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Reading about your experiences having sex while high reminds me of the last time I did acid with my partner. It was super strong acid so we were out of our minds and started out cuddling and silently clutching at each other. He started grinding against me and I immediately fell into it, and the moment he actually entered me was so magical because it was like the sun coming out from behind the clouds. I can't explain it. I was so out of it that maybe the sun actually did just come out and I didn't realise, but it was like the whole room lit up. I practically heard an angel chorus at that moment. The two of us grinned at each other and then burst into tears because it was such a romantic moment. We then proceeded to fuck and cry non-stop for 3 hours
YES. YOU GET IT. YOU FUCKING GET IT
i think people are starting to confuse class analysis with bioessentialism. like... no not all men do this, but Men as a constructed social class do do this. that's still okay to say. that is regular material analysis of the world around us.
we are broadly so fucking bad at being good friends to people who Cannot Leave
there are people who Cannot Leave. hopefully it's not the case for their whole lives but it is the case for them RIGHT NOW. and even trauma and abuse aware communities are shitassfuck bad at knowing how to be a supportive friend to these people and I find it soooo fucking frustrating. it's condescension and scolding and unrealistic standards and victim blaming and minimizing all the way fucking down .
It's so important to educate yourself about why people stay in bad situations and how to help someone who can't leave or goes back. Any sentence starting with "You should just" is bad, but "You should just leave" is one of the worst.
thank you for those links!
The thing that’s always missing from the “women didn’t fight for the right to work they were already working they fought to get paid” is that many women also very much wanted to work.
Women wanted to be lawyers and engineers and chemists. They wanted to use their brains in challenging and interesting ways. They wanted to get the satisfaction from solving problems and inventing new shit and getting attention for it.
I know not everyone is born with intellectual curiosity or drive or determination but some people are and many of those people are women.
Literally.
Problem #1 regarding child abuse is that a lot of people seem to struggle to imagine normal, respectable-looking parents and other authority figures ever doing it despite the statistics so instead they do the stranger danger panic and completely overlook some of the greatest threats.
Problem #2 is that even when people understand, even if in an abstract way, that parents can be abusive they just... don't seem to actually register that as something that can apply to real life. It's just hypothetical to them and doesn't actually guide their ideas of how to prevent child abuse.
Problem #3 is that even after overcoming the above biases a lot of people have a very narrow image of what abusive parenting is where they imagine like... people doing violent things basically out of sadism and without provocation. They don't seem to think it's "real" abuse if the victim did something that "justifies" punitive violence, like disobeying the parents.
In fact, most people think parents have a right to do a whole lot of awful things to their children beyond just hitting them, like violating their privacy, controlling their access to information, and deciding what/when/if they eat, among other things.
not now sweetie mommy is watching lez slop on instagram
I’m going to be so honest. I think in the pursuit of an individualized sexual liberation, the Overton window for misogyny has shifted violently towards normalizing bonkers levels of misogyny. Some of you have got to start being feminist killjoys again. I can’t carry this teamfight myself no matter how good I am at fragging liberal false feminists.
I think that we may have lost the plot when we started arguing that it’s feminist to play gacha games, which are predicated on articulating women as units of exchange, one of the oldest kinds of Ur-Misogyny in history.
We desperately need some political consciousness about feminism in the world. Just like a smidge. Please. I’m begging you.
You’re so real for this I’m so tired I cannot believe marvel rivals is like. Allowed to exist. It makes Overwatch look feminist in comparison which is BONKERS because it’s OVERWATCH.
Nodding in agreement it’s so bad in there girl. We have got to get more militant. This post was partially inspired by Marvel Rivals and Umamusume specifically because they’re so egregious.
i know it’s been mentioned but it genuinely feels so fucking crazy the way we’ve moved on from women can do anything to this is what women can do based on where they are in their menstrual cycle with gender equality like getting into feminism used to be with the understanding that the goal is for women to be treated like people and not like some weird fucking doll whose actions can be predicted at any given moment based on how her hormones are being released. like so many videos from men latey “explaining” the entire cycle where they think they’re being a feminist for just….knowing it while in the same breath giving some condescending fucking advice to other men on how to treat a woman based on where she is in her cycle?? like sorry but i don’t think that your implication that women are predictable and their entire personality is based on their menstrual/hormonal cycle is the major win for gender equality take you think it is just because you added “all women are queens” at the end of it
I saw this on Reddit and fucking cackled.
secular Jew here can anyone explain the funny?
"Shehechiyanu vekiyemanu vehegi'anu la'zman ha'zeh" translates to: "that we lived, existed and arrived at this time"
The blessing is said for eating things for the first time, or for the first time in over a year.
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statements to make when you didn't know how to talk to other humans until you were roughly 24 years old
i think one facet of why I am so bothered by the framing of interpersonal harm/violence as always being perpetuated intentionally and knowingly as part of some sort of Evil Plan is that frames instances of interpersonal harm/violence as successful interactions. they wanted this thing and they went out and took steps and accomplished it. whereas I very VERY strongly feel that interpersonal violence and abuse is a profound social failure! human beings want and need genuine social connections. while people may lack a concern for the experience and well-being of those around them, etc, I think in general most people want to succeed in having interpersonal connections with others. and so, patterns of harm and violence are a failure in that. which is why I often find myself characterizing ppl who can't get out of the patterns of causing that kind of harm as pathetic, I guess - being pathetic in no way means I'm saying they're not responsible for that harm, obviously. it's just like. well for example with my evil abusive grandma, like... being herself is her own worst nightmare. I don't think she wants to have the kind of relationships with her family where we're only here out of a feeling of obligation rather than any kind of genuine affection and desire to be around her. but she is fundamentally unable to move beyond her comfort zone of coercive control to try to learn new ways of interacting that might result in the changes that she would probably admit she desires deep down. and ultimately that IS ALSO selfish, like, she is unwilling to endure the discomfort of taking responsibility for her behavior! she can't psychologically face the reality of what she has created and so she displaces blame onto everyone but herself in order to maintain any psychological stability. but it's also fucking pathetic. and it's a profound failure to end up in that situation. it doesn't mean she has it "worse" than the children she has abused and coerced for decades, because like. these things don't get weighted like that. ultimately she is responsible for the harm she has done. but the harm isn't a success, it's a failure. framing her as a manipulator who just Likes Hurting People because she gets some sort of inhuman pleasure from it would frame the results of her abuse as a success. and I just don't think that's true! at all! I think she's a failure! I think interpersonal violence is failure!
eta: to clarify this is a response to social constructs such as The Criminal, The Abuser, The Killer, etc, which posit people who do certain things as being fundamentally different from other people. I am not trying to come up with some sort of Abuse Formula. I am in fact speaking to the complexity of human behavior lol
#yeah.#I think also sometimes part of why these behaviors get so entrenched / escalate so much#Is the combined effect of a short-term emotional reward with the lack of a long-term one#You get something you want you ride the adrenaline high of being mean you make sure the situation goes your way#But you don't build the types of social relationships you crave.#So you squeeze harder and harder trying to turn that short-term reward into something that lasts.
#.... I think this is maybe also related to the phenomenon of love bombing.#and of abusive people becoming extremely upset about being abusive and making the people they've hurt comfort them.#It's often talked about like that's totally calculated and performative. Which is deeply unhelpful when you're trying to process#a relationship in which that sort of thing happened in ways you're almost certain were genuine expressions of emotion.#That doesn't make them better. Literally it does not make anything about the situation better at all.#But it's just. Like. This person hurt you because they were trying so viciously hard to meet their own emotional needs#and everything that happened to you is basically.... collateral damage. From that.
#Of course it's compounded when people have structural forms of social power that modulate the limits of how far they can go without#consequences. And when they've learned across many domains of their life how much they can accomplish materially#by being a bully. Of course people are going to bring that into interpersonal relationships as well#And when it fails to accomplish their goals in those relationships - goals that may also be unexamined or willfully denial -#it spirals.
Again. Into people applying the tactics they're convinced are safe for them and effective#harder and harder regardless of consequences because it still just Isn't Working Yet#and sometimes panicking and switching to different tactics (like love bombing) but without consistency or dedication#being soft and affectionate when you crave softness and affection and then switching right back to#manipulation or petty digs or blowing up mad when you're back to wanting to Get Your Way#a lack of clarity about the long-term shape of the relationship and how your patterns of behavior affect it#Or a willful fiction that casts that narrative as something other than what it is - again to meet your moment-to-moment needs
THANK U for adding your tags in here, you've articulated a lot about this that I have been thinking about and been unable to quite get out of my head in a way that I feel makes sense.
the three genders
Every tumblr thread about the Bible
OP: basic exegetical question my pastor never answered?
Naively optimistic philosemite: I know the Jewish answer! It’s [thing I heard from a rabbi who does mindfulness meditations]!
Guy who took “The Bible In Historical Context” as an undergrad: lol that’s NOT the Jewish answer, Judaism is an ancient Canaanite sacrificial cult 🙄
Highly reactive Lubavitcher ba’al teshuvah, for some reason: IF YOU THINK MOSES DIDNT HAVE TWO DISHWASHERS YOURE AN ANTISEMITE! GET OUT OF MY HOUSE!
exegetic: in media analysis especially relevant to biblical analysis critical interpretation or explanation of the text
philosemite: think opposite of an antisemite someone who has especially positive feelings and attitudes towards jewish people and judaism
lubavitcher: VERY strict near cult like form of hasidic judaism
ba'al teshuvah: someone who was previously a secular (non religious) jew and or from a less strictly observant fom of religiousjudaism who has recently taken up some very traditional religious beliefs and viewpoints
Is my natural mode of discourse this incomprehensible
hey can anyone tell me where i can get chad gadya for two zuzim? seems like a really cheap price for this day and age but i heard from Hashem who heard from the angel of death who heard from the shochet who heard from the ox who heard from the water who heard from the fire who heard from the stick who heard from the dog who heard from the cat who heard from the goat that someone's father bought that goat for just two zuzim
Maya Newell in 1993 with her two mothers, Liz Newell and Donna Ross. This was part of the Lovely Mothers series by Elisa Halland and Catherine Fargher, photographed by Marion Moore.
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