Hello, I really really dislike asking for money but now that I am in such a tight situation I’m afraid I’ve got no choice at this point…
Not many people know about this, but I’ve run away from home since July. I come from a home where a lot of abuse happened (even though they don’t recognise it as abuse). I’d rather not get into details, but let’s say that didn’t do very good on me. Not only that, but my mother doesn’t accept my relationship and has given numerous death threats to my boyfriend, either directly or indirectly (to me, his family, etc.). The Thai community is very much spread in my country, which is Belgium, and my mum, being one of the pioneers, knows pretty much everyone even beyond this country. We know she’s currently creating a group of people ready to look for us and beat up my bf. She’s incredibly manipulative and good at this kind of stuff, so I know it’s pretty easy for her to do this. At the moment our official addresses are at our former homes but the moment we change that, she can track us down using her many connections.
We’ve tried to find a solution for this but really, we’re at a loss. All we can do is hide and hope my mum somehow calms down. We’ve been hiding since April, while I pretended I was living at my dorm (which was part of the plan to prepare for running away).
Hiding sounds like a pretty easy thing to do, but it isn’t. It requires a lot of money, and connections that we don’t have in the current region we’re in. Right now, we pay €50 a day to stay at a hotel, and €600 a month to rent a small car (because we cannot buy one, because mum, and we seriously need it). This is €1500 a month, and that doesn’t even include food and gas (for the car). My boyfriend currently earns €1500 a month while I am still looking for a job, which is hard to do in my current situation, or become a webdev freelancer. We’ve managed to survive all those months because of my savings, but I’ve only got so little left we can’t make it until the end of this month while he’s in debt (which we need to get rid of ASAP).
A car (€750 a month, including gas, which will decrease once we have a home)
Money to live in this hotel for as long as we can’t find a home (€50 a day)
Energy sources for said housing (€150 a month, we’re willing to miminise this)
Food (€300 a month, also willing to minimise)
Storage room, because my belongings don’t fit in the car (€60 a month, which will of course be gone once I have housing)
Optionally a second housing we actually live in, for further protection from my mum. First housing would be €300 a month instead and the second housing would be €500 a month. This would be the ideal situation but I don’t expect that to happen, sadly.
In total, we need €1650 to €2460 a month. My boyfriend’s debt is currently €2000, so that also needs to get paid off before he ends up in an official blacklist which would result to nobody wanting to take us to rent a home.
Let’s say that my endgoal is €10 000.
It’d help us have a headstart and actually be able to pay our first month of housing, since we can no longer afford that at the moment. It also gives us extra time to look for something in the first place. It’d also bring my bf out of debt.
You can donate any amount to my Paypal [email protected]. Any amount of money means everything to me. I wanted to start a GoFundMe but I cannot; it requires my location, real name, and verification of those. If anyone who knows me irl sees this, they may let my mum know.
Not into giving donations to a stranger? Not a problem, I totally understand really. You can do the following to help me out as well:
I’m willing to take art commissions. Of course, it may take some time to get something finished because I also do a lot of other things. Think of something like €20 for a coloured doodle to get an idea of my pricing. Feel free to contact me (either through here or my website which is mentioned underneath) if you are interested! (Also I have an art blog)
I also take website commissions and would LOVE to get those. This will also allow me to show more examples and have a better chance to become a full-fledged webdev freelancer. Of course, do expect those prices to not be all too cheap, but I can help you make a website with any budget (min. €200) you have. I can also make Tumblr themes. For both art and web commissions, please visit https://www.naseki.com.
You can also buy anime figurines from me! It’d also save a lot of space for me. I mainly sell scale figures and nendoroid parts at the moment. Check out my figure sale Twitter or my MyFigureCollection sale list which is more up-to-date. For nendoroid parts, just contact me and I’ll show you what’s on sale.
If you have nothing to give me, that’s okay. In that case, I beg you to reblog/share this post.
If I don’t get enough money within a week. We will end up needing to sleep in the car, or worse, become homeless. I’d love to avoid this situation.
I’ll keep this post up-to-date, so you guys know how I’m doing. I don’t like talking about my life, but if someone donates me, that’s the least I can do in return.
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