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you’re adorable fuck me against a wall
idk can we stop…treating a.ce disc.ourse like it’s some haha funney cringe compilation or whatever the fuck because it fucking destroyed the entire ace and aro communities. there is no solid aspec community on tumblr anymore (which was by far the biggest number of aspec ppl). exclusionists took our community and fucking smashed it to pieces and y'all treat it as this fucking stupid joke when they traumatized, gaslit, and abused an entire group of queer people back into the closet. fuck every single person who doesn’t take that seriously.
My personal experience is just that, but it’s really indicative that I have watched almost every single ace and aro person I know, irl and online, actively recloset themselves as a direct result of the consequences of The Disc Horse™
I watched irl queer groups disintegrate bc a few ppl who got into leadership positions used that to make the space hostile towards ace ppl (among others as well), saw friends go from being loud and proud aces n aros to actively avoiding any mention of it and letting ppl assume their sexuality. I myself, having been IDing as ace for 10 years at least, have in the past couple since this whole “"discourse”“ came into being, actively and intentionally stopped telling anyone at all that I’m ace. To put that in some kind of perspective, I am incredibly out as trans and will actively out myself pretty constantly except to total strangers I will never see again. I feel safer telling ppl I’m trans than ace. Especially in queer spaces. It’s fucked me up so much I didn’t even quite grasp how much but today my therapist asked me for the first time about like romantic relationships and I physically could not say I am aro and ace. Completely incapable, utterly frozen, and I just kinda let her believe what she will. Ironically the fact that I’ve gone from being willing and ready to tell ppl I’m ace as just another facet of myself to entirely unable and unsolicited to tell anyone, is probably a thing one might want to talk w one’s therapist about.
This has really fucked not just the community at large but fucked up individual ace ppl in so many ways. It’s not something “funny” or remotely harmless, it’s absolutely devastated us.
I reblogged this only a couple of days ago when this hand only 2k-ish notes.Now this has 10k notes FULL of ace , aro and aroace people talking about how much the “ace discourse” emotionally and mentally traumatized them and how so many of them stopped coming out as ace even among their most lgbtqa friendly peers and groups and its just SO SO heartbreaking to read.
The ace discourse has been going on here for around 3 years now with no signs of stopping considering of how many excusionist and aphobic ace discourse keep popping up here and 99% of them are just really horrible people who keep bullying,harassing and mocking ace people as a form of “discourse”
Ace discourse hasnt made ANYONE feel safe in the lgbtqa community except people who are as much of a bully towards ace people as aphobes are and has just created a huge divide among the community bc many lgbtqa ACE people too feel like they cant trust other lgbtqa people non ace people since they might turn out to be aphobic.
I hope anyone who has EVER contributed to this disgusting agenda against the existence of ace people reads this and realizes how they have only played the part of the bullies and bigots they hated in schools and societies, towards ace people and have contributed to the unsafeness and self hatred ace people feel for being ace.
No matter how many “hot takes” people write with as many leftist buzzwords or masterpost aphobes make ,ace people arent EVER going to stop existing.Its their LIVES and not some internet identity they make up so all this harassment of ace people is only EVER going to make ace people hide themselves not erase themselves.
anyways to make things easy:
lesbians are not attracted to men. period. that includes trans men. and to say that the word “lesbian” should only mean a woman who loves women and not a woman who doesn’t like men is pure lesbophobia n fuck ur feelings.
there is no such thing as a bi/pan lesbian. if ur genuinely attracted to both men and women ur just bi like u dont gotta do all that shit.
trans lesbians are not “lesbian adjacent” or “dyke lite” they’re lesbians period. and dating a trans woman as a cis lesbian still makes u a lesbian.
lesbians who’ve had relationships with men or currently in relationships with men bc they haven’t come out yet are still fucking lesbians. compulsory heterosexuality does not reflect attraction so stop acting like lesbians who struggle with it secretly like men
bye.
Bi/pan lesbians do exist. A woman can be bisexual/pansexual and homoromantic, or homosexual and biromantic/panromantic.
there is literally no such fucking thing as a bi/pan lesbian. lesbian means a woman/woman-aligned person exclusively attracted to other women/women-aligned people.
lesbians aren’t attracted to men. full stop.
No. Like some people can be romantically attracted to some genders while sexually attracted to another gender. It’s like asexuals or aromantics (I’m using asexuals for this example), they don’t feel sexual attraction but they can feel romantic attraction to one or more genders. So a person can be be romantically attracted to some genders (biromantic or panromantic) but feel sexual attractions to another gender (homosexual).
Okay…? Your point? Lesbians aren’t attracted to men,
At all. Not a single ounce in anyway.
It’s that easy to understand.
ah the whole “does sexual attraction to women” define lesbian more than the cis het frame work of “aversion to men” define lesbians (like some broken het women) exclusionists paper tigers.
if you are in some toxic predator bubble signalling how its safe for you, be safe!
25 Things Daddys Should do for their little girls
Tie her shoes Brush her hair Buckle her seat belt Watch the same movie 3 times in a row because it’s her favorite Read her bedtime stories Check for monsters under the bed and in the closet Wipe away tears Kiss boo-boos Know which bottle/sippy/paci is her favorite Open juice boxes/bags so the juice doesn’t get everywhere Reach things that are too high Know the names of all of her Stuffies and which ones are most important Always know where her paci is Know when to bend the rules Make a game out of doing chores Tuck her in for bed Hold her hand to cross the street Reward good behavior Punish her when it’s needed Encourage, uplift, and support her however she needs Ease her fears Love her qwerks Help her reach her goals Snuggle the crap out of her And last, but most importantly, Daddys keep their promises, always.
would be even better written gender neutral but what can ya do
Ideas for tasks Daddy can give that are fun
Practice with the ben wa balls for a certain amount of time
Take a picture of something specific and text it/tumblr post it (such as the time you asked me to take the picture in your favorite new panites)
Train with my butt plug (after we get it) for a certain amount of time
Post something specific on tumblr (like when you told me to find the tail I wanted, but I have to do it by a certain time)
Make a video of something for Daddy
Write something specific on my body and take a picture and/or leave it for you
Be dressed in something specific for when you get home (or for picture)
Hair done in certain way for when you get home (or pictures)
Work on something specific for fetlife
Work on something for the tumblr
“Have a blanket fort made by the time I get home” hehe that just sounds awesome!
Write about something specific
Ideas for writing task:
Favorite and/or least favorite parts after playtime
About why I got a punishment
Why I love Daddy so much (did that one :D)
Favorite parts of bdsm, being a little, you being my daddy, ect….
Thoughts during or after a playtime of punishment
Anything you may be wondering or wish to know more about
Just write about a playtime or punishment in general
♥Lo-Lo
Anyone have any other ideas for Daddy and Lo-Lo let us know! :)
A Daddy is a title given to the dominant partner within a dominant/submissive relationship. They are similar to that of Master, both are tops in the relationship. They have a certain and special ownership to their submissive, whom also care after them. These titles aren’t given to any person, it is a privilege; and must be earned. Unlike a Master, a Daddy loves when their submissive’s little side comes out to play and often are encouraged. And where a Master is more concerned with their own pleasure, a Daddy is very much interested in their Little’s goals, wants and needs.
In my eyes, a Daddy Dominant takes the authoritative role in the relationship. Their submissive, their little, look up to them, trust them to uphold special expectations. Daddy is there to always love, care, protect, teach and guide their little.
These are few expectations that I have for my Daddy:
A Daddy is in control of themselves first and foremost, so that they may control and take control of their little.
In times of trouble, a Daddy will never leave the role behind, and is always there to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals.
A Daddy is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality.
A Daddy must always show his little that their guidance and tutoring is deserving of their attention, that this is a person they can learn from, and that they can trust their direction.
A Daddy proves to their little that he is someone they can lean on, and depend on.
A Daddy is always open to communication and discussion; always ready to hear their submissive’s wants and needs.
A Daddy is patient, taking time to learn the limits of his little; and knowing that as there trust of them grows, so will they.
A Daddy understands the fragile nature of mind and body and never violates the trust given to them.
As many of you know, in my day job I’m a journalist, and one of my colleagues is covering the tumblr changes and wants to talk to anyone who has been affected, creatively or financially, by the new policy, so that we can get your story out there. If that’s you, PM me or email her at [email protected].
what’s yalls NGAAT (nipple gender assigned at tumblr)
me on december 18th: wow this movie FUCKS
my assigned tumblr staff incel:
tumblr users: please ban the Nazis
tumblr: if you post a tiddy you’ll be deleted on sight
scream @ “female presenting nipples”
tumblr is shutting everything down, not sure this blog will survive the cull
December 17 is the day of remembrance for sex workers
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Day_to_End_Violence_Against_Sex_Workers
This is incredibly fucked up.
Shutting down “adult content” on the DOR for sex workers. Just wow.
@staff deleting all porn while ignoring blogs promoting violence, bigotry, and hate speech
A better, more positive Tumblr
Since its founding in 2007, Tumblr has always been a place for wide open, creative self-expression at the heart of community and culture. To borrow from our founder David Karp, we’re proud to have inspired a generation of artists, writers, creators, curators, and crusaders to redefine our culture and to help empower individuality.
Over the past several months, and inspired by our storied past, we’ve given serious thought to who we want to be to our community moving forward and have been hard at work laying the foundation for a better Tumblr. We’ve realized that in order to continue to fulfill our promise and place in culture, especially as it evolves, we must change. Some of that change began with fostering more constructive dialogue among our community members. Today, we’re taking another step by no longer allowing adult content, including explicit sexual content and nudity (with some exceptions).
Let’s first be unequivocal about something that should not be confused with today’s policy change: posting anything that is harmful to minors, including child pornography, is abhorrent and has no place in our community. We’ve always had and always will have a zero tolerance policy for this type of content. To this end, we continuously invest in the enforcement of this policy, including industry-standard machine monitoring, a growing team of human moderators, and user tools that make it easy to report abuse. We also closely partner with the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children and the Internet Watch Foundation, two invaluable organizations at the forefront of protecting our children from abuse, and through these partnerships we report violations of this policy to law enforcement authorities. We can never prevent all bad actors from attempting to abuse our platform, but we make it our highest priority to keep the community as safe as possible.
So what is changing?
Posts that contain adult content will no longer be allowed on Tumblr, and we’ve updated our Community Guidelines to reflect this policy change. We recognize Tumblr is also a place to speak freely about topics like art, sex positivity, your relationships, your sexuality, and your personal journey. We want to make sure that we continue to foster this type of diversity of expression in the community, so our new policy strives to strike a balance.
Why are we doing this?
It is our continued, humble aspiration that Tumblr be a safe place for creative expression, self-discovery, and a deep sense of community. As Tumblr continues to grow and evolve, and our understanding of our impact on our world becomes clearer, we have a responsibility to consider that impact across different age groups, demographics, cultures, and mindsets. We spent considerable time weighing the pros and cons of expression in the community that includes adult content. In doing so, it became clear that without this content we have the opportunity to create a place where more people feel comfortable expressing themselves.
Bottom line: There are no shortage of sites on the internet that feature adult content. We will leave it to them and focus our efforts on creating the most welcoming environment possible for our community.
So what’s next?
Starting December 17, 2018, we will begin enforcing this new policy. Community members with content that is no longer permitted on Tumblr will get a heads up from us in advance and steps they can take to appeal or preserve their content outside the community if they so choose. All changes won’t happen overnight as something of this complexity takes time.
Another thing, filtering this type of content versus say, a political protest with nudity or the statue of David, is not simple at scale. We’re relying on automated tools to identify adult content and humans to help train and keep our systems in check. We know there will be mistakes, but we’ve done our best to create and enforce a policy that acknowledges the breadth of expression we see in the community.
Most importantly, we’re going to be as transparent as possible with you about the decisions we’re making and resources available to you, including more detailed information, product enhancements, and more content moderators to interface directly with the community and content.
Like you, we love Tumblr and what it’s come to mean for millions of people around the world. Our actions are out of love and hope for our community. We won’t always get this right, especially in the beginning, but we are determined to make your experience a positive one.
Jeff D’Onofrio CEO
Seems like a huge FUCK YOU to the queer community, but okay
so much kink shit is just men trying to justify their desire to hurt women and pretend like they can go into a room, hurt someone, get off to hurting someone, and then walk out as if that doesn’t mean anything about who they are as a person
Now, I fucking love kink, but I don’t love these sorry excuses for Doms. That’s for damn sure.
a personal comic about haircuts and being queer and not realising your body isn’t really yours until you buy a pair of hair clippers That’s my experience anyway
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A good thread on whether “queer” is a slur and if it should be used or not.
“If I am unashamed of being queer, you do not get to give that word BACK to the fuckwits who made it a slur.”
you do not get to give that word BACK to the fuckwits who made it a slur
EVERYBODY WHO CAME OUT BEFORE YOU HAS TAKEN THE ROCKS AND BOTTLES AND MADE THEM INTO SHIELDS AND WINDCHIMES
Holy motherfucking shit. Don’t fucking come at me about Queer is a slur. I FUCKING KNOW IT IS. It was hurled at me like a fucking spear all through my youth. I know it’s a god damn slur. And it’s mine. You don’t get to take it away from me because you can’t take also away the scars it gave me while I was standing in front of my younger queer siblings in this community.
always, always reblog this one.
If my enemy swings a sword at me and I take that sword away from them, it’s my sword now. And the person telling me I can’t use it because it belongs to my enemy and I have to give it back to them sounds quite a bit like an enemy themselves.
^^ god that analogy