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Intro Post! Welcome ^_^
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giving this its own post actually:
the transmedicalist way of thinking (that trans men, in order to be "real (trans) men" and deserving of respect and community, must seek to be as close to cis men as possible and to downplay their transness and their relationship to the social class of "women" and/or misogyny as much as possible, and vice-versa for trans women, and that nonbinary people are suspect at best and actively detrimental to trans people as a whole at worst) is very much aligned with the trans radical feminism we have seen becoming increasingly blatant in this community. because fundamentally, when trans men discuss transandrophobia and anti-transmasculinity theory, we do so by first rejecting the idea that everything about patriarchy and gender oppression is reducible down to the cis binary, or that trans people shouldn't organize as trans people, as a trans community.
transmasculine transfeminism, at least the productive kind, demands we reject the assimilationist model that says that trans people should have no trans class consciousness, that trans people are only doing politics right when we identify with cisness, whether cis women's or cis men's. it demands we go "no, being a trans man is something more than just being a confused female or being a cis man in the "wrong" body, there is more going on here when it comes to gender oppression and how it impacts us and our bodies than what cis feminists have described, there is a trans position that has something worthwhile to contribute to analysis of patriarchy, and manhood and womanhood."
this challenge is absolutely vital for the continued development of feminism and the liberation of all peoples, on a gendered level and a broader social level. it is not exclusive to transmasculine transfeminism, to be clear. but when trans people adopt the cissexist radical feminist model, they adopt a binary view of patriarchy that reduces it down to "men vs women," which is inherently transphobic; it is inherently transphobic to push the idea that the patriarchy is all about "men vs women" which erases transphobia and intersexism as core, fundamental parts of how patriarchy functions and has always functioned.
when TERFs use this framework, they act transphobically (and racistly) by trying to explain away trans experiences as "basically cis men (universal oppressors) or basically cis women (universally oppressed, and all oppressed in the exact same ways with the exact same material experiences)". nonbinary people are erased in both of these ways, and trans people are rendered unable to describe transphobia without it being reduced down to a side-effect of misogyny as it impacts binary (cis) women, or as a side-effect of toxic masculinity as it impacts binary (cis) men, which is also brushed off as a legitimate point of feminist interest and concern. when trans people use this framework, we do the same thing, just in reverse; trans men are forced into the category of "basically cis men," trans women are forced into the category of "basically cis women," transphobia becomes a side-effect of misogyny, etc etc. and in many ways, adopting this framework is especially tempting because it is the framework of transphobic cis women and patriarchy as a whole; because if we can make this model of gender ours, tweak it just enough that it can fit some trans people inside it comfortably we can control the framework that is used to hurt us so badly. we can finally be real men and women by the definitions of the model that has been used against us.
and in our community, as this framework is adopted, nonbinary and intersex people become the scapegoats of in-group transphobia, because our existence is antithetical to this kind of binary model - not just the specific kind of binary that is associated with a very strict traditional patriarchy, but any binary. and that resistance to binary thinking gets labeled as anti-revolutionary. and then, to return to the points made above, the discussion of anti-transmasculinity becomes so controversial because it is an example of binary-identified trans people (alongside nonbinary/genderqueer/gnc people) refusing the cissexist, oppositionally-sexist model of transness, and insisting that their experiences can only ever be truly described, and our oppression truly fought, by rejecting binary trans/feminism.
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"it's not a thought crime if you post it because then it's not a thought it's something you said" ouhhhhh my God Can we all just throw ourselves into a river. they're inventing Posting Crimes. you did a Post Crime when you made that silly little kink post. it's only a thought crime if you only think it AND you have to hate yourself for thinking it you have to flagellate every day and be miserable and you have to bathe in boiling hot holy water to absolve yourself and cleanse yourself. you fucking Post Criminal. posting your Thoughts that are Criminal (not a real definable category that matters btw)
can we please talk about how the most miserable people on this website have such a backwards-ass idea of how to deal with intrusive thoughts. like, "it's only an intrusive thought if you perform exactly how disgusted you are by it!!" this is The opposite of what they tell you to do like actually. if you spend all your time wringing your hands over every single bad thought you have that only reinforces it!!!! you need to let it go. it's a thought it cannot hurt you and it isn't what makes you. and you don't need to performatively retch over how despicable the thought may be to an imagined jury. It Doesn't Matter. It's A Thought. Not An Action. And No Simply Saying It Aloud Or Writing It In A Journal Or Posting It To Your Blog Or Writing A Story Doesn't Make It Any More Real Either. Can We Please Stop Being The OCD Reinforcement Website
one of the best feelings tbh
I'm loving how quickly people have headcannoned Edgar and Monty as autistic
<3 is so powerful
This makes me so happy.
it really is kind of interesting how attached people are to the idea of the improvised line and the genuine reaction in film. nearly every single famous moment or line has some sort of claim floating around that it wasn't in the script and was either made up on the spot by an actor or was sprung as a surprise on the actors to get their 'real' reaction. you know, sometimes people do come up with good lines in advance and write them down, and sometimes people can pretend to be have a convincing emotional response on screen
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Older four brave boys as that one friendgroup that is constantly confused for a polycule. They’re not dating… friends isn’t an accurate description either. They have sleepovers in their bedrooms and fall asleep on top of each other. They mouth each other off in public. They have saved each others lives in the plagueround 10+ times. They have nearly killed each other. They know each others darkest secrets. They use each other for kissing practice. They’re besties who have committed several crimes as eleven year olds. One of them may have helped another discovery their sexuality. They live together and think of each other as partners or soulmates. They annoy each other soooo bad. They fake dated a few times. They would go to hell and back for each other and probably already have. No one can match their weirdness.
fuck it I will make this my Disability Pride Month Request: if you are able-bodied, or just unfamiliar, look up the prices of things. Look up what life-sustaining medication costs, look up what good manual¹ and any power wheelchairs cost, look up what corrective surgery and accessible vehicles and home meal delivery services and service dog training and special dietary restriction food costs. and look up how much money is available for people who can't work.
how many months of government support does it take to afford something like a power wheelchair if you're someone who needs one to get out of bed? how much expense is incurred while saving up for that, making sure you still get food, cleaning, other appointments while you're saving up? is it enough to pay rent? is it enough to still have nice meals, streaming subscriptions, a new video game? is it enough to help family or friends cover emergencies? are there resources available to help with dating, girl's nights, family events if you can't do it all yourself? how in demand are those services, how far in advance do they have to be reserved, how much do they cost?
I've had a few posts about disability get relatively well-shared at this point, and there's always an element of surprise in it - like, what do you mean there's subscriptions, what do you mean it's that expensive, isn't there something else? - and while I understand why, it would really mean a lot if people who don't know about this stuff took the initiative to find out just how bad some of this shit is on their own time
¹ and not just the folding ones on Amazon, which are still expensive, but which I can say from experience are also really uncomfortable and not suited for full time use
For the sake of all my Elliot Allen, Singh, Hebdon, and Hinks headcannons, please can we try and reach this stretch goal.
Here's a link to the Kickstarter:
A TTRPG and D&D Studio from Roll From The Hip and 12 Sided Studios
A lot of people genuinely believe that permanent disability isn't a thing that happens to good people who work hard and make responsible choices. A lot of people genuinely think that we get the life we work for and deserve. And this is definitely part of the explanation for why ableism is so prevalent
GUYS WE DID IT!!!!!!!!!!
IN 1 HOUR AND 45 MINUTES
IM SO PROUD