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The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing.
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Who Am I?
Wroclaw, Poland.
Everytime I travel, I feel like I become a different person. I adjust to my surroundings and when uncomfortable, I change my personality to suit what is around me. Once I start adjusting, however, I tend to see myself from a different point of view and realize that I have changed; things I would do while travelling, I would never do at home. Sometimes, I think that traveling is just a fairytale. Once you hit back home, you think about the experiences you have gone through and sometimes wonder why you acted in certain ways when you would never have done that at home. It is almost like watching yourself in third person.
Going Back in Time.
Budapest Castle, Hungary
I was recently asked in an interview, “If you could go back in time and change something from the past, what would it be?” This question really stumped me for a moment. I was wracking my brain, trying to think of an answer, trying to think of something smart and intelligent to impress the interviewer; but then I realized, there is absolutely nothing I would change from my past. I believe that anything worth changing in my past are events that have shaped the person I am today. If those events did not happen, I would not think in the same way as I do today.
Scrambled Thoughts.
Victoria, BC, Canada
I was once told that life is all about experiences. Experiences are what makes us and as long as they don’t kill you, any experience is valuable.
I generally believe that I am able to get along with many people. I am able to make conversation and in one-on-one situations, avoid awkward silences. I now know, that this is definitely not true. Have you ever had that awkward encounter with someone where you just run out of topics to talk about and the other person just is not willing to ask or even try to make the conversation flow or continue?
I just don’t understand how some people think the way they do.
We all fight our own battles, it’s just about how strong enough we are to get through them and become a better, more wiser person. To learn from our heartaches, failures and sadness.
I know these sound like very scrambled thoughts, but trust me, all these thoughts relate to one experience I recently had with someone.
Stress.
Am Bodensee, Germany
I wrote this way back in 2013... I still remember what I was going through back then. I was worried about finding a job and being able to live on my own in the UK. Re-reading this just brings me back to today. I’m trying to figure out what I want in life and I have no clue! I know I want to travel. And I know I want to be able to make a positive impact on people.
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Sometimes I put myself in stressful situations and when I am in them, I ask myself why am I doing this? Why would I want to be in this position right now when I could be relaxing or taking it easy? But there’s something there… There is a reason I do this to myself. There is a reason I push myself to do things. Everything I do, I gain experience. If something fails, I analyze and understand why it failed. Next time I will be better prepared.
Right now, I am stressed out of my mind and all I keep thinking is that I could just give up. I could just stop trying and pretend that nothing happened. However, I know there would be a feeling of disappointment.
In the future, I am going to look back at this post and laugh to myself. I will think back to this moment and say, “that wasn’t a stressful situation at all”. I stress about the little things when I know I should be looking at the big picture. The big picture of how most of life is a learning experience. Each individual experience allows us to grow and become the person we want to be. We all have choices in life. Many people choose to take the easy route, but by taking the easy route, they never learn. They never try new things. Easy is routine. To get the most out of life, it is important to take risks.
So if anyone actually reads my blog, I encourage you take those risks. I encourage you to start up a conversation with that boy/girl you’ve had your eye on for a while. I encourage you to start that new hobby you’ve been wanting to do. I encourage you to sing at the top of your lungs. I encourage you to dance like no one is watching. I encourage you to become who you want to be.
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Evolution
Krakow, Poland
Some people believe that life’s purpose is to find a mate. To find somebody to love, to reproduce and to raise a family. Evolutionary-wise, this definitely makes sense. However, if life’s purpose is based on the evolutionary approach, how does this support homosexuality?
I have never truly focused on finding a boyfriend and I never believed that it was my life’s purpose. Some people constantly need a partner in their life. It is sad, because they pursue a mate just because they are bored, or they are lonely, or believe that they will not find somebody else. I want to fall in love. I want the spark. I do not want just anybody. I want the connection. Someone who can teach me things, who will help me become the best me. I know this is very corny, but I feel like our society these days is just heading towards individuals finding a boyfriend/girlfriend because they’re lonely, especially now that online dating is becoming so popular.
Be Careful For What You Wish For
Trafalgar Square, London, UK
When I was working in London, there would be long days. We would get this shift called “the double” where you would work from 10am to 10pm or 11am to 11pm and so on. Twelve hour work days were not pleasant. I actually really detested them and because of various other things that had happened to me when I first arrived in the UK, I told myself if I do not fall in love in London, I would never want to come back there again. Every 11:11 I saw on the clock, I would make a wish to fall in love in London.
Well, I fell in love. I do not regret that I fell in love, but it was crazy. It was stupid. Why would you want to fall in love when the relationship is bound to end due to long distance? But that wish, at every 11:11, came true. And now, I really do want to return to London. It’s a place I just long to be back to and am jealous at everyone who gets the chance to go there.
Serendipity
Berlin Concert Hall, Germany
Sometimes when you travel alone, you begin to feel lonely. That’s precisely how I felt on my second day in Berlin. My spirits were quavering and I was just ready to go home. But then, something surprising happened. I remember I was just sitting in a coffee shop, writing. It was around 7pm and I decided it was time to just head back to my hostel and get ready for bed. So, I walked back to my hostel and while walking back, I recognized a familiar face. The girl was walking in the opposite direction, towards me. She was someone I studied with in Poland and it made me so happy to see a familiar face. She was just what I needed in that time and place; someone to travel and explore Berlin with.
There is something so serendipitous about this world. We bump into familiar faces at the least expected times and places.
Destiny?
Stonehenge, UK
Do you ever believe in destiny? Like when you keep applying for millions of jobs and no one is accepting you? Do you think that destiny is trying to tell you something? I don’t think I’m wording this very well. But, let me tell you a little story.
When I was in England, I went through some tough times. At one point while I was there, I began applying for jobs. Simple, non-educated jobs that anyone could do, particularly, waitressing and customer service roles. I got many interviews and trial shifts (which I detested), but no official offers. I had a friend come over to live in England some time later, and within the week she had a job offer. I was so frustrated and confused as to why I had the worst luck.
Finally, I got a job offer, working as a waitress at a restaurant, 40 minute bus ride away from my flat. Obviously, I took what I could get. I had to work mostly evening shifts, where I would be getting home at 1am - 2am. Me, not being a night owl found this tough. However, when I look back to my experience working at that restaurant, I believe it was probably the best thing that happened to me while living in England. I just learnt a lot about myself and had some awesome colleagues.
There was a point when I got an interview working in a call centre. The perks of that job would be that I would be able to get the 9-5 working day hours and have the weekends off. For some reason, I decided not to go for it, and stayed working at the restaurant. A decision I definitely did not regret.
Right now, I am unemployed, and having no luck finding a job. Sometimes I look at what “destiny” is trying to teach me. I’m trying my best to stay hopeful but slowly, I’m wavering. Is it the persistence and the whole “not giving” up lesson? Life is tough and I just can’t wait to fast forward to the future when I will be looking back at this moment and realize what it has taught me.
The Missed Flight
Wicklow, Dublin, Ireland
Sometimes we regret the chances we don’t take. Isn’t that a popular saying? Well, these were the words that came to mind when I managed to miss my 6:30am departing flight to Dublin, Ireland from Luton airport, UK. The whole day was planned. I remember it to be a Tuesday. I was working 4pm to close (which happened to be past midnight). Silly me, I had not thought of taking the day off, prior to departing. Although I had an inconvenient scheduling problem, I still managed to plan my way out to the airport that night. The plan was to catch the 24-hour bus to Baker Street, central London, and then catch the N1 bus booked in advance, which was to show up at approximately 2am on Baker street. Luckily enough, I told my supervisor, Scott, about the situation and he let me leave work at exactly midnight even though we still had customers in the restaurant. With this, I managed to arrive at Luton airport at around 3am. Proud of myself for getting through the night, and navigating my way through this foreign city accurately, I thought nothing could go wrong now! I successfully made it to the airport on time and now all I had to do was wait for my departing flight.
Hours lingered by, as I could not sleep, excited for my trip to Ireland. Finally, as 6am dawned, I made my way through security. The gate was announced, and I walked briskly towards it. Through those plain, grey hallways of the airport nothing could get in my way. I was first in line, to board the plane. As I approached the flight attendants looking at boarding passes and passports, I could see their quizzical expression as they checked my boarding pass. The flight attendant informed me, “I’m sorry ma’am, but you cannot board this plane without getting your boarding pass stamped.”
Words failed to escape my mouth. I was stunned. The flight attendant, then efficiently told me to have a seat and wait. I slowly walked towards the seats unable to believe what was happening. How could I have gotten this wrong? I arrived at the airport at 3am. As I sat there, thoughts wondered through my mind; they must let me board. I’m sure there will still be seats available. I’m just going to get the last choice of seats. Everything will be fine.
As the last of the queue began to lessen, and official representative of the airline made her way towards me. “You forgot to stamp your boarding pass?” she said sternly. All I could do was nod. “Follow me.” She continued.
As I slowly followed her, away from the gate, I realized I was not going to get on this flight. All my efforts of arriving early to the airport, wasted. The airline representative led me to a desk where she told them about missing my flight and inquired when the next flight would be and what it would cost. Having paid £ 60 for a return flight, I was not ready for the £ 120 more pounds I would have to pay for a one way ticket on the next flight. My face fell at the words and the desk agent told me I would have until 9am to decide what I wanted to do, otherwise the price would rise even more.
I walked away from the desk, eyes wet, I found a seat. How could this be happening to me? I looked at my phone. Unable to think of what to do next. I saw my brother on Facebook and messaged him. I always rely on my brother when I am in trouble or confused. He told me to go to Ireland. When will I ever get an experience like this again? “Go to Ireland, have fun and enjoy yourself.” He wrote.
Following his advice, I ended up paying an extra £ 120 for the next flight and I do not regret it at all. Ireland is such a wonderful country and I am so grateful I had the opportunity to experience its beauty. I hold memories there that are worth a billion pounds and reminiscing now about it makes me smile.
Poland
Zakopane, Poland
Poland. Poland has taught me something different. Something a lot more personal. It has showed me what I want in a relationship. I like people who I can talk to about life. Not meaningless stuff such as who is sleeping with who or gossip behind other people's backs. I want intellectual conversations about the psychology of people's actions, the news or understanding the world. I want someone who can challenge my thoughts. Who can teach me something different about myself. Who can argue with me and give me the chance to understand a different way of thinking.
Travels
Market in Mauritius
I believe that every time you travel for a long period of time, you learn something new about yourself. Recently, I've had the opportunity to travel quite a bit. In the past year or so, I've spent 7 months living in England, 1 month in Mauritius and 3 months in Poland. Reflecting back, I now understand and know what London has taught me. Living on my own in England has taught me many things, but the number one thing I have realized is that you are in charge of your own happiness. If you do not like how something is, change it. If you do not like your living situation, move. If you think you can't move, find a way to. Work towards it. It may take, but it is possible. If you do not enjoy your job, leave. There is nobody forcing you to stay at your job. Everything you say that stops you from leaving are just excuses. It is you, being lazy. Or you, being too afraid. There is so much potential in the world and nothing holding you back. Yes, sometimes things take time to happen... Sometimes it even seems like an eternity, but if you really want it, you can make it happen. You can do anything and be anyone you want in this world. You've just got to stop making excuses and go do it.
Living in a Different World
Mon Choisy, Mauritius
Last June I had the opportunity to visit my family in Mauritius. It was a family reunion where we celebrated my grandmas 96th birthday. She had 14 kids, and we managed to reunite half of them. It was my second time in Mauritius, and it was interesting to see the harsh and poor environment my mother grew up in. Life was tough back then, and even currently living in Mauritius. It made me realize how blessed I am to be where I am today. To be living in such a beautiful country like Canada and to be able to travel as often as I do. The experience gave me a better understanding of who my mother is and the reasoning behind the things that she does. People do things for a reason, whether or not it is logical to an outside observer, there is always logic or personal reasoning behind the actions we choose to do.
Reflection
Winter Wonderland, Hyde Park, London, UK.
It's been 18 days since I've been back in Victoria and reverse culture shock is finally wearing off. I have been so depressed being back in Victoria because I've been living in the past; In London time. It's time to put it all behind me, take what I've learnt and use it in the present and future. I will still truly miss the UK and will return one day, but for now, I am in Canada and that is where I will remain for at least the next 5 months. My watch is still set to London time; It's probably time I changed it to Canadian time. As I say this, I need to let go... let go of certain people. I didn't know that it could ever be this hard to let go. Just writing this, hurts. But what do they say? "If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours forever. If it doesn't then it was never meant to be." Things always have a way of working itself out. For now, it's time to move on.
Running.
Seaford, East Sussex, U.K.
Have you ever been to a place and thought, 'man, I really want to go for a run here.'? This thought has occurred to me in several places. Number 1: Dallas Road, Victoria, B.C. Canada. Number 2: Stanley Park, Vancouver, B.C. Canada. and number 3: Seaford, East Sussex, U.K.