“You’re taking away Tony, who was literally so influential in Peter’s arc and essentially helped create the spider-man that we see in the mcu. If you take Tony away from Peter, then you don’t have the spider-man that we have.”
That’s essentially the problem with MCU!Peter. OP doesn’t seem to realize this managed to expose how this version of Peter is so reliant on another character that he (apparently) can’t stand on his own. Everything in the post works as a counterpoint where it seems like every sentence has Tony’s name in it. Peter has become a secondary character with name recognition but no identity of his own. Even in his own story and movies.
It seems like OP is putting 100% of the blame on Sony when it’s Disney/Marvel that integrated the character they don’t own and made that character tied too closely to another. They wrote themselves into a corner. Of course this is all relevant only if you aren’t a Tony stan since this post is essentially all about Tony and how Sony is “insulting his memory.” Nevermind the actual character, Peter. I truly wonder what their reaction would be had Peter not been set up to fail as a character tied to Tony. I’m assuming they wouldn’t care as much, if at all, considering there are shades of that in OP’s post.