happy Trans History Week! 💛🤍💜🖤