Iâm simply baffled that you describe the act of prostitution as a âprofessionâ and a âservice.â Sexuality is the most intimate sphere of human life. Do we get to keep that at least, pretty please, or do we have to let every single part of ourselves be completely commodified and capitalized upon? Since when has the Left been the champion of the sale of all human desire? You call sex a service, as if it were possible to separate it from the Self, the Body, the Person; as if you could simply peel it away, place it in a nice little box on the shop counter, and then some fellow shows up, hands me 50 euros and walks out with the sex. Is that how you picture it, yeah? You even speak of âpoor working conditionsââdo you actually believe that the abuse we have suffered and so many of us still suffer is somehow ameliorated if weâre given a nice âworkplaceâ, as you call it? âWorking conditionsâ? What are you even talking about? Under which conditions is the abuse that johns inflict on us acceptable to you, pray tell? Or do you simply not see it as abuse, ignoring what exited persons and trauma researchers are telling you? Sixty-eight percent of all prostituted people have post-traumatic stress disorder, and thatâs not counting depression, addiction, borderline disorders and psychoses. Do you think these things are a result of âpoor working conditionsâ? Every exited woman I know describes what she experienced in prostitution as sexual abuse. Our having tolerated sexual abuse or having been forced to do so does not turn it into a profession!
And then you keep going on about the stigma, saying we mustnât be stigmatized. I agree with you on this, but I have to stress that itâs not the stigma thatâs raping, abusing, and killing us. Itâs the johns. Sadly you draw the wrong conclusions from the demand that prostituted persons mustnât be stigmatized.
âThis [stigma] is expressed in a lack of recognition of their profession.â
To be clear, what you demand is basically for the abuse of prostituted women to become normal. You want it to become a job. You want the abuse to become ACCEPTABLE. In short, youâre fighting for womenâs right to call the suffering of sexual abuse a job. Or better: Youâre fighting for menâs right to abuse women and minimize that abuse by calling it âwork.â
âThus parts of the left have repeatedly pushed for a âfull ban on prostitutionâ or the supposedly progressive âSwedish Modelâ, claiming that sex work/prostitution is the ultimate expression of patriarchy.â
Let me get this straight: This sounds like you donât think prostitution is an expression of patriarchy. If itâs not that, what is it, then? Why are 98% of all individuals in prostitution female and johns almost 100% male? Now donât say itâs because we live in patriarchy.
âHowever, the feminist response cannot be to take a paternalistic approach and try to tell sex workers what a decent life should look like.â
Iâm dying to find out where you get this from. People who see prostitution as destructive and inhumane arenât being paternalistic, theyâre expressing solidarity with us. And thatâs exactly where you could do with a little practice. You need to stop flogging that stupid notion that every person who recognizes prostitution as harmful is some kind of conservative moralist trying to lecture âfallen womenâ. Acknowledging the suffering and misery of prostitution and stating that it is violent doesnât constitute lecturing; it means SEEING the real conditions that prostituted people live in and thus showing respect and care to those who suffer within and because of prostitution.
Read full letter at Survivor Megaphone
Open letter by Huschke Mau and eight other women exited from prostitution. Originally published in German under the title âDie Linke Freude an der Prostitution â Huschke Mau an die Bremer Linksjugendâ at sisters-ev.de, 21 April 2016
In response to Left Youth Solid, an official youth organization of the German party The Left, regarding the position paper âSolidarity with Sex Workers â No to the new prostitute protection act â No to paternalism and other-directedness in the sexual service industryâ
via Anti-Porn Feminists, Original translation from German to English by Survivor Megaphone