Eat, Pray, Love author Elizabeth Gilbert finds love with a woman
“Relationships overlapped, and those overlaps were always marked by exhausting theatricality; sobbing arguments, shaming confrontations, broken hearts. Still, I kept doing it. I couldn’t not do it,” wrote Elizabeth Gilbert — the author of ‘Eat, Pray Love’ in an essay titled Confessions of a Seduction Addict, for The New York Times last year.
The free-spirited and genuine Elizabeth Gilbert won the hearts of people after her memoirs, ‘Eat, Pray, Love’, became a bestseller, and it was later adapted into a movie by the same name, starring Julia Roberts and Javier Bardem.
Elizabeth’s spiritual quest, her eventual self discovery, and her newfound love in the most unexpected part of the world...it was cathartic to go through all that in a book which had sold millions of copies all over the world.
But to the disbelief of her fans, Elizabeth made an announcement a couple of months back, about her divorce from Jose Nunez (known by the name Felipe in the book) — the Brazilian whom she encountered during her Bali sojourn — underscoring the general consensus that there is no such happily ever after, afterall.
And now, the author has revealed that she has found love again, this time in a woman, Rayya Elias — who has been her best friend for 15 years.
The 47-year-old author has revealed that Rayya being recently diagnosed for cancer made her realise how deeper their relationship was, beyond the realm of friendship . In an emotional facebook post, she wrote:
“Death — or the prospect of death — has a way of clearing away everything that is not real, and in that space of stark and utter realness, I was faced with this truth: I do not merely love Rayya; I am in love with Rayya. And I have no more time for denying that truth.”
Last year, in an exclusive interview to The Sydney Morning Herald, Elizabeth said that the bond she shares with Rayya was unique.
"It's not your sister, it's not your lover, it's not your BFF. There isn't really an identifier for it."
While the news come as a surprise to many, the interviewer Pip Cummings has mentioned in a facebook comment that he had always known the truth.
Slideshow: Memorable quotes on love from ‘Eat, Pray Love’. (Image courtesy: Eat Pray Love/ facebook)
“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.”
“In desperate love, we always invent the characters of our partners, demanding they be what we need of them, and then feeling devastated when they refuse to perform the role we created in the first place.”
“I do not need to love you to prove that I love myself!”
“To lose balance sometimes for love is part of living a balanced life.”
“There are only two questions that human beings have ever fought over, all through history. 'How much do you love me?' and, 'Who's in charge?' Everything else is somehow manageable. But these two questions of love and control undo us all, trip us up and cause war, grief, and suffering.”
“There’s a part of me which has always wanted to hear a man say, "Let me take care of you forever," and I have never heard it spoken before. Over the last few years, I’d given up looking for that person, learned how to say this heartening sentence to myself, especially in times of fear.”
“The only thing more unthinkable than leaving was staying; the only thing more impossible than staying was leaving.”