Hey Quinn, was just wondering how you knew you were demiboy/genderfluid/generally not cis? If it is too personal don’t answer I just have been questioning and am still trying to figure out my gender identity. Either way, have a wonderful day!☺️ P.s. I really like your account
Last year during Christmas break I didn’t feel like a girl much. I didn’t like makeup at the time and I didn’t like dresses, nail polish, etc.
I learned about nonbinary and all the genders and questioned for 7 to 8 months. And just to be brief (I’m sorry it isn’t detailed) I felt partially male but not fully cause I still felt feminine, and I felt my gender was fluid cause I’d feel agender most of the time and sometimes I’d feel like a boy and others I’d feel like a girl.
And I also chose demiboy because I don’t like being referred to as a girl and “boy” just sounds right to me.
Last year during Christmas break I didn’t feel like a girl much. I didn’t like makeup at the time and I didn’t like dresses, nail polish, etc.
It’s called not following stereotypes and this has absolutely NOTHING to do with being trans! There are boys who like pink and they stil are boys. There are girls who hate dolls and they still are girls. You not enjoying typical girl stuff is not transgender and never will be. Same goes for not feeling feminine. Nobody feels a 100% feminine/masculine all the time. This is normal and affects pretty much every human being.
I learned about nonbinary and all the genders and questioned for 7 to 8 months. And just to be brief (I’m sorry it isn’t detailed) I felt partially male but not fully cause I still felt feminine,
It’s called not being a feminine woman. Back in my days we called this “tomboy” and it was a completely normal thing. Funny how it suddenly truned into a gender. Feeling neutral is OK as well because everybody who is not too focused on what males/females are “supposed” to be like feels like this. I feel the same as you do and I don’t like girly things either but guess what? This doesn’t make me, you or anyone trans. I am a girl and so are you unless you truly suffer from gender dysphoria which you don’t seem to do so you are just as cis as I am.
Congrats, you are not trans but merely a girl that doesn’t follow the classical womanly road of expressing yourself. You and a million of other women on this planet. Seriously, google what being trans is about and talk to a doctor if you want valid information instead of googeling identities made-up by people on tumblr who think being LGBT is a cute and trendy label you can pick at random whenever you don’t follow stereotypes. What you are is called being a transtrender and it makes the actual trans community look like a joke. Please stop forcing yourself into this community just because you don’t bow to classical gender stereotypes or feel like a princess everyday. It takes more to being transgender than just not liking nailpolish, frilly dresses or not feeling like the classical man/woman. Every expert will tell you so.
And since you seem like the kind of person who would block me for showing those facts: it won’t change anything about this statement. You are a cis girl using trans as a trendy label for your masculine interests. It’s sad how easy it nowaday is to count as LGBT when even I, a hetero cis woman, could join that easily by using a made-up label that represents nothing but the classical “tomboy” and this is not the point of this movement.
