Sanity Destroyer

I apologise for now being more or less inactive. I actually have a life offline.

[bookwyrmbutch]

stop replying to women expressing feminist thought with shit like "they're almost there 🥺" "the girls are waking up 🥺". it's so rude and patronizing and you're going to drive them away. think for a second

[drbased]

@thoughtscout exactlyyy

[epizootics-deactivated20240219]

can you imagine being an einstürzende neubauten roadie like Ohhhh my god i gotta move this big ass sheet of metal to the venue

[libertineangel]

Imagine being the guy who has to tune & mic up the shopping cart

[sanitydestroyer]

Post for the first time in ages and it's this.

Definitely know my priorities.

[troubled-guest]

I was tagged by @od-mora-do-mora to make a picrew (and it was really fun!!)

I tag @mierinxeronaile @lifebooks @rabbuy6 @cryptidoutlaw @psykonautt

[caffeinatedrosary]

Don't mind if I join:

I tag @pink-moonkitten @abandonedcitygnome @valiantlydecadentsuit2 @thelegendofsqam

[theramblinggnome-deactivated202]

Aww thanks @caffeinatedrosary ! 😊

I'll tag @rachelillustrates @roseblood-coquette

[cherry-cola-chica]

Awwww Tysm @abandonedcitygnome !

I’m tagging @abruxadafortuna @bipolarwitchcraft and @undomielrising !

[waxandwanewitchery-deactivated2]

So cute! Thank you. <3

Tagging: @septembersghost, @christinedaae, @elizabethbythesea, @mamaangiwine, and @stormborn-wanderer.

[christinedaae]

"hey jamie whose hand is that"

wouldn't you like to know!!!

thank you for tagging me, sweetheart! I shall tag @wildeyedsapphic, @apprenticemockingbird @dapurinthos, @onetrueharem, @onionjulius, and @bidonica if they are feeling up to it!!! (and anyone else if they feel so inclined!!)

[bidonica]

Thank you for the tag Jamie! Took a little break at work to do this lol

Tagging @kecharitomene, @seadem-on, @the-mad-woman-in-the-attic, @coltellini, @nobodysuspectsthebutterfly

[the-mad-woman-in-the-attic]

@bidonica Thank you for tagging me! 😊

Tagging @lookthetart, @scumlafeccia, @demonska, and anyone else who wants to join.

[scumlafeccia]

thank you so much @the-mad-woman-in-the-attic!!!

tagging @cisgenderenemy, @ladyalienist, @nobleelfwarrior, and whoever else wants to join!!

[ladyalienist]

Thanks @scumlafeccia, that's adorable!

(Fun fact, I have a slightly different version of this picrew as a propic for a different thing hehe)

I'm tagging @lilleisak, @drachenstochter and whoever else wants to jump on the train!

[miralleqro]

This was fun!!! ✨✨✨

Tagging @annielesterf @hieriscurtisii @thefrenchrudefem and @feral—bog—witch (if you see this cause it won’t let me tag you!)

[differentbearpizza-deactivated2]

It was so fun !! Thank you for tagging me 🥺❤️

I'm tagging @vuvaliniterf & @athenawasamerf & @punishedmvamii

[athenawasamerf]

I never actually did one of these before!

I’m tagging @rad-reader , @rad-siren , and whoever wants to join!

[rad-reader]

Thanks for the tag! I've never actually done one of these before either.

I'm tagging @laughingbirdsbeak ❤️

[thelaughingbird]

Tag, @feministclassicist

[sanitydestroyer]

I'll tag @radgalacticacrew - hope that's okay!

[radgalacticacrew]

I'll tag @lavenderfeminist @wickedwitchofthewesninski @midnight-express @pip-pig-ap @forwomenbiwomen and anyone else who wants to! :)

[sanitydestroyer]

MFW this was so long ago I still had my undercut LOL.

[dankmemeuniversity]

[fifty-shadesofgay]

i just astral projected back to 2009

[yesornopolls]

users from outside usa, do you find online spaces too americanised? (please add "see results" option OP <3)

Users from outside the USA, do you find online spaces too Americanised?

Yes

No

I'm American

Voting ended onJun 30, 2024

[sanitydestroyer]

Oh no doubt about it...

Fun fact for the day:

[v4mporino]

ask game

1. whats your favorite thing in your room?

2. how tall do you wish you were?

3. what color is your hair?

4. whats a rare fear that you have?

5. are you single?

6. has your heart ever been broken?

7. what was your favorite thing as a kid?

8. favorite coping mechanism?

9. whats your favorite love language?

10. how often do you get nervous?

11. if you had three wishes, would you use them?

12. if you could be fluent in any language which one would it be?

13. where do you wish to live?

14. what’s something surprising about you?

15. when did you last shower?

16. when did you first join tumblr?

17. do you want any tattoos? if so, where, what, and why?

18. whats the most prominent dream youve had?

19. whats your dream job?

20. whats your ideal date?

21. what do you wish you could do better?

22. what country would you live in if you could?

23. whos the best person you know?

24. have you ever walked into something you shouldnt have?

25. whats your favorite holiday?

26. when have you been most embarrassed?

27. whats your favorite halloween costume?

28. what are you best at?

29. do you know how to tie your shoes?

30. do you have siblings?

31. if you could know one thing about the future what do you wanna know?

32. whats a dealbreaker for you?

33. whats your favorite current class?

34. how many people have you dated?

35. how often do you wash your hair?

36. do you daydream? what about?

37. where do you go to be alone?

38. which parent do you like more?

39. whats the one standard you hold yourself to?

40. whos voice do you enjoy?

41. if you could announce one thing to the world what would it be?

42. whats one thing you wanna do but havent yet?

43. what do you wish you never did?

44. do you believe in life after death?

45. do you prefer book over movie?

46. whats your favorite season?

47. whats your favorite time of day

48. do you have a beloved stuffed animal?

49. whens a time you wish you acted differently?

50. what’s something you wish that you never bought?

51. do you have your own room?

52. whats your favorite book?

53. who’s someone you hate?

54. whats your best hottake?

55. whats your favorite game?

56. whens a time you felt real genuine fear?

57. are you a morning person?

58. do you drink enough water?

59. how different are you from the little kid you used to be?

60. do you enjoy tumblr?

61. have you ever had a tumblr experience that made you wanna delete the app?

62. whats your least favorite game?

63. were you a markiplier fan?

64. how do you respond to compliments?

65. whats something that would make you fall in love?

66. do you believe in marriage?

67. do you have a crush on someone?

68. do you like tumblr?

69. were you a voltron stan?

70. whats your favorite ship?

71. whats your favorite song?

72. do you like loud crowds?

73. have you ever created conflict on purpose?

74. how do you sleep?

75. do you bite your lips?

76. do you use chapstick?

77. do you have any pets?

78. what color are your eyes?

79. what’s something you wish you could change about yourself?

80. have you ever had surgery?

81. whats your least favorite animal?

82. whats something that youre really bad at?

83. do you have an sqishmellows?

84. do you enjoy fast food?

85. do you like soda?

86. what grade are you in?

87. do you wear any jewelry?

88. what socials do you use?

89. whats your lowest grade in school right now?

90. whats the latest youve stayed up till?

91. did you ever have bangs?

92. what trends did you hate?

93. whats your favorite item of clothing?

94. do you like dinosaurs?

95. whats your opinion on body hair?

96. whats your least favorite time?

97. do you make a wish at 11:11?

98. do you have your phone on military or regular?

99. have you ever been to church?

100. are you lgbtq?

[boyfriendtvcom]

Design what your blog would look like if it was a person!

The picrew

I tag @red-skady @superchat @eviligo @maplepastry @nek0hime13 @bestgirlsyndrome @gentlesakura @games2girlsdotcom @deadlycoffee @bunny-stickers @starbitsun @888lvl @little-ikea-waldo @delanore-roosevelt @fefeps @imnevernice no pressure at all!!

If anyone else wants to join dont hesitate to reblog!!

[h56t0rd012388a]

This is... absurd to say, but okay. Have my blog as a person. (url)

@ethaneldritch @lantenne @zadle @unearthlore @ruikan Plus whoever wants to do it, I'm curious to see

[ethaneldritch]

what a cool picrew!! this one has a ton of options, and is really horror design-friendly! thank you for the tag :D

tagging @seashellnautilus, @indianampasta, @heavensmortuary, @hard-times-paramore, and @butterflies-and-bumble-bees. No pressure, come give it a try!

[butterflies-and-bumble-bees]

so it's got butterflies, arts n crafts, cute animals, a little bit of weird, and Christian headcovering, and bugs and flowers and jesus

@cursedchildofchaos @daughter-of-mary @sunglassesbot @misery-milk @tinfoil-catholic @youjustfeelthemforever

[misery-milk]

Horribly unsettling in a cute & sassy way 💕

@mathair-thiomanta @tolovaj @legitimately @katoprofen @the-gotheltic-rowan @gingerbreadwife

[tolovaj-escaped-deactivated2025]

I guess like this. Thank you for tagging!

@sar3nka @vampiregf @njoofra @propalitet @channelworldbluez

[channelworldbluez]

Trust me this makes sense if you scroll through my blog for a couple of minutes

Uhhh fine I’ll tag @awomanswrath @recycled-cotton-knit @radicalstoner @loser-tomboy

(Yall can ignore if you want😣)

[loser-tomboy-deactivated2024063]

Food and cats with a black and pink theme seems pretty accurate!

I tag @swaglet @shiqqy @uncomfortablecliche @hauntedcatcafe @meowmiaomiau @femalemalice

[libracorpvs]

not tagged but i'm doing it anyway

[sanitydestroyer]

Well this one was super fun.

This blog has seen some shit.

[socialmaya]

[suchcrispwhimsy]

ultimate laxative

[sanitydestroyer]

[lookataleaf3000]

for women, pattern recognition and gut feelings is survival instinct. recognizing that someone is behaving in some way like a predator you’ve known (etc) literally keeps you alive and healthy. that’s actually even the biological “point” of being triggered when you have ptsd – your body is giving you an intense signal to get the fuck away from something that has hurt you before. obviously, with ptsd its maladaptive, and the trigger itself doesn’t have to mean anything real or patterned if it was based on a very specific situation. but the most basic form of this is pure self protection. the nagging feeling that asks you to move across the street when a large figure is walking a little too close behind you. jumping out of your skin when you hear a raised and angry male voice nearby. a little pit of despair forming when you see rhetoric that seems eerily similar to the frameworks your rapist used to justify himself, deflect blame, or communicate his reasoning for violence against you. your body tensing and freezing when you start to feel guilty or pressured into sex. your heart beating a little faster when… your face getting red if…  an unheatlhy response to this is to move through the world in fear (and GUILT for feeling fear) constantly with no way of making sense of it, individualizing violence, ignoring the way individual experiences of violence intersect with one another forming webs. a healthy response is retaining the ability to make connections and make meaning of the conditions under which women live – talking to other women and noticing which experiences you share. really actively allowing yourself to see what keeps happening. its healing to know you’re not alone. its self defense to believe yourself. listening to your body’s signals as best you can – and yeah, i know that trauma can often make that really hard, make your body feel distant and immaterial. but it really is still there, waiting for you. when i see someone urging women (using really convincing language) to repress their ability to recognize patterns and listen to our bodies and express our realities, i think, in what way would this person benefit from us repressing trust in our own perceptions? why am i being asked to take theirs on as my own? an open ended question without a black and white answer. but sometimes, a feeling is enough.

[renegade-hierophant-deactivated]

Old Church Slavonic and Glagolitic memes I made myself years ago

[tytonidyke]

These are so fun to make

[tytonidyke]

@thedisablednaturalist @fagtabulous

Ask and you shall receive!

[inthefallofasparrow]

[tytonidyke]

Love your additions! Birds got that drip

[tytonidyke]

Oh yeah should probably add this one too-

[mist-the-wannabe-linguist]

I’ve never done this before

[inthefallofasparrow]

[inthefallofasparrow]

[floral-hydrate]

Sorry this is the best post I’ve seen in a while

[floral-hydrate]

I’ll leave this post alone now

[mist-the-wannabe-linguist]

This is way too much fun

[floral-hydrate]

I’m not done yet I suppose

[inthefallofasparrow]

[floral-hydrate]

[floral-hydrate]

no no no you dont get it this is all i wanna do now. I love birds I love them I love them

[octy-in-boots]

[octy-in-boots]

[inthefallofasparrow]

[inthefallofasparrow]

[floral-hydrate]

Here’s another

[floral-hydrate]

Your local pigeon

[inthefallofasparrow]

[nicoroni]

@todaysbird

[gaysie]

[that-house]

[gingeremo]

[crabs-and-bongos]

[magpie-to-the-morning]

[mutant-distraction]

[russiawave]

[lowgardn]

Tumblr is trying so hard not to let me post the funniest lent picture I've ever seen but I don't give up easy

[lowgardn]

[sanitydestroyer]

These two beautiful reblogs made me physically weep:

1.

2.

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Don't know if I have any Catholic furs following me but if I do, don't forget: NO VORE ON FRIDAYS. God bless!

[fathergyn]

this reminds me of the study where they found that women who engage in self-objectification didn’t feel as cold in lower temperatures as women who didn’t. viewing yourself as an image instead of a person literally takes you out of your body on a visceral level.

[toddstool]

[emeritusprofessorofnothing]

My friend and I were just talking about how so many beauty rituals require a level of dissociation from your body to endure. Like having something glued to your nails or glued to your eyelashes or having someone else's hair sewn to your head. Your body is no longer yours, but a vehicle to carry stuff for other people's consumption. And women do this over and over again without flinching. There has to be a level of dissociation with that to endure the discomfort.