Making this post to pin to explain why I don't like using LGBTQ+ personally so the prior pinned post can retire.
I find queer to be fully reclaimed and far more inclusive than the alphabet soup that is currently the used acronym, not only for all of the community but I'm particular because it's easier to say than stating I am an asexual/demisexual, romantically attracted to anyone not a cishet man though may be in reality aromantic because I like the idea of romance but I simply do not have the energy or desire to deal with any of it (plus I refuse to share my bed with anyone except my cats unless i have to like in a trip)
I put "don't call me LGBT" in my bio 1) out of spite for all those who think queer is a slur (as if all of our identities aren't slurs), and 2) because of the LGB without the TQIA+ assholes.
I am queer. I am here. Get over it.

















