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Though, I think intake would really appeal to me. I could have a lot of fun prepping a toy for its new owner. I think it could be fun doing a scene about training a subject to respond to commands, to understand its place, and to enjoy its role.

Identifying which factors best motivate it. What kinds of affection. Physical, verbal, nonverbal. Treats, toys, drugs. And streamline it all together. Put together a plan with the to-be owner about how the reinforcement can be maintained, and then grinding it into the subject's head that obedience is how it receives the reward. Thinking and fighting aren't necessary, unless the new owner desires one or the other.

I think there could be a lot of fun to be had playing with mirroring the new owner's body language and voice to prep the subject for such cues. So many important things exist at that level, especially pre-reward feedback. Conditioned positives. It's important that you know that you're doing a good job, so you keep submitting. Lots of little things to be done.

distinguished-bloodperv

Some of you girls out there are such obvious daughterbait btw. You may think your need for a momma is internal, that it's something you can hide or be subtle about at the very least, but no. When a girl is motherable, it's obvious.

In social situations on your own, you may try to play up your confidence. Do your best to seem sociable, and brave, and independent, but there's always an inescapable need in you that shows through.

The need to be coddled, to have the small of your back rubbed while you talk, to be told you're doing so well at making friends, to have your hair pet and your head held in the quiet moments, to be teased and toyed with when nobody's looking. It's okay baby. Mom knows what you need.

innumerable-voices

I long so badly to be an autonomous spaceship with a crew to look after and little drones to do tasks for me and cameras + microphones everywhere inside me and huge sensor arrays for things outside of me and,,,

Sigh

distinguished-bloodperv

Some of you girls out there are such obvious daughterbait btw. You may think your need for a momma is internal, that it's something you can hide or be subtle about at the very least, but no. When a girl is motherable, it's obvious.

In social situations on your own, you may try to play up your confidence. Do your best to seem sociable, and brave, and independent, but there's always an inescapable need in you that shows through.

The need to be coddled, to have the small of your back rubbed while you talk, to be told you're doing so well at making friends, to have your hair pet and your head held in the quiet moments, to be teased and toyed with when nobody's looking. It's okay baby. Mom knows what you need.

xenasaur

findom is so fucking hot in concept but in this economy? untenable

xenasaur

like the idea of sweetly cupping a girl's face and gently brushing my thumb across her cheek while I condescendingly explain that I know she worked soooooo long and hard for all this money but we both know that I deserve it far more than she does is so painfully erotic to me. I looooooove condescendingly explaining to girls why they deserve less than me while they whimper and nod and thank me for it. but I also would probably throw up thinking about taking money from someone when the economy is in this state

of course, I could get around that by findomming men, but then it wouldn't be fun. a real catch 22

mollyjames

Instant (Financial) Loss

mollyjames

I'm learning not as many people know what findom is as I thought. So you're welcome for that

homohypnoticus

i love how like. gently patronizing a lot of hypnosis stuff feels (like, actual inductions and hypnotic language). that's really the essence of like my thing about being made to behave. it feels forceful but it's still soft. it's like kinda intimate and almost violating just because it's like, it involves such automatic habits and so much rewiring, but at the same time it's like, boring and mundane and making you better. you wanna argue with it but like, they're right. it's hard for me to even articulate. i guess some of it is the fantasy of like. someone being able to make you accept all those things that you know would make your life easier if you actually accepted them and listened and did them but that you just can't for some reason. for someone to actually genuinely be able to make you stop scrolling in bed, to stop picking at your skin, etc. and for that to not even feel like pulling teeth but to feel like a kind of bondage. like even when it's kinda difficult or uncomfortable it's just exciting because you get the feeling of listening and being good anyway. it feels so wrong to just stop picking at something the instant you're told to, but then you do it, and then after a few seconds the urge just vanishes. i mean it feels like some kind of magic spell because like you have spent your whole life struggling to stop doing stuff like that and it's never worked no matter how hard you tried and no matter what strategies you used. how could there possibly be a more real and compelling kind of control than that. than someone being able to easily make you do something that you absolutely definitely felt like you could never do yourself, ever. someone who can make you behave, like actually, not just threatening you into some semblance of compliance. i don't know it's just crazy

ace-trainer-alice

it's important when brainwashing one of the hero's party members to think that it's someone else for some scheme or another that you make sure the new identity is a full and complete personality with its own loves, interests, and ambitions just because it makes the ethics of clean up really, really funny to watch.

androcola

neverwonderneverremember

pulling up to the tgirl frat house in a car littered with monster cans blasting ada rook and i walk in and there's an indistinct pile of women in a dog bed on the floor of the living room and discarded white claw cans on every surface and they're all on LSD and they start freaking out because they saw a vacuum in the corner. two adult women who look like 14 year old boys come out of the basement reeking of weed and cum and ask when dinner's gonna be ready and then disappear for another hour. 3 people blasting cigs on the back porch at any given time, castration movie on the TV, trans flags in the windows, ants on every surface, 2 muzzles and 4 collars on the coffee table but no dogs, rusty scratched-up mirror with razor blades and cut-up drinking straws, fridge plastered with promo posters for raves that happened a year ago. bella has changed her name to Manta and is sitting on the couch rubbing t-gel into its/her balls, nobody has brushed their teeth this week but they all smoke so much they can't smell it. clarissa's complaining about how raytheon stopped providing free lattes and only lets you have drip coffee now and using a naked chick as a footrest while she does it. aly steps outside wearing a black mask and work uniform and a nametag that says "Jeff" and starts her 90-minute bus commute to a grocery store that's just outside the city limits so minimum wage is $2 lower. nobody's noticed yet but alice is visiting from canada and she has lice. in a week, everyone in the house will have them. in two weeks, every barista and grocery bagger and dishwasher in the city will have them. natalie really doesn't want to top anymore but Amazing (who goes by Sara at work) makes $230,000 a year and has needs. everyone's fucking but nobody's cumming.

neverwonderneverremember

10 years later nearly every resident of the household will tell a story to a friend about their time there and that friend will say "wait, that sounds a bit like rape, doesn't it?" and they'll respond "haha, yeah, i guess, i don't really think about it though"

ace-trainer-alice

it's important when brainwashing one of the hero's party members to think that it's someone else for some scheme or another that you make sure the new identity is a full and complete personality with its own loves, interests, and ambitions just because it makes the ethics of clean up really, really funny to watch.

browningtons-deactivated2018041

I cum to you on a daily basis

neverwonderneverremember

pulling up to the tgirl frat house in a car littered with monster cans blasting ada rook and i walk in and there's an indistinct pile of women in a dog bed on the floor of the living room and discarded white claw cans on every surface and they're all on LSD and they start freaking out because they saw a vacuum in the corner. two adult women who look like 14 year old boys come out of the basement reeking of weed and cum and ask when dinner's gonna be ready and then disappear for another hour. 3 people blasting cigs on the back porch at any given time, castration movie on the TV, trans flags in the windows, ants on every surface, 2 muzzles and 4 collars on the coffee table but no dogs, rusty scratched-up mirror with razor blades and cut-up drinking straws, fridge plastered with promo posters for raves that happened a year ago. bella has changed her name to Manta and is sitting on the couch rubbing t-gel into its/her balls, nobody has brushed their teeth this week but they all smoke so much they can't smell it. clarissa's complaining about how raytheon stopped providing free lattes and only lets you have drip coffee now and using a naked chick as a footrest while she does it. aly steps outside wearing a black mask and work uniform and a nametag that says "Jeff" and starts her 90-minute bus commute to a grocery store that's just outside the city limits so minimum wage is $2 lower. nobody's noticed yet but alice is visiting from canada and she has lice. in a week, everyone in the house will have them. in two weeks, every barista and grocery bagger and dishwasher in the city will have them. natalie really doesn't want to top anymore but Amazing (who goes by Sara at work) makes $230,000 a year and has needs. everyone's fucking but nobody's cumming.

neverwonderneverremember

10 years later nearly every resident of the household will tell a story to a friend about their time there and that friend will say "wait, that sounds a bit like rape, doesn't it?" and they'll respond "haha, yeah, i guess, i don't really think about it though"

sounddesignerjeans2

I genuinely think a lot of D/s relationships would go so much better if it were more broadly understood that being domestically useful is about facilitating your partner's movements, which may or may not include e.g. housework but is much more frequently about being a good sounding board and being willing to do random fetch quests so whoever's in charge can think. Oftentimes the perfect submissive looks less like a demure and obsequious maid and more like an intern with good vibes.

sounddesignerjeans2

And it makes sense to me! I have a lot of sympathy! I think it's extremely common for mentally ill folks to go "fuck, I can't do anything" and start fantasizing about this sort of transactional ideal of a relationship where in exchange for praise, patience, and rough sex (or insults and impatience that take the form of rough sex instead of abandonment), they are required to do the dishes and the laundry. And there's this sort of "maybe I just need The Vitamin" mentality to it, of "if it weren't for the crushing weight of the expectations that I Be A Productive Member of Society, the comparatively small weight of domestic service would be workable." And then you go and do it and it turns out you still have to sort out your shit, and also now you have a complex because if the domestic maid thing doesn't work for you you've tied up your self worth in it despite it not necessarily being what your dominant needs.

Yes, there are dominants (often ones with executive dysfunction themselves, or high-powered ones who are busy all the time) who go for the sort of servant you're probably fantasizing about. I've filled that role before, and it can be fine - if it works for you, please, do it! My goal is to give folks ideas, not shut you down.

Tonight the one I serve decided they had the spirit of housekeeping in them, and messaged me "could I tap you to at some point grab us a cold water from QT?" And I was like yeah absolutely. And so they took that as a given, figured out their movements from there, decided "actually for cleaning I want to get big trash bags and I'll grab water while I'm out." I wasn't involved at all in the final gameplan, but my availability was useful because they could assess the situation with the option in mind to tap me in where needed. Of course, it helps that if they ordered me to scrub the place top to bottom I'd do it, but that isn't usually what my life looks like. My life looks like understanding things like how useful it was to be on tap like that and optimizing to be more of that flavor of useful!

Usually, I'm not here to do their dirty work. I'm here to facilitate them in doing things they already want to be doing. My goal as a servant is to help them figure out and actualize their goals by making sure they have the resources they need, not to bring my own damage in by assuming that doing stuff sucks and I'm saving them trouble.

homohypnoticus

i love situations where someone can casually use hypnotic language and say hypnotic things. like a person says they're bad at making eye contact because they don't know how long they should do it for, and another person says, "it's alright, you can just keep looking into my eyes for as long as you'd like, you don't have to think about it." it's still kind of a weird interaction, but like, it doesn't come out of nowhere. it's just a specific kind of reassurance. and that's the main context i usually think of, a situation where someone has some specific worry or thing they feel awkward about, because it turns out a lot of hypnotic language is just reassurance and gentle guidance, and that's a situation where that makes some amount of sense.

medical and dental situations where someone just kind of needs to relax and hold still are also a big one. i mean it genuinely is practical to get someone to just sit there.

aside from that, there's mentorship and teaching. which is usually unlikely to have the very trope-y hypnotic stuff, but like, there definitely is a lot of suggestion involved. here's how you're supposed to pose, here's the stance you have to have, here's a way of remembering that, something to compare it to, something you can imagine yourself doing. here's a way of understanding this complicated mental concept. this task is easier if you're not consciously thinking about what you're doing and let it become muscle memory. etc.

if you're more into the trickery and persuasion and pushiness there's manipulation and advertisement and con artists and whatnot too. although a lot of that tends to be way less personal and intimate. but sometimes that's the appeal, i guess